Decide.

Such a hard word to figure out, isn’t it?

To decide on something feels so permanent. Final. Like crossing a line you can’t come back from. And yet, in reality, we change our minds all the time. That’s part of being human. Still, we often make the mistake of evaluating our decisions through the lens of absolutes...using words like always and never.

We look at the future as if one choice locks in our path forever. Or when something changes, we assume what once was will never return. That’s where the phrase “burn the ships” comes in.

The phrase originates from the story of Hernán Cortés, the Spanish conquistador who landed in Mexico in 1519. Faced with unrest among his crew and fear of retreat, Cortés ordered the ships to be scuttled and burned. There would be no turning back. His men had one choice: move forward.

Most of us aren’t landing in a foreign land preparing for conquest, but we are faced with decisions every day that shape our direction. So the question becomes:

• Which decisions should I commit to long term?

• Which decisions should I hold with flexibility and revise as I go?

• And how can I stop thinking in absolutes and start living in a daily posture of trust in God?
   

1. What should I commit to long term?

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment.
And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
— Matthew 22:37–40

This is the one decision you can stake your life on: Love God and love others. There’s no expiration date on that. No scenario where it goes sour. Jesus said everything else hangs on this. If you’re looking for a rock-solid commitment to build around, this is it.

2. Which decisions should I be willing to revise daily?

“A man had two sons. He went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work in the vineyard today.’
‘I will not,’ he answered, but later he changed his mind and went.
Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, ‘I will, sir,’ but he did not go.
Which of the two did what his father wanted?”  The First.
— Matthew 21:28–31

We’ve all made impulsive choices. We've said things we didn’t follow through on. Sometimes we commit too quickly, other times not quickly enough. The good news? God gives grace and space to change your mind.

It’s not weakness. It’s maturity. The son who reversed course did the Father’s will. So should we—whenever our hearts tell us it’s time to make things right.

3. How can I think less in absolutes and more in a posture of daily trust in God?

“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
— Matthew 6:34 

Here’s a truth we all know deep down: Change is one of the only guarantees in life. We resist it, we fear it—but it keeps showing up. Jesus reminds us to stop living in tomorrow and start showing up for today.

So take a breath. Slow down. Walk with God today. Give this 24 hours your full attention and effort. Leave space for God to work in tomorrow’s unknown. Easier said than done, yes, but often all we need is a little reminder.

So—Decide.

Your decisions matter. They shape your life, your relationships, and your walk with God. Some decisions deserve bold, lifelong commitment. Others need to be held with humility and surrendered to the Spirit’s correction.

If you’re facing a crossroads today, don’t move forward alone. Ask Jesus to guide you through His words in Matthew. He still speaks, and He still leads for those who ask.

-Mark

Real Urgency.

Today, I had lunch with a man I believe to be a living legend, Dr. Duke Heller. He’s likely the oldest living pioneer in the field of dental implants, a global award-winner, a published author, a generous influencer who’s shaped university dental programs, a mentor to high-profile college coaches, and a friend to some of the biggest voices in personal development.

But here’s the most powerful thing: Duke has used every bit of that influence not for his own glory, but to spread the love and truth of the gospel. He’s led thousands to Christ. Not just from the pulpits or conference stages he's spoken through, but through one-on-one conversations, right across the table from someone like me. At 87 he isn't slowing down.  He's just released another book, speaking at more conferences than ever, and volunteering consistently with multiple outreach groups. I learned a lot today, but here are the top 3.

Wisdom from Duke:

1. Time is Short—And Eternity is Real.
I said that Dr. Heller is 87. He’s seen friends, family, and colleagues pass on. Some expectedly, others suddenly. The reality? Life is fragile. The days we’re given are uncertain and few. We must live with the urgency of eternity. Sharing Jesus isn’t something we can keep putting off. It’s the most important thing we can do.

2. One Bold Question Can Open the Door.
Duke looked me in the eye today and said, “Can I ask you a personal question?”
I said yes.
“Can you tell me the exact time you accepted Christ as your Lord and Savior?”
That question hit me. Not because I didn’t know the answer, but because of the power it carried. It can spark deep reflection on that moment or open a conversation that changes someone’s life forever. Sometimes, it only takes one Spirit-led question to shift someone’s entire eternity.

3. There’s No Time Left for Fear.
I spent years afraid to talk to friends and family about Jesus. I didn’t want to be “that guy” or seem weird. I was fine playing it safe. But now? I can’t imagine keeping quiet. I still struggle sometimes, especially with people close to me, but God is working on that in me.
And here’s the truth: we have the answer to eternal life. How can we justify keeping it to ourselves?

Duke gave me some of his personal resources today I plan to read. But more than that, he gave me a living example of selfless giving—of what it looks like to finish life well.

So why write this?
To honor a man who isn’t coasting into the sunset but sprinting across the finish line with purpose and passion. And to remind you (and myself) that we are called to live with real urgency. Our purpose isn’t just about this life. It’s about preparing ourselves and others for the life to come.

If you're like me—sometimes afraid, sometimes unsure—ask the Holy Spirit for courage and wisdom. He’ll give it. And when in doubt… be like Duke!

-Mark

More than a Meal.

Have a Meal!

Last Saturday night, I had the joy of sitting down to a traditional five-course Italian meal prepared by a great friend and his wife. There were six of us around the table.  Let me tell ya, they went all out. Every dish was cooked to perfection and brought out in a perfectly timed sequence. You could taste the love in every bite. I wish I could cook like that!

But as amazing as the food was, the best part of the evening wasn’t on the plate. It was around it. It was in the conversation. In the laughter. In the stories. There’s something powerful about sharing a meal with people you care about. When you break bread together, you also break barriers. Issues are explored, opportunities are vetted, and life is lived out in real time bite by bite. 

It’s no wonder Jesus so often chose meals as moments for ministry. Of all the things the gospel writers could have shared, many of the most memorable scenes take place around a table. Here are just a few:

• The Calling of Levi (Matthew’s Banquet)
  Matthew 9:10–13; Mark 2:15–17; Luke 5:29–32
  Jesus eats with tax collectors and sinners at Levi’s house, angering the religious elite, but offering grace to the hungry and broken.

• Meal After the Disciples’ Mission Trip
  Mark 6:30–31
  After sending the disciples out to preach and heal, Jesus brings them back together to rest and to eat.

• Dinner at Martha and Mary’s House
  Luke 10:38–42
  Jesus dines at the home of His friends. While Mary sits at His feet and Martha serves, the table becomes a place of teaching and tension and grace.

• The Last Supper
  Matthew 26:17–30; Mark 14:12–26; Luke 22:7–39; John 13–17
  This wasn’t just a meal. It was a moment that changed history. Jesus used bread and wine to illustrate the coming sacrifice of His body and blood. These were His final words before the cross.

Jesus did more than just eat at these meals. He taught, challenged, comforted, and loved. And He still does.

Meals have a way of slowing us down. They quiet our scattered thoughts and center us in the moment. The table gives us space to pray, talk, listen, and really see the people around us. In a world where we’re always on the move, these opportunities are rare, but they’re worth making time for.

So this week, make the effort. Carve out time. Invite a friend. Have a real meal. Let Jesus pull up a chair at your table. You might be surprised by what He reveals in the breaking of bread.

And to my incredible friends who made that night so special—thank you. You know who you are.

-Mark

In Common

Have you ever sat down with someone you just met and, after an hour, felt like you’d known them for years?

That happened to me this morning. A connection through a mutual friend turned into one of those conversations that just flows. We had plenty in common.  A similar background in our industry, a shared faith in Christ, both raising kids, both trying to lead well at home and at work. There was a lot of overlap.

But one thing stood out: we both shared the common struggle of doing hard things that require faithful steps into the unknown. That journey — walking into fog with trust instead of clarity — is something not everyone understands.

Because here’s what all humans have in common: a deep desire for clarity and some sense of control. We want to know what’s next. We want to feel secure. We want certainty.

But here’s what not everyone has in common: a faith that trusts God even when the path is uncertain. A faith that holds fast when the answers aren’t clear. A belief that God is in control even when we are not — that He provides, has a plan, and is working for our good even when nothing makes sense.

That’s uncommon faith. And when you meet someone who shares it, when what is rare in the world becomes shared at the table, something powerful happens. There’s a supernatural confidence. A spiritual alignment. Jesus said, “Where two or three are gathered in My name, there I am in the midst of them.” How true that is.

So today, if you’re walking a road that demands uncommon faith, here are a few verses to remind you that you’re not walking alone — and that what you have in Christ, though uncommon in the world, is shared by others who are following Him faithfully too:

Mark 5:34

This verse shows a woman who had exhausted every other option. Nothing else had worked — but she still believed Jesus could heal her.

“He said to her, ‘Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.’”

Romans 4:20–21

Abraham’s faith in God’s promise didn’t waver — even when obedience seemed to contradict that promise.

“Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God… being fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised.”

Daniel 3:17–18

The faith of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego went beyond this world. They trusted God would deliver — but even if He didn’t, they would not bow.

“Our God whom we serve is able to deliver us… But if not, be it known to you, O king, that we will not serve your gods.”

Hebrews 11:7

Noah had never seen rain. No one believed him. But for 120 years, he kept building. Faith isn’t always flashy — sometimes it’s just long obedience in the same direction.

“By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family.”

Remember this: what we share in Christ is sometimes foreign to the world. Our faith might look foolish. Our obedience might look risky. But we know there’s more to this life than what’s visible, and that makes sense to us.

So from time to time, sit with someone on the same path. Talk. Pray. Listen. Be reminded that you're not alone in the uncommon. What we have in common as believers is special, and it gives us energy and confidence to keep going.

-Mark

Just Persevere.

Many times in leadership or in roles where creation or business is the focus, difficult seasons have a way of lingering longer than we’d like. So, we innovate. We make the necessary changes. We do our best to stay positive.

But we’re human. And eventually, the extra effort starts to wear us down.

Lately, I’m hearing this story from many business owners and leaders. It’s been a tough stretch across many industries over the past several years. Some leaders have risen to the occasion. Others have walked away in search of a simpler path forward.

Both of those responses are normal. They’ve repeated themselves throughout history. As the wise Solomon once said, "There is nothing new under the sun."

But if you’re reading this and you're feeling the strain, yet deep down you know you’re called to this path, my best advice is this:
Just persevere.

Let’s define that for a moment:

per·se·vere: to persist in a state, enterprise, or undertaking in spite of counterinfluences, opposition, or discouragement. To continue in a course of action even in the face of difficulty.

For those of us who started something, chose to be part of something, or felt called to a particular field, difficulty was part of the deal. It was never a reason to quit.

Most of us began this journey knowing it wouldn’t be easy… but we believed it would be worth it. Any mission worth pursuing will require risk. It will demand hard work. That’s why we keep showing up, even when it feels like no one sees, no one cares, or when we ourselves wonder if it will make a difference.

Still—we press on.

The Bible has something to say about moments like these:

James 1:12

“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.”

Leaders often face trials. James connects perseverance with eternal reward—encouraging us to stay faithful under pressure.

Galatians 6:9

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”

A powerful call to persistent leadership—especially when fruit isn’t immediately visible.

Romans 5:3–4

“We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”

These seasons are not wasted. They shape your character and deepen your hope—critical for leaders becoming more like Christ.

So if this is you today, count the pressure you’re under as formation. Your character is being refined. And yes, you do have hope.

If the mission you’re on was a chosen one, remember what you love about it. When your heart first decided on it, something stirred in you. Don’t forget that. Revisit your calling. Reclaim your joy, even in the difficulty.

Stand the test of time.

When the season of reaping comes, you’ll look back on these trials with gratitude. They’ll become the stories you tell, and some of your proudest memories. So examine your mission again. And if it still passes the test of your heart…

Just persevere.

-Mark

Secret Service.

This morning, my wife and I had the joy of serving with The Bridge Ministries in downtown Columbus. It was a full house—between 80 and 90 guests came through the doors for a hot meal. It was a blessing to be part of it.

There’s really nothing like serving others freely. The effort is never wasted. The conversations are always interesting. The bond that forms between those we serve, those serving alongside us, and even between ourselves and God is something sacred.

And here’s the secret: every time we open our calendars and our hearts to serve, we are the ones who are served.

The Holy Spirit has a way of showing up when we decide to pour ourselves out for others. This morning, I had the chance to sit and talk with a 36-year-old man named Ed. I heard his story. Where he came from, how he ended up in Columbus, and what he hopes for in the future. From the outside, Ed and I may seem like we’re worlds apart. But in that moment, we really connected. We prayed together. We saw and heard one another, not as strangers, but as brothers in Christ.

The Bible encourages us to cherish these moments:

“Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring… you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.”
— James 4:13–14

“Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
— Matthew 6:34

“Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.”
— Romans 12:16

“When you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed…”
— Luke 14:12–14

Today, I was given the gift of being fully in the present, not concerned about what came next, but focused on the moment right before me. There was so much freedom in that. Sitting, listening, and praying with someone who lives a very different life, but meeting him in that moment, on level ground, was a blessing for us both.

This is the secret service that happens inside the heart when we give freely. God ministers to us in those hidden spaces. He does something quiet but powerful. Something eternal.

Let’s not take these moments for granted. Let’s model the heart of God—not only in what we do publicly, but in how we open our hearts privately.

As we head into the final stretch of the week, let’s find ways to serve. You never know how God might meet you there.

-Mark

The Punch List.

Getting It Done

Many times throughout the week, I find moments to sit back and plan. Other times… not so much.

There’s rarely a perfect balance between knocking out the real, immediate things right in front of us and following a perfectly orchestrated game plan. It just doesn’t work that way.

Mike Tyson is famous for saying, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.” He’s right. And unfortunately for us, life seems to enjoy throwing punches...daily.

While we aim to stay focused on what matters most, the little “punch list” items don’t take care of themselves. They pile up. They distract. They steal focus. And yet, they still need to get done.

Today, I started my morning by tackling some of those lingering tasks. The ones that aren’t glamorous but make a big difference in clearing mental clutter. As I moved through them, I began to reflect on what Scripture has to say about work, effort, and the value of getting things done.

Here are a few verses that stood out:

Proverbs 14:23

“In all toil there is profit, but mere talk tends only to poverty.”
This gives me peace. Each task, whether big or small, holds value when done with the Lord by our side. Too much talk and not enough action? That’s the enemy robbing us of purpose.

Ecclesiastes 9:10

“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going.”
This encourages me to approach even tactical, everyday tasks with intentional effort. Nothing is too small in God’s eyes.

1 Corinthians 10:31

“So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
Even in the most basic daily tasks like eating or drinking can glorify God. He designed our needs. He created nourishment. And He wants to share in those ordinary moments with us.

John 4:34

“Jesus said to them, ‘My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to accomplish his work.’”
Even Jesus, with His ultimate mission, had normal work to do. I imagine He still had to take out the trash from time to time. That grounds me. I don’t want to take those moments for granted.

So today, if you find yourself lost in the mundane or stuck in the monotonous—know this:
God is with you.
He’s walking through the routine right alongside you. He designed it. He understands it. And He’s glorified in it.

There is purpose in the process, and there is glory in even the smallest acts of obedience.

So whatever you’re working on today, turn your attention to Him, and see how He responds!

-Mark

We Remember

Memorial Day is a powerful reminder. A sacred pause to remember those who have sacrificed everything on behalf of others. Deep within us, there is something instinctive, something honorable, that stirs when we think about those who have made the decision to serve, knowing full well that the possibility of death lies before them. And yet, they choose to serve anyway.

They are drawn to something greater. Drawn to the servant-hearted call of protecting a cause larger than themselves. For them, the possibility of ultimate sacrifice is not something to be avoided. It’s a price they consider worth paying.

I am supremely grateful to the men and women who have made that decision. Today, I’m praying for them, and for the families and friends left behind. Because their sacrifice echoes far beyond the battlefield. It lingers in the lives of loved ones, in empty seats at the dinner table, in quiet tears and proud memories. To all who carry that weight: thank you.

On this Memorial Day, I cannot help but reflect on how the brave lives we honor also mirror the ultimate sacrifice that Jesus made for us on the cross.

While the men and women we remember today gave their lives to protect us physically, Jesus gave His life to protect and redeem us spiritually for all eternity. He came not as a conquering king, but as a humble servant. He took on our nature. He bore our sin. He paid the ultimate price so that we might be forgiven and brought back into relationship with the Father.

Let’s read these powerful words from Philippians 2:5–11 together:

In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!
Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
— Philippians 2:5–11

Jesus humbled Himself.
He served.
He sacrificed.
And because of that, He is exalted forever.

Today, we honor those who have sacrificed for us in a lesser but still sacred way.
They too humbled themselves.
They served.
They sacrificed.
And they deserve to be held in a place of honor and deep esteem.

Their actions reflect some of the very same qualities our Lord Jesus Christ displayed. Today we remember the fallen, and we lift up the families who carry their legacy.

And above all, we stay focused on the hope and glory of Jesus Christ. Because of His sacrifice, we can be confident in where the men and women we honor today have had the opportunity to go: Home. With our Lord. In perfect peace and love.

Let us pray today not only for those who grieve, but for the living—that many would come to know this hope, this Savior, this love. So that one day, when our names are remembered here on earth, our souls might be rejoicing together in Heaven.

-Mark

Staying Hungry

I just left a meeting deeply inspired by three guys who are changing the game. They’re giving a generation of college and professional athletes a platform to magnify Christ and boldly share their faith with millions across the country.

The crazy thing? They don’t even realize how special it is, because they’re in the thick of it. Head down. Focused. Faithful. They’re using their gifts, talents, networks, and time to lift up others. They’re thinking of themselves last. While each of them has real personal needs, it’s the mission that carries them forward. That mission is the fuel that keeps them grinding.  I'm talking producing content, traveling, editing, and working at a pace most of us would buckle under.

These guys are hungry.

But not for food.
Not for money.
Not for recognition.

They’re hungry in the way Jesus described:

“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”
– Matthew 5:6

They’re seeking the Kingdom. Hungry to be useful to Jesus and His call to spread the gospel and make disciples. They’re doing it at a cost.

One walked away from career opportunities that most young men would jump at.

Another has a massive personal platform in the sports and media world, but spends countless hours editing, traveling, and shooting content for the ministry.

The third is using his business skills and data analytics to help the team stay focused, measuring impact, and ensuring the mission doesn’t drift.

Their lives remind me of another promise from Jesus:

“So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’
For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
But seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
– Matthew 6:31–33

I believe Jesus. And these men should take heart in His words.
They hunger and thirst for righteousness.
Jesus promises—they will be filled.
They are seeking first His Kingdom, and so, their needs will be met. Because their priorities are rightly ordered.

What I saw today was a deep level of trust in action. These guys are hungry to grow. They’re asking the right questions. They’re sharpening their skills. They’re not losing sight of the mission—they’re doubling down on it. The aim of their ministry is pure, and the effort they’re pouring into it is beautiful to witness.

It’s also a ton of fun to watch.

My businesses will be supporting their work in various ways. If you’re someone interested in partnering with or donating to a ministry that’s actively inspiring the next generation, I’ve listed their website and social media links below. Check them out. Support them. Share their story.

And most importantly—let their example inspire you.
Seek the Kingdom today, right where you are, in whatever you’re doing.

Because if we believe the words of Jesus, then we know this:

When we stay hungry for the right things—
We will be filled.
We will be a blessing.
And we will be blessed.

God bless you!

-Mark

"Who's the Wise Guy?"

Wise Guys...

Over the past two days, I’ve had eight face-to-face meetings with business partners within our Foundation. Each conversation was meaningful, each person unique. These are men and women undeniably called by God into distinct businesses and ministries, yet united by a common mission: to impact the world around them for Christ.

But my final meeting today stood out. It was a quiet personal meetup, and it was powerful.

This particular man has been a mentor and coach to me for the past two years. We haven’t spent tons of time together, but the time we have spent has been of the highest quality. He knows me. I mean to the core of me. My strengths and gifts. My goals and desires. My stories, both the inspiring ones and the messy ones.

Our conversation today touched on a lot of topics. But I paused to tell him something important.

Yes, he’s considerably older than me. Yes, he’s wise.
Yes, he’s trained to ask great questions and offer strong feedback.

But none of those are what make him unforgettable.

What he isn’t trained to do, what doesn’t show up on his résumé, is something you can see in his eyes the moment he sits across from you.

He cares.
He really, truly cares.

It’s in the way he looks at you. The way his eyes respond to the words you speak. The way he notices how you’re sitting, how your shoulders carry the day. The way he hears even what you didn’t say about the issues or opportunities you're discussing. 

He gives away what God has given him, not just on the outside—but from within. His presence is a gift. A donation of the heart. And that kind of offering can’t be measured. It’s priceless.

I saw two verses from Hebrews come to life in him today:

Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters. — Hebrews 13:1
Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. — Hebrews 13:7

May we each take something from this and apply it to our next conversation.

Let our goal not simply be to provide wisdom or insight.
Let our goal be to love. To care deeply for the person across from us.
Let us watch those who live out their faith well and let their lives be a beacon of hope to follow.

Thank you for the dedicated time today, and for being an example.
You know who you are.
I appreciate you, wise guy. 

-Mark

Seek More Trust…

This week, I’ve found myself in several conversations where one theme kept surfacing: clarity. People were either seeking it, asking for prayer that it would be revealed, or even struggling with what to do once they had it. Sound familiar? It does to me. I seek clarity all the time. If I’m being honest, I rarely ever find it.

It’s a very human thing to fear the future. So...we seek clarity. We wonder about what’s next, and we do our best to plan ahead in hopes of making things more secure. Clarity isn't a bad goal, but when it becomes our main pursuit, it can easily lead us to frustration and even paralysis.

A good friend of mine shared a story at lunch this week that brought some real perspective to this search for clarity. It involved a well-known figure of faith: Mother Teresa.

While on a mission trip, a group of people sat down to pray with her before heading out to serve. She asked what she could pray for, and the group asked her to pray that God would give them clarity about their long-term mission.

Her response?

No.

She refused to pray for clarity. But she didn’t refuse to pray.

Instead, she told them that she would pray for trust. That their trust in the Lord would grow, and that they would pursue a daily walk with Him into the work He had called them to. Why? Because long-term clarity and full knowledge of what’s ahead requires no faith. But trust, especially trust in the absence of full understanding, builds faith.

Faith grows not when we have all the answers, but when we take the next step anyway.

It reminded me of one of the most well-known and well-loved Proverbs:

Proverbs 3:5–6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

So, as we close the week, here’s my prayer for every set of eyes that makes it this far into this edition of the Daily Tithe:
That God would reveal just enough for our next steps to be firm, but hold back just enough to stretch our faith.
That we would have enough understanding to move, but need enough dependence to draw closer to Him.
And that in all things, Jesus would be glorified.

-Mark

Where's Your Focus?

Last night, my wife and I were blessed to have two friends and mentors over for dinner. Both are in pastoral ministry of their own kind and have become people we deeply trust. Whenever we sit with them, we know the conversation will be rich, and the wisdom timely.

I’ve noticed a pattern: I’ll often walk into our time together carrying some kind of weight. Concerns, questions, things I’m wrestling through. And by the end? I feel lighter. Refocused. Ready to take on whatever comes next.

Why?
Because they do something powerful: they help orient my focus back to God. Back to purpose. Back to the One who has full control over what will or will not play out.

Last night was no different. I shared a story I’ve been carrying for a few weeks...something I’ve been praying through, seeking clarity on. (Funny… we’re always seeking clarity. That’s probably a whole other article.) After listening, one of them gave it to me straight: “Stop focusing on the event. Focus on Christ—the one who had and has the power over what happened, and what happens next.”

Simple. But dramatic. A shift in focus that changed everything.

As I reflected more, I realized this isn’t a new concept. Jesus did this all the time. He consistently pulled people's focus off their immediate problem and pointed them to a deeper truth, a greater power, and an eternal perspective.

Here are just three quick examples:

1. Calming the Storm – Mark 4:35–41

“A great windstorm arose, and the waves were breaking into the boat… But he was in the stern, asleep on the cushion.”
“He awoke and rebuked the wind and said to the sea, ‘Peace! Be still!’”

• Focus Shift: The disciples panicked at the storm. Jesus was asleep, completely unbothered. When He woke, He didn’t react to the storm’s intensity. He simply rebuked it. Then He addressed their faith, not the storm. The storm isn’t the point. His power over it is.

2. Feeding the 5,000 – John 6:5–13

“Where are we to buy bread, so that these people may eat?”
Philip answered, ‘Two hundred denarii worth of bread would not be enough…’
“Jesus then took the loaves… gave thanks… and distributed them.”

• Focus Shift: The disciples focused on logistics—on what they lacked. Jesus focused on what they had. He doesn’t magnify the lack. He multiplies the little. 

3. Healing the Blind Man – John 9:1–7

“Who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?”
Jesus answered, “It was not that this man sinned… but that the works of God might be displayed in him.”

• Focus Shift: The disciples were looking for blame. Jesus looked for an opportunity for God’s glory. Jesus doesn’t dwell on the cause. He reveals the purpose.

We could keep going. Scripture is full of moments like these. The theme is clear: if you’re fixated on the obstacle in front of you, maybe it’s there for a reason. Maybe it’s your invitation to lean in—not to the problem, but to the presence and purpose of God.

So ask yourself:

• Are you dwelling on the issue, or turning your attention to the One who has authority over it?

• Are you trying to control outcomes, or resting in the One who already sees them?

• Are you focused on what’s missing, or what God might be doing with what’s already in your hands?

When we shift our focus to Jesus, putting our trust fully in Him and walking forward under His authority, things begin to change. The noise quiets. The meaning becomes clearer. And the weight we carried starts to feel lighter.

So…
Where’s your focus?

-Mark

Don’t Judge a Book…

Too many times in life, I’ve learned the lesson: don’t judge a book by its cover. But recently, I unlocked a deeper way of seeing both people and situations by tweaking that old saying just a bit.

Don’t judge a book by its cover. Judge it by its author.

Let’s break that down.

When we read a book, what gives it true power isn’t the design on the outside—it’s the intent, message, and experience embedded in its pages by the author. The same is true with people. We are physical beings, yes, but we do not author ourselves.

God does.

It’s God who places the potential and purpose inside every life, regardless of the packaging. And this isn’t just an idea...it’s truth, backed by His Word.

“But the LORD said to Samuel, ‘Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.’”
— 1 Samuel 16:7 

Wow. That hits.

When I think about my favorite books, I rarely remember whether they were hardcover or paperback, or what font was used. What I remember is the author. How they told the story, the emotion they captured, the way their words moved me. I follow my favorite authors. I look forward to what they’ll release next.

What if I applied the same method to how I see people?

What if I studied those around me? Not for their surface, but to understand their potential and discover what their Author is writing through them?

God is constantly at work—always telling new stories, always shaping hearts. He sees beyond the exterior and focuses on what’s within. We should too.

Lately, I’ve encountered some people who, at first glance, may not seem impressive. But I can feel something stirring. I see God beginning to work in their hearts, shifting their story and growing their influence. The world may not notice yet....but God does.

So today, if you catch yourself judging someone based on their "cover," take a step back. Consider the Author.

When it comes to people, God is the Author of life. He’s got something beautiful to say if we’re willing to turn the pages and look inside.

-Mark

It's All About Potential!

It’s All About Potential.

Today I had the chance to reflect on a concept that always hits hard when I evaluate my daily effort and the outcomes it produces. I pay a lot of attention to results. When things don’t measure up to expectations, I often head back to the drawing board to figure out what went wrong. I’m constantly looking for ways for our teams to improve, but if I’m honest, anything less than perfection often feels like failure.

And if I’m double honest, I’m not even sure what perfection really looks like. It’s like I’m hoping it’ll somehow hit me during the process, as if I’ll stumble into it by accident. I’m funny that way.

So what caught my attention this morning?

A mentor I deeply respect shared something during the Bible study he leads that made me pause. He brought up how God delivered instruction to humanity in the very first chapter of Genesis. Let’s look at the verse together—and as you read, remember these words:

It’s always been about potential, not perfection.

Genesis 1:28
"And God blessed them. And God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.’"

How do we see the potential?

• “Be fruitful and multiply” — a command to grow and reproduce.

• “Fill the earth and subdue it” — the Hebrew word for subdue (kabash) means to bring under control or steward.

This verse is often read as God giving humanity both a blessing and a responsibility—the sacred charge to care for and manage the earth.

But today, one word stood out to me: subdue.

The point my mentor made was this: If God had been focused only on perfection when He partnered with humanity in the garden, wouldn’t He have said “don’t touch it”?

Instead, He said subdue it. He gave us responsibility. He invited us into partnership. That means the world was filled with potential, and He trusted us to help shape it.

That truth helped me today.

God handed over responsibility, knowing the potential it would draw out of us. He placed us in a creation that needed to be subdued. Not because it was flawed, but because it had room to grow, just like we do.

So what does that mean for me?

As I work, especially in the missions I believe I’ve been called to, I can rest easy knowing that God never expected perfection from me. He entrusted me with responsibility knowing I would fall short sometimes. And yet, He still invited me to work with Him.

That gives me peace.

Because every day I show up and give my best, I honor Him. Even in imperfection, He is glorified—because He is perfect.

Thanks to Kuch and the fellas at MI3 this morning for helping me see something new.

Wishing you all a fantastic weekend—go enjoy that sunshine!

-Mark

"Looking Around" | This is Our Time

Birthdays. Why That Specific Day?

Today is my birthday.
It’s funny because I’ve never really given my birthday much thought. Being on Cinco de Mayo has always added some extra fun over the years, but ironically, I never go out for Mexican food on my birthday—the places are always packed!

As of today, I’m 41.
Just typing that feels strange. I can still remember turning 10 like it was yesterday. Then 16. 18. 21. 30.
How the heck did 41 come around so quickly?

Birthdays are mile markers in our lives. They give us reason to reflect. On where we’ve been, where we are, and where we’re headed.

I can remember being a kid. Everything was about looking forward.
Do you remember that? Looking forward to your birthday?
I can remember why I did. It was simple stuff. I loved the chocolate Entenmann’s donuts.
You know, the cheap ones on the end caps at the grocery store. I'd always ask my mom to get them for my birthday breakfast. She always did.

My dad would wake up early and sing this ridiculous song to us on our birthdays when we were kids. Eventually, everyone would join in. We opened presents in the morning, because with six kids in the house, the evenings were pure chaos. Sports, homework, and noise until we crashed into bed.

25 years ago today, my Grandpa drove down the street in his old truck to give it to me for my 16th birthday. An '84 Ford that I still have to this day. That truck and I are the same age. He died later that year, but every time I slide into that driver’s seat, the smell brings me back to rides with Grandpa when I was just 3 or 4 years old. That’s a birthday I’ll never forget.

As we grow older, birthdays shift.
They stop being about looking forward and start being about looking around—and eventually, looking back.

At 41, I find myself "looking around" a lot.

I’ve done quite a bit, but I’m not done.
I know more than I used to, but not nearly enough.
My desires have changed, but I still hold on to what was.
And when I look to the future…I’m more unsure than I’ve ever been.

It’s strange being in this in-between.
I still feel young in a lot of ways.
I know I don’t want to get old.
But somehow, this moment—this exact time and place—feels like it was made specifically for me.

And I didn’t realize that until I started walking more closely with Jesus in the day-to-day.
He doesn’t make mistakes.
Not with words. Not with lessons. Not with purpose.
And especially not with timing.

The God of the universe had a birthday, just like me.
His was intentional. Specific.
Mine may not be as consequential to the degree of eternity, but still—He stepped into time at a certain moment, just like I did.
He had a real purpose, just like I do. Just like you do.

And the best part?
Now that I’ve aligned my purpose with His, we’re just getting started.

There’s a Bible story that always moves me. The story of Esther.
A Jewish woman who becomes queen of Persia at a time when her people are in grave danger.
In Esther 4, her cousin Mordecai challenges her to act, saying:

“And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”
— Esther 4:14 (ESV)

That phrase echoes deeply: For such a time as this.

Maybe your gifts, your position, your experiences...maybe they were designed for this exact moment.
You were born for a reason. So was I.

We’re here for a purpose in the places we inhabit.
Our skills brought us to the industries, companies, and people we interact with.
Jesus knows exactly how He intends to move in our lives…if we’ll only let Him.

Birthdays have a funny way of surfacing thoughts like these.
I’m glad they do.

So, here’s to 42.
I don’t know exactly where it will go, but I do know who it will glorify.
And if I’m blessed with the full 365, I know whose purpose I’ll be serving.

I hope that at your next cosmic milestone, you’ll pause and reflect—and move forward—with Jesus by your side.

-Mark

Modern Parables

The Fisherman and the Businessman

Today’s story wasn’t chosen by me. It was handed to me, twice, from two different sources. That’s usually a sign that God wants me to hear something. And if that’s the case, I don’t want to leave you out. Maybe He wants you to hear it too!

It’s a story you may have heard. But it’s worth repeating.

There was a well-to-do American businessman in desperate need of a vacation. After pushing off a calendar full of meetings and responsibilities, he carved out time for a trip with his wife and kids to the Caribbean. They rented a beachside villa, packed their bags, and set off for a week of rest.

On their first day there, while sipping a drink under the sun, the businessman noticed a local fisherman heading to the beach. The man was skilled. Casting his line with ease, catching five large fish within a short time. Then, just as simply, he packed up and left.

The businessman noticed the same man return later in the day...this time with his family, laughing and enjoying the sunshine. The next day? Same routine. Catch a few fish. Head home. Spend time with loved ones.

By the third day, curiosity got the better of the businessman, and he struck up a conversation.

“I’ve watched you,” he said. “You catch just a few fish each day, then you’re done.”

The fisherman smiled. “It’s enough. A few for my family, a few to sell. We live comfortably.”

The businessman, intrigued, saw an opportunity.

“You know,” he began, “if you stayed out longer, caught more, you could sell more. In a month or two, you could afford a bigger boat. Then a second one. Eventually, you could build a small fleet, hire other fishermen, and grow a real operation.”

The fisherman raised an eyebrow. “And then?”

“Well,” the businessman continued, “you could start a distribution business, or open a restaurant. Then, once you scale enough, you wouldn’t have to fish at all. You’d just manage the company, maybe hire someone to do that, too.”

The fisherman smiled again. “And then what?”

“Then,” said the businessman with a sense of triumph, “You could relax. Spend time with your family. Enjoy the sunshine. Do what makes you happy.”

The fisherman chuckled and replied, “Sir… that’s what I’m doing right now.”

This modern-day parable is a gentle challenge to how we view success and contentment. I’ll be honest, I’m someone who sees good in chasing excellence. I've push hard throughout my career. Often to the point of exhaustion, but that's for another article. I believe in using our gifts fully and don't see anything wrong with that.

But I’ve noticed something: I tend to lose focus when I care more about what’s next than what’s now.

Maybe you’ve experienced that, too.

The truth is, God wants to meet us right where we are. Not just in the big plans for someday, but in the small, sacred moments of today. In the mundane. In the normal. In the overlooked.

Business teaches us to plan ahead. Next month’s pipeline, next quarter’s forecast, next year’s growth. And that’s not a bad thing. But don’t miss the ride. Don’t exchange what is for what could be.

I’m grateful this story found me again today.  And I hope it reaches you the way it reached me.

Have a fabulous weekend. Enjoy your family. Soak in the sunshine.

-Mark

Passing the Readiness Test

A Test of Readiness

Ok - this thing is called "Daily Tithe". Today let's compare a lesson that Jesus taught us and how tithing can assist us in passing the test of readiness.  

In Matthew 25, Jesus tells a striking parable about ten virgins awaiting the arrival of the bridegroom. All ten start in the same place—waiting with anticipation. But only five bring extra oil, prepared for a delay. The others, caught off guard when the bridegroom finally arrives, find themselves shut out of the wedding feast.

This isn’t just a story about oil or lamps—it’s about spiritual readiness. The parable reminds us that following Jesus isn’t only about how we start. It’s about how we continue. It’s about staying awake, staying filled, staying faithful—until the very end.

Tithing plays a quiet but powerful role in that spiritual readiness. When we tithe, we do more than give money—we shape our hearts. We build a rhythm of putting God first. With each tithe, we say, “Jesus, I’m living for You and Your Kingdom. I’m not living for myself.” It’s a regular declaration that our lives are aligned with eternity, not with temporary things.

This kind of readiness isn’t abstract. It’s not a hypothetical test—it’s our daily reality. Jesus could return at any moment. Or we could step into eternity at any moment. Life moves forward moment by moment, and while we don’t know when our final moment will be, we know it’s coming.

What makes readiness difficult today is not just sin—it’s distraction. The sheer volume of noise in modern life numbs our spiritual awareness. According to The Times, the average American spends roughly 2.5 hours per day on social media. Teenagers spend even more—nearly 5 hours per day. Add to that the average 2 hours a day watching television (with those over 65 watching over 4 hours daily), and we’re looking at over 31 hours per week of screen-based media. That’s the equivalent of more than 68 full 24-hour days each year—over two months spent consuming content instead of cultivating life.

This isn’t harmless background noise—it shapes us. It builds a rhythm, too—but one designed to distract, dull, and disconnect us from God. Left unchecked, this rhythm draws our attention away from what matters most and slowly erodes our readiness.

Tithing cuts through that noise. It establishes a counter-rhythm—one of surrender, priority, and trust. Most of us receive income on a consistent schedule. Tithing aligns that routine with divine purpose. It turns a paycheck into a spiritual practice. It takes something ordinary and infuses it with eternal significance.

Will tithing alone make every part of your life spiritually ready? Of course not. But it’s a step that invites more of God into your life. It’s a discipline that disrupts worldly monotony and creates space for holy awareness. It’s a practical act of devotion in a world full of distractions.

Let’s not be caught unprepared. Let’s be like the wise virgins, whose lamps were full and whose hearts were ready. Let’s live lives that declare: “Jesus, I know You are coming—and I’m living like it.”
Let’s pass the test of readiness—not by accident, but by intention.

-Mark

LEAN ON ME...AND YOU

Lean on Each Other’s Strengths

Most of us have taken some sort of strengths, gifts, or personality test at some point. It could have been StrengthsFinder 2.0, a spiritual gifts assessment, or something specific for your current role. These tools help us understand where we’re naturally wired to thrive. But here’s the thing: understanding your strengths is only the first step. Actually utilizing your strengths —and the strengths of those around you—is a whole different story.

In today’s world, it’s easier than ever to try doing things yourself. With a few clicks, you can watch a YouTube tutorial and learn how to complete nearly any task. That’s fine if time is unlimited. But for those of us with full plates and tight schedules, learning to lean on others and operate in community is not only efficient—it’s biblical.

Just today, I had the chance to help a friend lay the foundation for his new business venture. In just a couple of hours, we knocked out what might’ve taken him days to do alone. Why? Because the work was squarely in my lane of expertise. He’s done the same for me in the past—offering help in areas where I would have fumbled badly. That kind of mutual support is not just wise; it’s essential.

We weren’t made to do everything solo—especially the important things. Let’s look at some powerful biblical examples:

Bezalel and Oholiab – Skilled Craftsmen for the Tabernacle
Exodus 31:1–6; 36:1–2
God specifically chose and filled Bezalel and Oholiab with “the Spirit of God, with wisdom, understanding, knowledge, and all kinds of skills.” Their God-given craftsmanship moved the Tabernacle project forward with excellence and speed.

We see that delegating to those with God-given skills accelerates excellence.

Solomon – Building the Temple with Expert Help
1 Kings 5–6
Solomon, though wise himself, wisely partnered with Hiram, king of Tyre, who provided expert builders and the finest materials. The Temple, a massive and beautiful structure, was completed in just seven years.

Here we see Solomon seek outside expertise to quicken and elevate God's work.

Nehemiah – Rebuilding Jerusalem’s Walls
Nehemiah 2–6
Nehemiah didn’t rebuild the wall himself. Instead, he organized a diverse group—priests, goldsmiths, merchants—and assigned each section strategically, often based on proximity to their homes. The wall was finished in just 52 days.

We see Nehemiah use strategic collaboration and morale-boosting leadership to expedite progress.

We are all made unique. We all possess different strengths. We should celebrate that truth. Not as a limitation but as a divine design. When we wisely rely on one another, we don't shrink ourselves—we elevate others. And in doing so, we move further, faster, and bring greater glory to God and His wonderfully diverse creation.

So let me ask:
Is there someone you need to call to help move a project across the finish line?
Is there someone who could use your expertise today?

Take time to reflect. Evaluate your strengths. And ask God to show you how to steward them—and share them—for His glory.

-Mark

Cover Your Team

I love team meetings. I know a lot of folks don’t, but I genuinely do — for multiple reasons.

First, our meetings happen at a consistent time and day each week. Proximity matters. Both to each other and to our mission. No matter what obstacles or curveballs come our way, each of us can count on gathering every Monday.

Second, our meetings give us a real-time pulse on progress and issues. We don’t just meet when things go wrong, and we don’t only celebrate when things go right. We talk about all of it, all the time. A lot of small groups and churches talk about "doing life" together. At our company, we "do mission" together — and making meeting a regular practice is part of that commitment.

But the most important reason I love team meetings is this:
We cover our team in prayer.
We don’t start a meeting without it.

Having a big mission that honors God and loves our neighbors is exciting — but it can also be difficult. Our aim is higher than just profit. Our reasons run deeper than simply making a living. That can invite additional scrutiny and adversity, which requires even greater faith and trust — both in each other and in God.

Covering our team in prayer is a biblical practice, encouraged throughout Scripture.
Here are some key verses about asking God for protection, provision, and guidance:

Proverbs 16:3
"Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans."
→ Before starting any meeting or project, prayer commits the work to God and invites His guidance.

James 1:5
"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."
→ Asking for wisdom through prayer is especially important before decisions or discussions.

Philippians 4:6–7
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
→ Prayer brings peace and guards hearts and minds before stressful meetings or important conversations.

Psalm 127:1
"Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain."
→ A reminder that all efforts must be rooted in God’s blessing and presence, which we seek through prayer.

Colossians 3:17
"And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."
→ Starting a meeting with prayer helps align the team's words and actions under Christ’s name.

These verses tell a story of faith and trust in God.

Each week, our teams step into environments where influence is needed — inside and outside the organization. They interact with employees, vendors, partners, leaders, and, perhaps most importantly, customers.

The impact they have can be significant...either positively or negatively.

So cover them in prayer.
Build their trust and faith in their work.
Jesus is already in the room...He's just waiting for you to pull Him up a chair!  

-Mark

Preparations: Where We’re Going and How We’re Leaving

Today, my family and I are heading out on a trip to St. Louis to visit relatives for the weekend. As we packed bags and loaded the car, I couldn’t help but notice how much goes into not just preparing for where we’re going, but also for how we’re leaving.

Outside the house, we’ve made sure things are buttoned up. The neighbors are watering the plants and grabbing the mail. Trash cans are pulled up from the curb. You get it.

Inside, my wife has a strict “no mess left behind” rule. I actually have come to like this rule. Coming home to chaos kills any peace you had while returning. So, beds are made. Carpets are vacuumed (yes, that’s my job). The dishwasher is running, and everything will be in order when we walk out the door.

It struck me that preparing to leave, and leaving well, are skills we often possess, but don’t always practice intentionally. We instinctively want to leave things neat, cared for, and complete. Why? Because no one likes walking back into a mess. And because we recognize that, sometimes, we don’t come back the same way we left — or at all.

The same principle applies to life transitions, leadership, and legacy.

None of us can complete every task, forever. Eventually, someone else will need to take up the mantle. Whether it’s a job, a role in a ministry, a family tradition, or a relationship dynamic — how we leave matters. Leaving behind order, clarity, and encouragement honors the people who come after us.  And it honors God.

Let’s look at a biblical example of someone who lived this out with integrity.

David: Preparing to Leave and Empowering the Next Up

King David had a deep desire to build a temple for God — a permanent house of worship. But God said no, because David had been a man of war and bloodshed (1 Chronicles 28:3). Instead, God chose his son Solomon to build it.

David could have responded with frustration or disappointment. But instead, he leaned into what was still his to do. He prepared the way for Solomon and for the entire nation.

“You are not to build a house for My Name... but your son Solomon will build it...” (1 Chronicles 28:3, 6)

Rather than resisting God’s “no,” David embraced his role. One of the most powerful ways we finish well is by knowing when our assignment ends and someone else’s begins.

David Gave the Plans

“All this,” David said, “I have in writing as a result of the Lord’s hand on me...” (1 Chronicles 28:19)

David didn’t just say, “Good luck, Solomon.” He handed over detailed blueprints — divinely inspired plans for the temple’s structure and sacred objects. He gave Solomon clarity. Spiritual and strategic preparation.

David Gave Resources

“With all my resources I have provided for the temple of my God...” (1 Chronicles 29:2)
“In my devotion... I now give my personal treasures...” (v. 3)

David gave generously from his own wealth and led the people to do the same. He invested in a project he’d never personally complete — a model of sacrificial leadership and long-term vision.

David Gave Glory to God

“Wealth and honor come from You... You are the ruler of all things.” (1 Chronicles 29:12)

Even in transition, David didn’t make it about himself. He led the people in praise and worship, reminding everyone that this wasn’t about a king — it was about God.

David didn’t finish the temple. But he finished his part. He prepared the space, the people, and the leader. He made things clean, clear, and ready.

Back to You and Me

So yes — I’m about to go vacuum the living room. But this little trip reminded me that we all have spiritual “spaces” we need to clean up before stepping into what’s next.

Are you preparing others for a road you’ve been walking?

Is there a project, relationship, or role you need to hand off with care?

Is there something messy that needs to be tidied in case you're called elsewhere?

Take a glance around your world today — physically, emotionally, spiritually — and ask:

• What needs cleaned?

• What needs made clear?

• Who needs to be ready?

Let’s be people who don’t just go places, but leave well — with grace, intention, and legacy in mind.

-Mark