Time to Listen: Hearing God’s Voice

This morning, I had the opportunity to meet with a small group of men at C3, a gathering within the CBMC network (Christian Business Men's Connection). Great group of guys—and it’s growing fast. Today’s speaker walked us through something that’s both deeply personal and widely misunderstood: hearing the voice of God.

He talked us through how to recognize God’s voice, the different ways He speaks, and maybe most importantly—what to do once we hear Him.

God doesn’t limit Himself to one method or moment. He speaks in ways we can’t predict or count. He’s in and through everything, constantly looking for willing listeners to carry out His purposes.

Your Gifts Are Not an Accident

The spiritual giftings He’s placed inside each of us are no accident. He’s freely given us unique skills to impact the world around us. One gift I’ve honestly asked God not to give me is the gift of prophecy. It feels out there. Maybe even a little weird.  It's always seemed like a heavy burden to hear or see things others don’t.

I’m not sure I have it, but today I realized something: God can move prophetically through any of us, right where we are. You don’t need a title or a spotlight—just a willingness to listen and respond.

What Does Scripture Say About Prophecy?

The gift of prophecy is a Spirit-empowered ability to communicate God’s truth or revelation often used to strengthen, encourage, warn, or guide others. It’s not always about predicting the future. More often, it’s about being a voice for God in the moment.

Here’s what Scripture says:

• Acts 2:17–18:
  “‘And in the last days it shall be, God declares, that I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh, and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy...’”

• Romans 12:6:
  "Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith..."

• 1 Corinthians 12:4–11:
  "Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit... to another prophecy... All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills."

Prophecy is a gift. Some may walk in it more clearly or consistently, but all of us can hear God and be a vessel for His message.

A Simple Exercise to Hear God's Voice

One new method I learned today is surprisingly simple but deeply profound:

1. Close your eyes.

2. Take a deep breath.

3. In your mind—not out loud—say your first and last name.

Did you hear it? That inner voice, the one that spoke your name in silence? That’s the way in which you’re most likely to hear God’s voice. It’s that still, small voice inside.

Think back—have there been times when a thought came to you that felt more like a nudge than a noise? Times when the Holy Spirit may have been trying to get your attention, but you dismissed it as “just your own mind”?

I have.

Let’s Lean In

Today, let’s give God the space to move through our thoughts, our conversations, and our actions. If you feel a prompting, a prayer, or a word for someone—lean in.

Did someone pop into your mind randomly?
Send them a quick message. Let them know you’re thinking about and praying for them.

God is on the move.
Let’s be people who move with Him.

-Mark

Monday Faith...

This Easter, we heard an incredible message at church.  A retelling of the greatest moment in human history: the resurrection of Jesus Christ. But what stood out most wasn't just the moment he rose from the grave.  It was what happened right before.

Despite Jesus telling his followers repeatedly that he would suffer, die, and rise again on the third day, no one was tailgating outside the tomb on Sunday morning. No crowd had gathered to witness the most glorious event since time began. Instead, the disciples, those who knew him best, were hidden away in fear and grief.

The first to encounter the risen Lord wasn’t Peter, or James, or John—it was Mary Magdalene. In one deeply personal moment, Jesus simply says her name: “Mary.” (John 20:16). She runs to tell the others. But look at how they respond:

“She went and told those who had been with him, as they mourned and wept. But when they heard that he was alive and had been seen by her, they would not believe it.”
—Mark 16:10–11 

Later that evening, Jesus appears to the disciples for the first time. Where are they?

“On the evening of that day, the first day of the week, the doors being locked where the disciples were for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood among them and said to them, ‘Peace be with you.’”
—John 20:19 

They were afraid. They were filled with unbelief. These men had walked with Jesus for three years. They had heard his teachings, witnessed his miracles, and been told exactly what would happen. And still...they hid.

But then everything changed.

Once they saw the risen Christ—once they touched the wounds, heard his voice, and received the Holy Spirit—these same men became unstoppable. Fear turned into faith. Cowardice turned into courage. Silence turned into boldness.

And they would go on to give everything, even their lives, to proclaim the truth of Jesus.

Here’s how some of the disciples’ lives ended:

• Matthew was killed by a sword in Ethiopia.

• Peter was crucified upside down, feeling unworthy to die in the same manner as Jesus.

• James (Jerusalem) was thrown from the temple to a massive death fall and then beaten to death with clubs when he survived.

• James (Son of Zebedee) was beheaded and preached Jesus up until the axe fell —his Roman guard even converted because of his great faith and was executed alongside of him.

• Bartholomew (Nathaniel) was flayed alive with whips in Armenia.

• Andrew was whipped and crucified on an X-shaped cross, preaching to his executioners for two days as he slowly expired.

• Thomas was speared to death in India.

• Matthias (who replaced Judas) was stoned and beheaded.

• Paul was tortured and beheaded in Rome after a long and brutal imprisonment.

• John survived being boiled in oil live for Romans to be entertained - survived and preached the gospel to them while being boiled, was exiled to Patmos after the Roman Emperor was overcome with fear of him where he wrote the book of Revelation, and died of old age—the only apostle to die peacefully.

These men once trembled in fear. But after encountering the risen Christ, they could not be silenced. Nothing mattered more than telling everyone who would listen about Jesus. They poured out their lives, their energy, and their every breath for the Kingdom.

And here's the question this Easter Monday:
What about us?

Most of us will never face a cross or a whip. But we have our own “costs”: our reputations, our bank accounts, our calendars, our social media feeds. These reveal the story of our lives—and whether we’re living for ourselves or for Christ.

So let’s not just celebrate Easter with Sunday faith.

Let’s live with Monday Faith—the kind of faith that moves from private belief to public conviction. The kind that doesn't hide in fear, but boldly proclaims, in word and deed, “Jesus is Lord.”

Our time on earth is short, but our mission is clear:
Glorify God. Love others.
Use your gifts. Live the gospel.
And help as many people as possible encounter the risen Christ.

May this Easter Monday be more than just a post-celebration.
May it be the beginning of a bold, joyful, Spirit-filled life—
the kind that can only be lived by someone who has seen the empty tomb
and knows that Jesus is alive.

Let’s go live like it.
Let’s live with Monday Faith.

-Mark

From Moriah to Golgotha – It Is Finished

This morning, I had a time of deep reflection on the events of Good Friday—the day we remember Jesus dying on the cross. It’s a moment in history that echoes throughout eternity. On this day, the offspring of the woman spoken of in Genesis 3 crushes the head of the serpent once and for all.

Yes, you read that correctly.

Just after sin entered the world, God spoke of Jesus and His ultimate victory over sin. He already had a plan. Our perfect Lamb, slain for us, to make us clean.

Yesterday, I wrote of Jesus’ last words and His time with the disciples at the Last Supper. During the washing of feet in John 13:7, Jesus said, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.” When Peter protests, “You shall never wash my feet,” Jesus responds, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.”

Jesus must indeed wash us—not just the dirt from our flesh, but the sin from our souls. We need His washing every day.

This day has been pointed to throughout all of Scripture.

In Genesis 22, Abraham is tested when asked to sacrifice his only son, Isaac. He is told to go to Moriah and make the walk with his son to what appears to be a sacrificial death. In verse 6, Abraham places the wood for the sacrifice on Isaac’s back—just as Jesus was made to carry His wooden cross to Golgotha.

Isaac, in verse 7, notices the wood and fire, but asks, “Where is the lamb?”
Abraham responds, “God Himself will provide the lamb.”

Indeed, He does.

Jesus—God in the flesh, the Word made manifest—supplies Himself as our holy and eternal sacrifice on this day. God chose this very place to test Abraham, and again chose this very place to provide the ultimate provision. On the mountain of the Lord, He provided all we would ever need.

Today, I found myself looking at this from another angle—from the lens of the Father.

Was the cross harder for the Son… or for the Father?

As a father myself, I believe it would be impossible to sacrifice one of my sons to save others from what they rightly deserve. Could you pour out that much grace, so abundantly, to shield others from their just punishment?

I couldn’t.

But God could. And He did.
He loves us that radically.

When He looks at us and weighs the cost, He says, “You were worth it.”
You. Me. All of us.

Jesus’ love is immeasurable and uncontainable.
There is enough of it to cover every sin—and everyone.

His blood contains life and life everlasting, and on this day, He poured it out for all people, for all time.

What a day it is.

Let us never forget it.
Let us always hold fast to the love that God has for His creation.

That’s you.
That’s me.

Jesus, thank You—for Your love, for Your heart, for Your willingness to save me, and for washing me clean each and every day.

-Mark

We Celebrate Jesus' Last Words

Powerful Last Words

Have you ever thought about what you would say to the people you love most if you had just one final conversation with them before you died?

Just sit in that thought for a moment.

I just did — and the thoughts that rushed through my mind were filled with love. Urgency. Clarity. The most important things I’d want to leave with them. There would be no time for useless banter. No room for distraction. I’d be locked in. Wasting nothing. Doing my best to give them everything I had in that moment.

Today, we remember The Last Supper — Jesus’ final meal with his friends. The people he had poured into. His twelve... soon to be eleven.

This was his last conversation before the cross. These were his last words, and they’re recorded for us so beautifully in the Gospel of John.

Let’s break down just a few of the key moments from this sacred time.

John 13

The Devil had already prompted Judas to betray Jesus.
And yet — Jesus washes his feet.
He kneels down, taking the position of the lowest servant, and washes the feet of each of the twelve. He begins these final hours by serving them. Teaching them. Showing them that no servant is greater than his master.

Judas soon leaves to do what he was going to do.
Then Jesus gives them what he calls a new command:

“Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

John 14

Jesus begins to comfort them. He tells them he's going to prepare a place for them — that his Father’s house has many rooms.

When they ask how they’ll know the way, Jesus gives one of the most powerful “I Am” statements in all of Scripture:

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” – John 14:6

By knowing Jesus, we know the way.

And even as he prepares to leave them physically, he promises the Holy Spirit — a Counselor, a Helper, who will live in and work through them. Through us.

We are not alone.

John 15

Jesus gives this beautiful image: “I am the vine, you are the branches.”
If we remain in him and he in us, we will bear much fruit. But apart from him, we can do nothing of real consequence.

He warns us, too:

“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.” – John 15:18

The servant is not greater than the master. Following Christ fully will set us apart — and the world may not respond kindly. But we’re chosen out of the world for something greater.

John 16

He tells the disciples that their grief is coming. That they will scatter. But he is not alone — the Father is with him.

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace.
In this world you will have trouble. But take heart!
I have overcome the world.” – John 16:33

John 17

Jesus begins to pray. First, for his disciples:
Not that the Father would take them out of the world, but that he would protect them in it.
That they would be sanctified by the truth — your word is truth.

And then he does something incredible.
He prays… for us.

“My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message…” – John 17:20

That we would be one, as Jesus and the Father are one.

How powerful are these final words?
These are the things Jesus chose to say before he fulfilled his mission on the cross:

• Love one another.

• Remain in me.

• You’re not alone.

• You will grieve, but you will rejoice.

• Take heart.

• Be one.

Words filled with love.
With selfless service.
With grace — knowing those who love him would fall away.
With truth — unshaken by the world’s opinions.
With encouragement — to hold on in hardship.
With hope.
With unity.

These are the things I’ve come to fully count on Jesus for:

Love. Example. Grace. Truth. Encouragement. Hope. Unity. Fulfillment.

Thank you, Lord, for your willingness to reveal these things to us — in our time, and for all time.
We love you.

Thank you for these powerful last words.

-Mark

Today I had the privilege of witnessing two powerful examples of what it looks like to live out a calling.  Examples of leadership marked by sacrifice, not status.

This morning, I interviewed a member of our Tithe team on our YouTube channel. He’s someone who has consistently displayed what it means to be a servant leader. Over the past several years, he has given freely of his time, energy, and resources—not for recognition, but to make a lasting impact. What started as a small men’s Bible group has grown into something that resembles a small church.

That group didn’t just stay in study mode. They’ve gone from occasionally volunteering at a men’s respite house to becoming a key force behind large donations and financial support for the homeless and addicted in our city. Today, he even sits on that organization’s board of directors.

None of this was done for personal gain. It came at a personal cost. And yet, the glow on his face, the joy in his voice—it's contagious. There’s a deep sense of fulfillment that can only come when you're walking in step with your calling.

Later in the day, my wife and I had the honor of hosting a table at the “Be the Story” event for Central Ohio Youth for Christ. The work YFC is doing in the lives of young people is nothing short of transformational. I won’t go into all the details—honestly, you should check them out yourself.

Scott, the Director of YFC, delivered a message about calling that stuck with me. He’s been leading YFC for nearly 30 years. With his talent and intelligence, he could have easily succeeded as an engineer or business leader. But instead, he chose to give his life to the work of reaching the next generation. Not because it offered the most accolades or income, but because it aligned with what God was doing in his life.

Scott didn’t choose the most prestigious path.  He chose the most purposeful one for him despite a personal sacrifice. That’s not a knock on business leaders—I’m one myself. But it’s a reminder that no matter what field we’re in, we all have opportunities to lead others toward Christ. And sometimes, that calling will cost us something.

One biblical example that continually challenges me is Moses. His story is marked by radical obedience and profound sacrifice:

• He gave up comfort – Leaving a quiet life as a shepherd to confront Pharaoh.

• He endured criticism – The very people he led grumbled, doubted, and rebelled.

• He interceded selflessly – When the people sinned with the golden calf, Moses pleaded for them, even saying:
   “But now, please forgive their sin—but if not, then blot me out of the book you have written.” (Exodus 32:32)

• He never reached the Promised Land – Moses led faithfully, knowing the fruit of his labor would be for others, not himself.

That’s servant leadership. That’s calling.

Today, I saw two men living like that. Freely giving of themselves. Obeying the call on their lives. Not worried about enjoying the Promised Land here and now—but working to help others get there.

My prayer today is simple: that wherever you are on your journey, God would give you moments to experience the deep joy that comes from living a life of selfless impact. That you’d count the cost—and find it worth every step.

-Mark

Don't Carry Your Calling Solo

Shared Experiences – We Need Others

There are many unique callings that we find ourselves in throughout our lifetimes. Here's an example of mine from today that I hope encourages you. 

Being an entrepreneur is a unique calling.  It's a distinctive form of leadership that is hard to understand unless you've walked in it. I’ve held leadership roles at established companies, but nothing compares to the weight of owning a business. When you’re the one at the helm, the buck doesn’t just stop with you — it lives with you. The responsibility, the risk, the relationships, all yours to carry.

For those of us striving to be great business leaders, it’s not just about profit. We pour ourselves out for our teams and our customers. We want excellence for the people who count on us. That kind of care can be exhilarating. It can also be exhausting.

And that’s why we need each other.

We need people who understand the weight — not just in theory, but because they’re rowing their own boat through the same kind of water.

Today, I got a taste of that. I stopped by North Pointe Auto Group in Plain City, OH — the place I take all my cars. Been going there for years. Why? Because years ago, when I needed a quick repair on my grandpa’s old truck, I met the owner. Not only was he kind and engaging, but he was clearly grinding — doing his best to go above and beyond. You could feel the effort. It was contagious. It still is.

Today we caught up. We encouraged one another. Two men in different industries, but with the same mindset: serve people well. That’s a shared experience. And it lifted my spirit.

It reminded me of David and Jonathan in Scripture.

“The soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”  1 Samuel 18:1

Their bond wasn’t casual. It was forged in pressure. Both were warriors. Both bore the weight of leadership. Both knew what it meant to walk in calling under fire.

Jonathan, the king’s son, saw God’s hand on David. Rather than resist it, he embraced it. He gave David his robe, sword, and armor — symbols of power and trust (1 Samuel 18:4). It was his way of saying, “I see what God is doing in you. And I’m with you.”

Later, as David fled from Saul’s wrath, Jonathan sought him out:

“Jonathan went to David at Horesh and strengthened his hand in God.”  1 Samuel 23:16

That’s what real support looks like — not someone showing up to fix everything, but someone showing up to lift your eyes back to God, and to remind you that you’re not alone.

As entrepreneurs, as leaders, as believers — we need that.
We need others in our corner, walking similar paths, carrying similar weights. When we find each other, we find strength.

So if you're in the grind, keep going. But don’t go alone.
Encourage someone today. Let someone encourage you.
We were never meant to carry this calling solo.

Always forward. Together.

-Mark

Interruptions and New Assignments

The Wrinkle in Our Plans

Kicking off the week is always an exciting time for me. Sunday nights are when the weekend winds down, and preparation mode kicks in. I start mapping out the week ahead—goals, meetings, to-dos.

Monday mornings come early. By noon, our team has already reviewed past performances, evaluated upcoming priorities, and aligned on the communications needed for our partners and clients. It’s a fun rhythm. Everyone’s locked in, ready to execute their assignments.

But every now and then, a wrinkle shows up. Something we didn’t plan for. A curveball that demands our attention—personally or professionally.

This week for my family, it came in the form of a sick second grader who needed care, comfort, and time. No matter how much we plan or prepare, life has a way of handing us a new assignment. Sometimes, that new thing becomes the main thing.

Jesus Interrupted (Mark 5:21–43)

I’m reminded of how Jesus handled moments like this.

In Mark 5, Jesus had just crossed the sea when Jairus, a synagogue leader, approached Him, urgently begging Him to come heal his dying daughter. Jesus agreed and set out immediately. The mission was clear, time was critical.

But then...an interruption. A woman, who had been bleeding for 12 years, quietly touched the edge of His cloak in the crowd. She believed that one touch could heal her. And it did.

Now, Jesus could’ve kept walking. The healing already happened. But He stopped. “Who touched Me?” He asked. His disciples were baffled. People were pressing in everywhere.

Still, Jesus waited. The woman came forward trembling, and Jesus said, “Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace.”

That moment wasn’t just about physical healing. It was about seeing her, affirming her, and restoring her fully in body, soul, and dignity.

And while it looked like Jairus’ daughter had died during the delay, Jesus still went and raised her from the dead.

What can we learn from Jesus?

• Jesus wasn't rushed, even on a critical mission.

• The interruption was just as important as the destination.

• When led by compassion, we make time for people—not just plans.

• God’s timing may feel inconvenient, but it’s never wrong.

So wherever today finds you -  executing flawlessly or already off track - be ready for the unexpected. That side conversation, that minor disruption, that detour—it might not be the thing you planned for...

But it just might be the main assignment.

Today, for me and my son, I know that’s exactly what it was.

-Mark

Pouring Out and Pulling Back

At the end of a long week, what I look forward to most are the precious couple of hours I get with my family on Friday nights. They've become a needed reprieve as activities, responsibilities, and involvement have steadily increased over time.

For many of us, by the week's end, we’re spent. For some, it's physical exhaustion. For others, it's the mental toll of stressful situations. And for some, it’s something even deeper — the emotional strain of just trying to keep going, or maybe just trying to get along.

Lately, my actions have been very deliberate. I’ve chosen them. And I wouldn’t trade out a single one, individually. Each of them is aligned with the mission I’ve committed to live out in my work and in my life.

But collectively? They have a way of wearing me out.

And yet, pouring out, in my opinion, is what we’re meant to do. These efforts aren’t wasted — they’re purposeful. They’re part of something greater. But we must also remember to take our pull backs in an orderly, intentional fashion or we risk burning out entirely.

Jesus knew this. And He modeled it perfectly.

Let’s look at an example from Mark 6:30–32:

“The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught. Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, ‘Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.’ So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place.”

So, what's the context here?
The disciples had just returned from being sent out two-by-two to preach, heal, and cast out demons. They were spent — physically, emotionally, spiritually. Jesus Himself had just received the news that John the Baptist, His cousin, had been executed. The weight of ministry, grief, and fatigue was real.

And what does Jesus do?
He doesn’t say, “Let’s push through,” or “There’s still more to do.”
Instead, He says, “Come with me. Let’s rest.”

Not “Go rest” but “Come with me.” He invites them to pull back with Him...Not in isolation, but in relationship. To be in peace. In quiet. Together.

That’s not just leadership — that’s love. That’s family. That’s the voice of someone who understands the deep human need for connection and restoration after seasons of pouring out.

So today, as we reach another Friday night, I want to pat you on the back for the work you've poured yourself into this week. I congratulate you on the good you’ve done, the effort you’ve given, and the energy you’ve spent with purpose.

Now I encourage you: pull back. Even if it’s only for a little while.
Spend time with your family, with those you love most. Let it refill you.

Our leader in Christ showed us how to do it —
Let’s follow Him in that way, too.

-Mark

Here’s to the Uncommon Ones

Uncommon Missions

I love when I see someone pursuing a big mission or dream. There’s something about it that transcends the norm—especially when it comes at a cost. These are the people who truly inspire us, the ones we remember long after they’re gone.

Most missions today have become common. Especially in the business world, they tend to follow the same pattern. Something like:

“We strive for excellence in xyz. We aim to leave a legacy in our community of excellence and service doing xyz. Our mission is to be an excellent provider of xyz for years to come, making an impact for those we serve.”

You get the point.

At their core, most missions are about doing more of what we do, for as long as we can do it, and for as many people as we can reach. That’s not all bad—it’s just common.

Uncommon missions, on the other hand, fulfill those same goals but also aim to bring something bigger into the space they occupy. Their impact goes beyond the product or service, and into the hearts of people. They stir something. They challenge norms. They advance some kind of meaningful change.

And often? It costs those pursuing it.

But for the few people it truly impacts, it could mean the world.

A Biblical Example: John the Baptist – Living in the Wilderness

Mission: Prepare the way for the Messiah by preaching repentance in the desert.

Why it was uncommon:
John lived off locusts and wild honey, wore camel hair, and preached truth boldly to religious elites. There were already plenty of preachers and scholars—probably some who knew the scriptures better than John.

But John wasn’t called to plant a synagogue or teach weekly Torah studies. His mission was prophetic: to prepare hearts, challenge expectations, and stir anticipation for something far greater than himself.

That kind of mission doesn’t come without a cost. Social isolation, harsh living conditions, and eventually—his life.
Can you imagine eating bugs for the sake of your calling?

Praise God most of us aren’t called to that. But we are called to something.

Quick Mission Check

I personally love examining mission statements. And I’ve boiled it down to a simple exercise you can use to check if your mission is truly uncommon:

Ask yourself two questions:

1. Who gets the glory if this mission succeeds?

2. Who does our mission ultimately serve if we win?

If either answer points inward—to you, your company, or your own gain—then it’s likely a common mission. Again, there’s nothing wrong with profitability or building a great team culture. Companies need to win.

But if the only reason your mission exists is to make money and keep going, eventually things grow stale. Culture fades. Purpose drifts.

If your answers are outward—glory and service go to others (or better yet, to God)—then you’re likely onto something uncommon.

Let’s Be Uncommon This Week

Let’s pursue purpose that stretches beyond ourselves. Let’s step into missions that inspire, challenge, and maybe even cost us something. Because that’s where the true impact is found.

Here’s to the uncommon ones.

-Mark

Presence Looks Like This

The Power of Being Known

This weekend, I had the opportunity to learn from one of the greatest leadership minds of our time—not just locally, but worldwide. Dr. John Maxwell. He’s written nearly 100 books, been an influential speaker and teacher for decades, and remains a source of wisdom for leaders great and small.

We were blessed to have him at our church and to attend a special session where he broke down a well-known parable in ways I had never seen before. After the event, I had the chance to spend a brief minute or two with him—and in that short time, I received a masterclass in leadership.

He made me feel important.

He seemed genuinely interested in me.

He shouldn’t have been…I’m not that interesting!  But in just a couple of minutes, he shifted my perspective—not just on leadership, but on what it means to make someone feel seen.

When someone we admire, someone in a position of influence, pauses long enough to really notice us, we feel it. It’s not fake. It’s not casual. It’s presence. And it’s powerful.

Presence Looks Like This

Dr. Maxwell didn’t just shake my hand and move on. He:

• Asked my name—and remembered it.

• Asked thoughtful questions.

• Noticed details—things I said, even things about my physical stature.

• Asked about my kids.

• Made me laugh.

• Encouraged me as we parted.

All of that… in just a few minutes.

It was simple, but not shallow. And it mattered.

Jesus Did the Same

There’s a moment in Scripture that reminds me of this—when Jesus shows us what it looks like to make someone feel known. It’s early in the morning, just after the crucifixion. Mary Magdalene is outside the empty tomb, mourning.

“Now Mary stood outside the tomb crying.” – John 20:11

She’s devastated. Confused. She’d just watched the man who changed her life suffer and die. Now even His body is gone. Two angels appear, and then Jesus Himself shows up—but she doesn’t recognize Him.

“Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?’” – John 20:15

She thinks He’s the gardener, and pleads with Him to tell her where the body has been taken.

Then comes one of the most powerful moments in all of Scripture:

“Jesus said to her, ‘Mary.’” – John 20:16

Just one word. Her name.

And in that moment, everything changes.

She turns and cries out, “Rabboni!” — meaning Teacher.

The Power of One Word

Jesus didn’t explain the resurrection first.

He didn’t preach.

He didn’t even quote Scripture.

He simply called her by name, and by doing that, He showed her: I see you. I know you. You matter to me.

Mary, who moments ago was weeping and lost, now becomes the first witness to the risen Christ.

As we begin our week, here’s something simple and life-changing: pick someone to see.

Look for the person who feels overlooked. The one who’s weary. The one who’s always pouring out but may never get filled.

Give them a few moments of your real attention.

• Ask their name.

• Ask a question that shows you care.

• Notice something about them.

• Encourage them.

That’s all it takes.

You don’t have to be John Maxwell.

You don’t have to be Jesus.

But you can be someone who sees others the way they did.

And for someone today, that just might mean everything.

-Mark

Wearing Hats That Fit

Some people call it "wearing a lot of hats." It’s a common phrase, especially when you're involved in a mix of work, relationships, and community efforts. But this week, as I reflected on the range of roles I stepped into, it hit me: it’s not just about wearing many hats—it’s about wearing hats that fit.

Early in the week, we kicked off Q2 with our mortgage team. Big goals ahead after a strong Q1, and the energy was awesome. Midweek, I found myself deep in business and nonprofit conversations Just doing the normal work of the week. And then last night, I stood in worship, present and humbled, as we consecrated our church's new location. What a night. What an honor.

And somewhere in between all that? I rolled up my sleeves to help push a brick-and-mortar business through the final stretch before its public launch. From spreadsheets to sacred space, from renovations to revelation. It was a fun week.

But here's the thing: when we aim to honor God and live a life of impact, there’s no shortage of ways He’ll use us. Remember the kind of people He's looking for. He’s looking for willing ones. The key isn’t doing everything—it’s doing what He’s called you to, in the moment He’s called you to it.

Let’s look at a few examples of "hat-wearers" in Scripture:

David
Shepherd → Musician → Giant-slayer → Fugitive → Warrior → King → Psalmist

• Started as a humble shepherd boy

• Became Saul’s musician and armor-bearer

• Defeated Goliath (1 Samuel 17)

• Fled from Saul as a fugitive

• Rose as a mighty warrior and commander

• Crowned King of Israel

• Wrote much of the Psalms 

Paul (formerly Saul of Tarsus)
Pharisee → Persecutor → Missionary → Tentmaker → Author → Pastor → Prisoner

• Zealous Pharisee who persecuted Christians

• Radically transformed on the road to Damascus (Acts 9)

• Became a missionary to the Gentiles

• Supported himself as a tentmaker (Acts 18:3)

• Wrote much of the New Testament

• Shepherded churches and mentored leaders

• Spent his final years in chains—for the Gospel

Deborah
Judge → Prophetess → Military Leader → Mother in Israel

• One of the few female judges (Judges 4–5)

• Spoke God’s word as a prophetess

• Accompanied Barak into battle

• Called a “mother in Israel” (Judges 5:7)

Wearing a lot of hats is often talked about as exhausting—or something to avoid. But wearing hats that fit? Now that’s something different.

God gives each of us unique gifts, strengths, and assignments. And when we walk closely with Him, we learn to recognize which hat to wear in each season—or each day.

My hope is that as you reflect on your own week, you’ll recognize how God is moving in your life, through your work, your relationships, and your faith. May your hats fit well, and may your purpose be clear.

Prayers and blessings to each of you this Friday.

-Mark

When to Roll Up Your Sleeves

Rolling Up Your Sleeves vs. Delegation

There are a ton of articles out there on delegation and why great leaders become masters at this art. I absolutely believe that our focus should be primarily on the things that only we can do, and that we should allow others to handle tasks they are capable of executing well. However, from time to time, even leaders need to step up and complete the task at hand—regardless of what that work looks like. There is something profoundly impactful about a leader who truly understands how to get the job done.

Not just the big overarching "job," but also the small, daily tasks that those who report to us perform regularly. A lot of learning takes place when we get into the weeds, and this firsthand experience often enables us to make better decisions by getting up close and personal with the work.

The Bible has insightful wisdom on the balance between delegation and rolling up our sleeves. Let’s take a look.

Doing the Work Yourself

Proverbs 14:23 – "All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty."

This emphasizes that personal effort and diligence lead to results.

Colossians 3:23 – "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters."

A reminder that our work should be done with dedication and excellence, as if serving God.

Galatians 6:4-5 – "Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load."

Encourages personal responsibility for one's own work.

Delegating and Leadership

Exodus 18:17-23 – (Jethro’s advice to Moses) "What you are doing is not good. You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out... Select capable men from all the people and appoint them as officials over thousands, hundreds, fifties, and tens."

Moses was advised to delegate tasks so he wouldn’t be overwhelmed.

Acts 6:2-4 – "It would not be right for us to neglect the ministry of the word of God in order to wait on tables... We will turn this responsibility over to them and will give our attention to prayer and the ministry of the word."

The apostles delegated tasks so they could focus on their primary mission.

So what should we do?

These verses highlight an important balance. Proverbs 14:23 warns us against being all talk and no action—we need to understand the work itself when leading others. In Acts 6, the apostles chose wisely what to delegate and what to keep. They didn’t offload all work to simply take on managerial or QC roles. Instead, they kept the most vital tasks that required direct engagement with people's spiritual well-being, while delegating other necessary but different responsibilities.

While delegation is smart and often necessary, my encouragement to you today is to find a way to get close to those doing the real work. Roll up your sleeves. Give some of it a shot. Have some fun with it. Learn. Not only will you benefit, but those you lead will as well—because they will see a leader worth following!

-Mark

Freewill: We All Have to Make A Choice

This morning, I had the chance to talk with someone older and wiser than I prior to our morning Bible study. He's older, but boy, does he still have energy! He's one of those guys you aspire to be when you're in your 70s. God willing, I will be!

We were discussing the difficulties of parenting kids who are entering interesting years—the years when they will be faced with decisions that parents aren't always around to shepherd them through. He told his sons early on that while they live under his roof, they play by his rules. But sooner or later, they’ll also be faced with a choice: What values will they hold dear? What principles will they live by? What corners will they cut—or not cut?

These decisions come for all of us, and regardless of our upbringings, we all must eventually choose for ourselves. This is the way that God designed it, and for a reason. Real love only comes from a free and willing heart, and He allows all of us the option to choose.

Here are some quick Bible verses on freewill:

Joshua 24:15 – "And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."

Proverbs 16:9 – "The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps."

We have the freedom to plan our lives, but God ultimately guides our path.

Galatians 5:13 – "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another."

Paul reminds believers that free will should be used to serve others and honor God.

Revelation 3:20 – "Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me."

Jesus presents an invitation, but it is up to each person to choose to accept Him.

These verses show that while God has a plan, He allows us the freedom to choose Him or go our own way.

I thank God that He has surrounded me with others who have made their choices clear. Their values and principles play out daily and show the conviction they have to act boldly in their work, raising their families, and giving their time to causes they appreciate.

Just remember as you head into this weekend: Our choices are real, have consequences, and matter to God. He allows us to have them for a reason, and it isn't trivial. We should all search our hearts to ensure that the gift of freewill given to us is used to glorify the Giver.

As we enter next week, let’s go for it and give others a reason to choose God’s path as well!

-Mark

Serving Others + Being Served: How We're Called to Live.

Serving Others with Nothing Expected in Return

Serving is something that most of us aspire to do. We often think of it in terms of volunteering or giving up our time to advance a noble cause. But service opportunities are all around us every day. They don’t always have to take place at a local church, soup kitchen, or nonprofit. In fact, most often, these opportunities are "served up" right before our very eyes—in the midst of our day-to-day lives, usually with and for the people we interact with most.

This week, I have had the opportunity to be served. Being served can be a humbling experience. Knowing that you need someone else's expertise, time, or effort to complete a task can be an awkward realization. But this week, I have experienced it firsthand. I have been served by those in my very own family—individuals who have helped piece together projects and timelines that, alone, I would fail to complete. I am not a local church (Although I am part of it). I am not a nonprofit. I am a family member, someone who is loved by others, and this week, I have been someone served—and I am beyond grateful.

There is a fantastic story in the Bible about family members serving one another, even when they did not have to. Ruth’s story is a powerful example of love, loyalty, and selfless service. After losing their husbands, Naomi urged her daughters-in-law to return home. Orpah left, but Ruth stayed, choosing to care for Naomi and embrace an uncertain future in Bethlehem. She worked hard, gleaning in the fields to provide for them, catching the attention of Boaz, a kind landowner who ensured her protection. Eventually, Ruth married Boaz, securing their future and becoming part of King David’s and Jesus’ lineage.

Key Points:

• Loyalty & Sacrifice – Ruth refused to leave Naomi, vowing to stay by her side.

• Hard Work & Dedication – She gleaned in the fields to provide for them.

• Divine Provision – Boaz noticed her faithfulness, protected her, and married her.

• Lasting Impact – Ruth became part of Jesus’ genealogy, showing how service brings blessings.

You may be reading this as one who has been a faithful servant of another this week. Or, like me, you may be a humbled person served by someone you love most. Either way, look for these opportunities often. Formal service and volunteering are always rewarding, but informal service—without any expectation of return—from those we hold dear is a great way to honor and glorify God each day.

-Mark

Fanning the Flame: Highlighting the Strengths of Others

Highlighting the Strengths of Others

Recognizing the strengths of others is a crucial skill, yet it is often easier to acknowledge abilities that align with our own priorities or values. When someone excels in an area we naturally appreciate, their talents stand out. However, when their strengths lie in domains unfamiliar to us, we may overlook them. As leaders, understanding the unique abilities of our team members is essential—not only to accomplish a shared mission but also to ensure that each contributor feels valued and purposeful. Though not always easy, shifting our focus toward others and intentionally highlighting their strengths fosters an environment where everyone thrives. Let's see a Biblical example:

Paul and Timothy: A Model of Encouragement

Paul’s mentorship of Timothy offers a compelling example of recognizing and nurturing potential. When Paul met Timothy in Lystra (Acts 16:1-3), he saw beyond Timothy’s youth and perceived his strong faith and leadership qualities. Taking Timothy under his guidance, Paul trained him for ministry and positioned him for success.

Aware that Timothy’s age might cause others to doubt his capabilities, Paul offered encouragement:

“Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example...” (1 Timothy 4:12).

Paul also urged Timothy to embrace his calling with confidence:

“Fan into flame the gift of God... For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” (2 Timothy 1:6-7)

Paul’s support extended beyond words—he entrusted Timothy with leadership responsibilities, sending him on important missions and eventually placing him over the church in Ephesus. Even in his final letter, Paul continued to exhort Timothy: “Preach the word... fulfill your ministry.” (2 Timothy 4:2, 5).

Because of Paul’s encouragement and guidance, Timothy grew into a strong and effective church leader. His youth initially made encouragement vital, but his natural strengths flourished under Paul’s mentorship.

The Power of Recognition

Just as Paul invested in Timothy, we too have people around us with untapped strengths and abilities. Some individuals are waiting for someone to recognize their potential and encourage them forward. Leaders, mentors, and colleagues have the opportunity to take notice—identifying these unique gifts and creating opportunities for them to shine.

Take a moment to reflect: Who in your circle possesses strengths that might be overlooked? How can you affirm their abilities and highlight their contributions? By being intentional in uplifting others, we not only enhance their growth but also build a culture where strengths are celebrated, and future potential is realized. Being a positive encourager today can make all the difference in someone’s journey ahead.

-Mark

Following Instructions: Sometimes It Actually Works...

Trust + Obedience

In this day and age, most of us have gotten very good at improvising and using tools to figure things out on our own. Information is readily available—endless videos, tutorials, and step-by-step guides assure us that we can do almost anything ourselves. We’ve learned to rely on our own resourcefulness and have even convinced ourselves that expert advice or leadership is for others.

But from time to time, we would do ourselves a favor by leaning on true leadership—whether from experienced mentors, wise counsel, or God Himself. Following clear guidance not only takes the guesswork out of important decisions but also honors those who are genuinely trying to lead us in the right direction.

In my own career, I’ve seen firsthand how listening closely and executing a well-laid plan has paid off. Sometimes, what is needed is not another opinion, but action. I haven’t always understood the full picture from the start, but I’ve learned that understanding often comes during the process, not before it. God continues to teach me this more and more each day.

A Biblical Example of Trusting and Executing: Noah

One of the greatest biblical examples of obedience without full understanding is Noah. When God decided to cleanse the earth with a flood, He gave Noah very specific instructions:

• Materials: Use gopher wood (Genesis 6:14).

• Dimensions: 300 cubits long, 50 cubits wide, 30 cubits high (Genesis 6:15).

• Design: Three decks, a roof, and a door on the side (Genesis 6:16).

Despite the fact that Noah had never seen a flood before, he did exactly as God commanded (Genesis 6:22, 7:5). He gathered the animals, stored food, and entered the ark at the appointed time. Because of his obedience, he and his family survived the flood, and God established a covenant with him afterward (Genesis 9:8-17).

Noah’s story is a powerful reminder that faithful obedience leads to victory, even when God’s instructions don’t make immediate sense.

A Call to Action: Are You in a Position to Trust and Execute?

If you are in a situation today where clear instructions have been provided—whether at work, in your personal life, or in your faith—but your trust and execution are being tested, consider these three questions:

1. Has my leader developed trust with me over time, and can I trust his/her instincts without understanding the bigger picture?

2. By executing, am I keeping in line with my values and principles—acting within my integrity?

3. Am I feeling uneasy because I truly know the actions will not work, or am I becoming a victim of my own ego because it was not my plan?

These three questions have been valuable for many in my sphere when they’re asked to execute. At times, our leaders—and often God—need our faith and our execution. And when we give it, we win big.

-Mark

Momentum: Knowing When to Act!

Life has a funny way of timing things. Opportunities, challenges, and flurries of activity in both our personal and professional lives often seem to come all at once. And then, just as suddenly, we may find ourselves in seasons of waiting—times of preparation, reflection, and wondering what comes next.

I've learned that recognizing when to act and when to be still is a critical skill. When times of action arise, it’s essential to discern which opportunities to seize and which to let go. Scripture provides wisdom on how to navigate these moments. When God presents opportunities, we are called to respond.

Biblical Wisdom on Seizing the Moment

Proverbs 10:5 (NIV) – "He who gathers crops in summer is a prudent son, but he who sleeps during harvest is a disgraceful son."
→ This verse highlights the importance of taking action at the right time and not delaying when opportunities arise.

James 4:17 (NIV) – "If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them."
→ Hesitation can lead to missed divine opportunities; when God presents a moment, we must act in obedience and faith.

Galatians 6:9 (NIV) – "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
→ Diligence in doing good is key, as God’s timing will bring forth a harvest when we remain steadfast.

Colossians 4:5 (NIV) – "Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity."
→ This verse encourages us to recognize moments of influence and growth and to use them for God’s glory.

Momentum and Spiritual Readiness

Momentum builds upon itself. The phrase "on a roll" exists because movement generates more movement. Keeping things in motion is much easier than starting from a complete stop. God understands this and often provides seasons of opportunity where doors open, relationships flourish, and work becomes fruitful.

These seasons can be exhilarating, challenging, and even exhausting, but they are also some of the most productive and rewarding times when we embrace them with the right mindset. While God does not want us to burn out, He does desire that we work alongside Him with purpose and diligence.

When we are blessed with opportunities to glorify God through our work and actions, let us seek His wisdom in discerning the right steps to take. Let us remain prayerful, strategic, and faithful—trusting that He will guide our momentum in ways that align with His perfect plan.

Are you in a season of action or waiting? Either way, prepare your heart and mind, because when the time to act comes, God wants you ready!

-Mark

Need to Be Refreshed? Freely Give!

Last night, we had an incredible evening with our Tithe Foundation community. The growth we’re experiencing isn’t just exciting—it’s 100% fueled by the Holy Spirit. I’ve never had more joy than identifying opportunities to support our amazing nonprofit partners and watching the Body of Christ come together to provide exactly what’s needed in their ministries.

What’s most striking about this mission of generosity is that it doesn’t feel like a burden to anyone involved. Instead, these nights of giving have become some of the most joyful moments we share. We’re not gathering to receive, but to give—and somehow, that act of giving fills us in a way no paycheck, promotion, or award ever could.

There’s something deeply spiritual about freely giving. It connects our hearts to the Father, who has already given us everything, including life itself. Scripture confirms this truth:

• "A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed." — Proverbs 11:25 

• "In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’” — Acts 20:35 

• "Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver." — 2 Corinthians 9:6-7 

Fulfillment, refreshment, and joy aren’t hidden from us. They are made plain in Scripture, and we see them play out in our lives when we give freely.

So here’s my encouragement to you this weekend:

• If you’re feeling discouraged, drained, or just sluggish—find someone to bless as quickly as possible. Shift your focus outward and love your neighbor freely. Your mood will shift, I’m sure of it.

• If you’ve had a blessed week, let your cup overflow. Pour into someone else’s life. Adding momentum to the good things happening in your life will never be something you regret.

Freely give, just as you have received. There is real power in using our time, talent, and treasure—especially when we use them for another.

-Mark

Big Game Moments: Prep Like David

Big Games: Prepping with God

As an athlete, I can vividly remember the way I felt on game days. Specifically, when we were playing a rival or a top-ranked opponent, the anticipation was awesome. Even if we were favored to win the buildup to those matches was an experience in itself. I had a specific prep routine—eating at a certain time, wearing particular warm-up gear, and even having a specific trainer tape my ankles. Looking back now, it all seems a little crazy, but it was my way of mentally and physically preparing.

Now that I’ve transitioned into the world of business and funding nonprofit work, I realize that I still have "big games" to prepare for. These are the moments where hard work culminates with a major event. These moments are exciting and require even more preparation than the matches I once played. But I’ve incorporated one crucial routine that was missing from my college playing days—bringing my goals, thoughts, words, and timelines before the Lord.

Taking time to ask God what He thinks and listening for His voice has provided not only guidance but also peace and assurance along the way. I first learned this principle from scripture, particularly from David.

David’s Preparation Before Battle 

First Battle – Baal Perazim (2 Samuel 5:17-21)

The Philistines Attack:

• When the Philistines heard that David had become king, they marched to the Valley of Rephaim to attack him.

• Instead of reacting immediately, David went before the Lord to ask if he should engage.

David Inquires of the Lord:

• “Shall I go and attack the Philistines? Will you deliver them into my hands?” (v. 19)

• The Lord answered: “Go, for I will surely deliver the Philistines into your hands.”

Victory at Baal Perazim:

• David followed God’s command, defeated the Philistines, and named the place Baal Perazim, meaning “The Lord who breaks out”, because God broke through the enemy like a flood.

• The Philistines abandoned their idols, which David and his men carried away.

Second Battle – The Sound in the Balsam Trees (2 Samuel 5:22-25)

The Philistines Return:

• The Philistines regrouped and attacked again in the same valley.

• Instead of assuming the same strategy, David inquired of the Lord again.

God’s New Strategy:

• This time, God told David not to attack head-on but to circle behind them and wait near the balsam trees.

• God gave a specific sign: “As soon as you hear the sound of marching in the tops of the trees, move quickly, because that will mean the Lord has gone out in front of you to strike the Philistine army.” (v. 24)

David Obeys and Wins Again:

• David followed God’s strategy exactly, and the Philistines were completely defeated from Gibeon to Gezer.

Our Takeaways from David’s Approach:

• He always inquired of the Lord instead of relying on past experiences.

• God’s guidance was specific—David wasn’t told to use the same strategy twice.

• Victory came through obedience—David waited for God’s timing and direction.

• The Lord fought for him—the sound in the trees signified God’s presence leading the charge.

This passage is a powerful lesson on seeking God's direction before making big decisions, even when we think we already know what to do.

Today, I have a "big game" moment for our foundation. Spending time in the presence of the Lord this morning has given me peace and provided clear direction for the event. I’m grateful for the amazing examples we have in the Bible.  These real-life stories continue to show us the way.

When is your next "big game"? Make sure to take time with God as part of your prep!

-Mark

Be Strong and Courageous: Joshua Style

Be Strong and Courageous

This week I've had some great reminders of why we need to lean on the Lord for our strength, even when the vision for our work is clear. I love what I do, and week after week, God continues to make a way for His plan to play out through the various activities that are taking place. When we align our will with God's, the fulfillment we get from the effort is outstanding.

BUT—the effort and the continued challenges persist. Sometimes we need to lean on God for strength. Other times, it's for courage when we're faced with new situations or opportunities that we feel ill-equipped to handle. Just remember—if God has called you to it and placed a decision before you, He will always provide the means and the resources to the degree you are willing to continue.

If you're someone who is feeling challenged for strength or courage, today let's recall what Joshua stepped into after the death of Moses. God repeatedly tells Joshua to be strong and courageous and not to be afraid as he steps into his calling of leading Israel into the Promised Land. Our obstacles are likely far less physically daunting than the ones Joshua faced. That alone should give us some peace.

God is just as much at work today as He was back then, but our enemies are working just as hard to create doubt and fear within us. Let's not let them. When we're tired—let's ask God to be our strength. When we are nervous or afraid—let's ask God to give us the words and the actions to take. He wants more for us than we could possibly imagine. Today, let's be like Joshua.

Key Phrases in Joshua 1:

"Be strong and courageous" appears three times:

• Joshua 1:6 – Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their ancestors to give them.

• Joshua 1:7 – Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go.

• Joshua 1:9 – Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.

"Do not be afraid" appears once, in Joshua 1:9.

"Do not be discouraged" also appears in Joshua 1:9, reinforcing the command to trust in God’s presence and strength.

Why So Many Repetitions?

• Joshua was stepping into huge shoes—Moses had just died, and now he had to lead an entire nation into battle.

• Fear and doubt were natural—God knew Joshua would feel overwhelmed, so He repeatedly reassured him.

• God’s presence is the reason for courage—The key promise in Joshua 1:9 is “for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

So today, if you're facing something that feels overwhelming, remember that God has commanded you to be strong and courageous. Often in business we feel that the weight rests solely on our shoulders to make things happen.  You don’t have to do it alone—He is with you, just as He was with Joshua.

-Mark