Information Does Not Equal Wisdom

Today I had coffee with someone who I believe to be a wise man. He's been knee deep in business and ministry since I was stealing milks from the middle school lunch line.  If anyone from St. Paul in Fenton, MO is reading this, I owe you about $11.90 from the Spring of 1990.   What we covered wasn’t new, but it was a powerful re-learning experience. I asked him how he has consistently made better decisions over time, and he introduced me to the wisdom diamond pattern:

INFORMATION -> APPLICATION -> EXPERIENCE -> WISDOM

Receiving information isn’t enough; applying it shapes our experiences, and those experiences refine our wisdom. As we look to Scripture, we see this principle at work—both positively and negatively.

King Saul: A Pattern of Unwise Choices

Saul, Israel’s first king, began with promise but repeatedly failed to obey God, leading to his downfall.

1. Partial Obedience (1 Samuel 15)

• Command: God instructed Saul to destroy the Amalekites completely.

• Failure: Saul spared King Agag and the best livestock, justifying it as sacrifice.

• Consequence: Samuel rebuked him, saying, “To obey is better than sacrifice” (1 Samuel 15:22), and God rejected him as king.

• Lesson: Saul relied on human reasoning over full obedience.

2. Fear and Impatience (1 Samuel 13)

• Situation: Under Philistine threat, Saul was told to wait for Samuel.

• Failure: He performed the sacrifice himself in fear.

• Consequence: Samuel declared his kingdom would not endure.

• Lesson: Saul acted out of fear instead of trusting God’s timing.

3. Jealousy and Paranoia (1 Samuel 18-19)

• David’s Rise: People praised David’s victories over Saul’s.

• Failure: Saul saw David as a threat, attempting to kill him multiple times.

• Consequence: This obsession led to reckless choices and spiritual torment.

• Lesson: Envy clouded Saul’s judgment and eroded his leadership.

4. Seeking a Forbidden Source (1 Samuel 28)

• Situation: Before battle, God was silent due to Saul’s disobedience.

• Failure: Instead of repenting, he consulted a witch.

• Consequence: The spirit of Samuel foretold his death, and he fell in battle.

• Lesson: Saul sought guidance in the wrong place rather than returning to God.

King David: A Contrast in Wisdom

David also made mistakes, but he remained a man after God’s heart (1 Samuel 13:14).

1. Seeking God’s Guidance (1 Samuel 23, 2 Samuel 2)

• David regularly inquired of God before making decisions.

• Contrast: Saul acted impulsively; David sought divine wisdom.

2. Patience for the Throne (1 Samuel 24 & 26)

• Twice, David could have killed Saul but refused, trusting God’s timing.

• Contrast: Saul seized power rashly; David waited on God’s plan.

3. True Repentance (2 Samuel 12)

• After sinning with Bathsheba, David repented deeply (Psalm 51).

• Contrast: Saul made excuses for his sins; David humbled himself before God.

Wisdom in Action

INFORMATION - APPLICATION - EXPERIENCE - WISDOM. We must apply what we learn according to God’s will—whether in business, ethics, or relationships. Evaluating outcomes helps us refine our decisions for the future.

Wisdom isn’t just knowing—it’s applying knowledge rightly. Let’s learn from Saul’s failures and David’s successes to grow in true wisdom by seeking God's guidance. His will for our lives and our reverence for him is the beginning of all wisdom.

-Mark

Investing in Your Greatest Partnerships

The Power of True Partnerships

I've come to realize on my journey that going it alone is virtually impossible for a mission that lasts. Things can move quicker when done solo, but put to any test of scale and over time, cracks soon form. Like many leaders, I've had my share of issues in relinquishing control. But this isn't just an issue of outlasting and scaling work—it's also about having others to share life with. With that comes the effort, the sacrifice, and also the celebrations.

I've been blessed with loyal partners in my business that make pursuing our mission fun. But I've also been blessed with the greatest partner of all—my wife. For those of you who are married and in the business world, you know that a real partner in the form of a spouse can make all the difference. Mine runs alongside me for our businesses and foundation efforts, reminding me of one of my favorite husband-and-wife duos from scripture: Priscilla and Aquila.

Priscilla and Aquila: A Strong Partnership in Ministry and Business

Priscilla and Aquila were a powerful husband-and-wife duo in the early church, known for their deep faith, hospitality, and commitment to spreading the gospel. Their story is mentioned multiple times in the New Testament, primarily in Acts 18, Romans 16:3-5, 1 Corinthians 16:19, and 2 Timothy 4:19.

Their Business and Ministry Beginnings (Acts 18:1-3)

Priscilla and Aquila were Jewish tentmakers living in Corinth when they met the apostle Paul. They had been forced to leave Rome after Emperor Claudius expelled all Jews around A.D. 49-50. When Paul arrived in Corinth, he partnered with them, not just in ministry but also in their tentmaking trade.

👉 Key Takeaway: They balanced business and ministry, using their work as a platform for the gospel.

Their Deep Friendship with Paul (Acts 18:18-19)

Paul became close to Priscilla and Aquila, staying with them while in Corinth. When Paul decided to travel to Ephesus, they accompanied him. In Ephesus, they helped establish a church in their home, which became a key center for Christian teaching.

👉 Key Takeaway: They were flexible and willing to relocate for the sake of the gospel, showing great trust in God’s plan.

Mentoring Apollos, a Powerful Preacher (Acts 18:24-26)

One of their most significant contributions to the early church was mentoring Apollos, an eloquent and passionate preacher who only knew about John the Baptist’s message but had not yet fully grasped Jesus’ teachings.

Priscilla and Aquila took him aside and privately explained the way of God more accurately. Rather than publicly correcting him, they demonstrated wisdom and kindness in their approach.

👉 Key Takeaway: They were humble teachers who nurtured and equipped others for ministry.

Hosting and Leading a House Church (Romans 16:3-5, 1 Corinthians 16:19)

Paul later mentioned Priscilla and Aquila in his letters, calling them his “fellow workers in Christ Jesus” and noting that they risked their lives for him (Romans 16:3-4). They also opened their home for church gatherings, playing a vital role in the Christian movement.

👉 Key Takeaway: They used their home and resources to build community and strengthen the church.

Lessons from Priscilla and Aquila’s Partnership

A Strong Marriage in Faith – They worked together seamlessly in both business and ministry.

A Heart for Discipleship – They nurtured others, including Apollos, shaping future leaders of the church.

Faithful and Flexible – They moved where God called them, whether Corinth, Ephesus, or Rome.

A Willingness to Risk Everything – They put their lives on the line for Paul and the early church.

Hospitality and Generosity – They used their home as a place of worship and teaching.

Investing in Your Greatest Partnership

If you're thinking about your greatest partnerships today and you happen to be married, look for ways to invest in your spouse. There is no one else on earth who has agreed to partner with you in a more meaningful way. Lean in—sometimes these are the relationships that can bring about some of the biggest Kingdom benefits for those you have influence on.

-Mark

Mission Fields: You're In One

Influence and the Mission of Christ

This morning, I had the opportunity to meet with a group of men for early morning Bible study and encouragement. Our focus was on our various missions—both within our companies and within our personal networks. The question arose: Are we building a life, or are we aiming at heaven? The answer, in short, is BOTH. While we are here on earth, we participate in eternity.

Heaven and earth have intersected since the dawn of time, but even more so since Jesus assumed His heavenly throne and gave us the gift of the Holy Spirit. Our instructions to love the Lord our God with all of our hearts and to love our neighbors are just as alive today as they will be when we are in Heaven. As Jesus departed, He declared that all power in Heaven and earth had been given to Him, and then He gave us instructions—The Great Commission:

Matthew 28:18-20 Jesus commands His followers to “go and make disciples of all nations,” meaning the mission extends beyond church walls into workplaces, schools, and communities.

Lesson: Not everyone is called to the same mission field, but all are called to advance God’s Kingdom where they are.

Our role is to make our workstation our worship station, aligning our missions of doing business within the world with being a light for Christ. We all do this in different ways, reflecting the truth that we are the Body of Christ:

1 Corinthians 12:12-27 Paul describes believers as different parts of one body, each with a specific function. The hand is not the foot, the eye is not the ear, but all are necessary.

Lesson: We are all called to serve in different ways—some as pastors, some as business leaders, some as community builders—but all contribute to the Kingdom.

These thoughts should encourage us!  Rather than God presenting Himself in an otherworldly spectacle, He chooses to reveal Himself through His church—through those who believe and carry Him within their hearts. That’s us, Christians.

So, as we wind down for the weekend, take a moment to reflect on your schedule for next week. What lies ahead is not just a mundane calendar of duties. It is an intersection of heaven and earth, waiting for you to respond so that the Father and Son can reveal themselves to others through the work of the Holy Spirit.

Are you ready?

-Mark

R-Words | These 4 are Good for Us

Returning with New Energy

I've written some this week about slowing down and taking intentional steps. Rest, reflection, and re-charging are definitely important aspects of work. We don't often think of these words as being related to action and work, but God sure did. Even in His initial creation in Genesis 1-2, He reflected on what He had brought forth and rested after six days of labor. We, too, should model this trend so that we can return with newfound energy and direction for our efforts.

I love these four R-words: Rest, Reflection, Re-Charging, and Return. A great pattern for renewed passion.

We see this happen to a popular Old Testament figure as well.

Elijah’s Renewal (1 Kings 19:1-18) – After a period of intense ministry, the prophet Elijah became exhausted and discouraged. God allowed him to rest, eat, and regain strength before sending him back to his prophetic work. This highlights the importance of rest before returning to work with fresh energy.

The key message here is that God does send us back out. If we're still breathing, we still have work to do. We still have purpose. These R-words help us pursue that purpose to the fullest.

I needed all of the first three this week as I prepare to execute on #4—Returning! Spring Break has been excellent, but I am ready to re-enter my purpose for the week ahead.

What R-word do you need to practice this week? Time to get started.

-Mark

Revelations: Keeping an Open Mind

Keeping an open mind is not typically one of my strengths. Using my mind, yes. Always being open to new things or ways that seem foreign to me, not as much. However, practicing this lately has led me to some fantastic discoveries personally, professionally, and spiritually.

As we go about our roles in various industries, discerning whether to be open-minded in a situation or to stand firm in our original thought is often the most difficult job of a leader. As Christians, we must test these thoughts before the Lord to understand how He wants to work. Let’s take an example from one of the early leaders of our church and how Peter's original stance was corrected in a big move of God.

Peter and Cornelius Acts 10

Peter was deeply rooted in Jewish customs and beliefs, which included not associating with Gentiles (non-Jews) and following strict dietary laws. However, in Acts 10, God gives him a vision that challenges his rigid thinking.

The Vision

Peter sees a sheet descending from heaven filled with all kinds of animals, including those considered "unclean" by Jewish law. A voice tells him, “Rise, Peter; kill and eat.” Peter refuses, saying he has never eaten anything unclean. But the voice responds, “What God has made clean, do not call common.” This happens three times.

The Revelation

Right after the vision, Peter is led to the house of Cornelius, a Roman centurion and a Gentile. Normally, Peter would never enter a Gentile’s house, but because of the vision, he realizes that God is showing him that salvation is for all people, not just the Jews. He preaches to Cornelius and his household, and they receive the Holy Spirit—just like the Jews did at Pentecost.

The Takeaway

Peter was stuck in his ways, thinking that God’s promises and laws were only for the Jewish people. But by being open to what God was revealing, he understood a deeper truth about God’s love and inclusion. This moment changed Christianity forever, opening the door for the Gospel to reach the entire world.

This story is a powerful reminder that sometimes, our original thoughts and preconceived beliefs can limit what we think God is doing—but when we stay open, God can reveal more of Himself and His plans! Today, I am grateful for the ways in which I've been challenged. God has revealed Himself more and more through things that were already familiar to me. I was blind initially until the revelation took place.

Are there situations you need to be open to? Listen for the Spirit to move you, and if God reveals Himself, you may have just unlocked a new way in which He wants to work in your life.

-Mark

Slowing Down: Your Productivity Will Thank You

Intentional Slow Downs: Real Reflections and Making Time

Slowing down is not something that is praised or rewarded in business. Many leaders acknowledge its importance, but the practice of truly reflecting or recharging happens sparingly for most of us. In my experience, we typically write off a needed slowdown due to a lack of time or an abundance of activity that demands attention. These, of course, go hand in hand.

As I've gained more experience (another way of saying I've gotten older), I’ve come to recognize the importance of slowing down at critical times in life. These moments come in different forms, but the repeating patterns I see in myself and those around me occur:

• Before big decisions

• Before a foreseeable activity speed-up

• After a flurry of high-pressure events

All three of these are common in business, but they are often accompanied by more of the same. Big decisions lead to more activity. Activity brings pressure to perform and make even more decisions based on outcomes. The cycle repeats.

This week, as I’ve been on a slowdown with those I love most, I’ve had the chance to reflect, plan, and recharge for what’s next. No wonder we see Jesus doing this time and time again in the Gospels. Here are some of the many examples:

After His Baptism – 40 Days in the Wilderness
Matthew 4:1-2, Mark 1:12-13, Luke 4:1-2
Jesus withdrew into the wilderness for 40 days to fast and pray before beginning His public ministry.

After Feeding the 5,000
Matthew 14:23, Mark 6:46, John 6:15
“After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone.”

After Healing People and Casting Out Demons
Mark 1:35
“Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.”
Even after a long day of ministry, Jesus prioritized prayer in solitude.

Before Choosing the Twelve Disciples
Luke 6:12-13
“One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God. When morning came, he called his disciples to him and chose twelve of them.”
Before making a major decision, Jesus spent an entire night in prayer.

We see our Lord seeking wisdom through solitude and prayer before major decisions. We see Him retreat to the wilderness for 40 days to be tested and to pray before beginning His ministry. We see Him withdraw after long days of healing and serving others.

Slowing down is productive when used correctly and helps ensure we stay on the right path. Not every slowdown needs to be a vacation, but it should be intentional—time for reflection and recharge—as a tool to help us on the journey.

When’s the last time you slowed down? Perhaps a small slowdown tonight with the Father could do us all some good...

-Mark

Intentional Steps: Learning from the Mountain

My family and I are enjoying a quick Spring Break trip to Arizona. The blue skies are truly a blessing. In my opinion, one of God's greatest gifts is feeling His sun shining on your face and warming your body. In Ohio, we go without this blessing for a few months every year, so it's nice to have a day or two of reprieve in some sunshine.

Today, we hiked Camelback—our third year in a row. The reasons we love it are that it's close, familiar, and always presents a small challenge. It's not an easy trail or a paved walkway. It’s uphill, requiring you to climb over boulders and use both your hands and feet. The way up is great, but it's the way down that requires more careful focus and attention. One misstep and you could take a dangerous tumble.

God is so good that He embeds little life lessons into His creation—they're everywhere we turn. Today as we hiked, I was reminded of how I often feel in business: sometimes focused on the long-term future, but mostly concentrating on the day-to-day. On the mountain, we stopped to look "up" every now and then to see where we were going, but the majority of our attention was glued to our very next step. Isn't that how it is? Depending on the cycle of business we're in, we may have more time to dream and plan for the long-term vision, or we may be in a spot where a dangerous misstep could actually hurt.

Each day is important, and right now I think many of us are feeling that more than ever with the changing landscapes we've faced over the past few years. I'm reminded of a simple but profound quote from Jesus in Matthew 6:34:
"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

Every day, every step, every decision has an impact on the "right now." Our daily attention and commitment to our various missions are important, but it's the little things and the actions we take with others where the real mission comes to life. Like on the mountain, I cannot reach my goal just by staring at it—I have to walk, even when I'm tired or when it hurts.

Today, I learned from God's amazing creation and the words of His Son: keep taking intentional steps. It's okay to have an aim, but focus more on being excellent today. Tomorrow will worry about itself.

-Mark

Perception: We Do Not See Things the Way They Are

How We See: The Way We Are

I love the variety of conversations and viewpoints I get to hear each week. I’m consistently reminded of a quote that was drilled into my head for years while participating in Built To Lead training with Chet Scott:

“We do not see things the way they are, we see things the way we are.”

Ain’t that the truth.

Today, I heard a speaker present an issue that he believes permeates our world—a gap or divide between leaders who work within the church and leaders in the business world who attend them. Many of the viewpoints he shared were, in my opinion, correct about the common differences in the ways we operate. Certain formalities in business do not always translate to formal ministry roles. However, some points were delivered as absolute truths that create obstacles, but I did not find them to be universally true in my experience. This is the highlight of today’s reflection: Our experiences shape us and often create the lens through which we view life.

Perception is a tricky thing. It not only helps us decide on our actions, but it also influences how we reflect and form judgments regarding our outcomes. We must learn to perceive wisely, or we risk believing that our individual experience and sight are the only correct perspectives.

Let’s take an example from Jesus that shows us that what we see is not always the entire picture.

The Feeding of the Five Thousand 

The story of Jesus feeding the five thousand is one of the most powerful examples of how God’s perspective on provision differs from ours. It appears in all four Gospels, emphasizing its importance.

The Human Perspective: Scarcity and Limitations

Jesus and His disciples had been ministering to a massive crowd, and as the day wore on, the disciples became concerned. They saw:

• A huge crowd of over five thousand men, plus women and children—possibly 15,000-20,000 people total.

• Limited resources—only five loaves and two fish (John 6:9).

• A remote location where food couldn’t be easily obtained (Matthew 14:15).

• A logical solution—send the people away so they could buy their own food (Mark 6:36).

From a human standpoint, the problem was overwhelming. They saw lack rather than abundance, difficulty rather than opportunity.

Jesus’ Perspective: Abundance Through Faith

Instead of being overwhelmed, Jesus saw God’s provision rather than human limitation. His response teaches us several key lessons:

1. Bring What You Have to God (Even If It Seems Small)

   • The disciples focused on what they lacked, but Jesus asked them, “What do you have?” (Mark 6:38).

   • They brought five loaves and two fish—an insignificant meal for thousands.

   • Lesson: We often focus on our limitations, but God asks us to bring what we do have, no matter how small.

1. Trust in God's Provision, Not Human Reasoning

   • Jesus took the food, gave thanks, and broke it (John 6:11).

   • He didn’t focus on how little it was—He trusted the Father for multiplication.

   • Lesson: Instead of doubting, we should thank God in advance and trust that He will provide.

1. God Provides More Than Enough

   • As Jesus distributed the food, everyone ate and was satisfied (Matthew 14:20).

   • Not only was there enough—there were 12 baskets of leftovers!

   • Lesson: God’s provision is more than enough; He doesn’t just meet our needs, He exceeds them.

As leaders in either business or formal ministry, we need to remember that God's view is the lens through which we should aim to see. Our plans should align with His plans. Our vision should take us down the road He has prepared for us. The provision to carry out His plans will indeed come if we are consistently in step with His Spirit. Our unique gifts and strengths will be utilized when the time is right for our part to be played.

As we end the week and reflect, ask God to allow you to see things from His lens.

“We do not see things the way they are, we see things the way WE are.”

But God sees perfectly—let’s seek His vantage point as we continue to pursue the missions to which we’ve been called.

-Mark

Delays, Deadlines, and To Do's: God's Timing Always Wins

God's Divine Timing is Never Off

This week, I’ve found myself stacking and prioritizing activities with a lot of differing deadlines. Some of what I’m working on needs to be done now, some needs to happen in a certain sequence, and some is reliant on others to complete their work so that larger plans can come together.  Most of us when looking at our "to do" lists want things done immediately. We also want things to be predictable and run smoothly.  We're normal - but this isn't always how it goes.  

I’ve learned over the years to trust God’s timing in the delays or when working through something complex. Somehow, it always seems to be what is needed, although usually only seen when zooming out and reflecting on actual outcomes.

I’m reminded of the story of Lazarus in the book of John. It's one of the clearest examples of how God’s timing, though different from human expectations, is absolutely perfect.

The Situation

Lazarus, the brother of Mary and Martha, was very sick in Bethany. His sisters sent word to Jesus, saying, "Lord, the one you love is sick." (John 11:3). Given Jesus’ love for Lazarus and His reputation for healing, they expected Him to come immediately and prevent Lazarus from dying.

Jesus’ Response

Surprisingly, Jesus did not rush to Bethany. Instead, He stayed where He was for two more days (John 11:6). His reasoning? “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it.” (John 11:4).

From a human perspective, this delay seemed negligent. But Jesus was working on God’s divine schedule, not man’s.

The Outcome: A Greater Miracle

By the time Jesus arrived in Bethany, Lazarus had been dead for four days. This was significant because in Jewish tradition, it was believed that a person's spirit lingered near the body for three days. By day four, Lazarus was undeniably dead—his body had already begun to decay (John 11:39).

Martha and Mary were heartbroken. They both told Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” (John 11:21, 32). They believed in His power to heal, but their faith was limited.  They didn’t yet grasp that He had the power to reverse death itself.

Then, in front of a crowd of mourners, Jesus commanded the stone to be rolled away and called out, “Lazarus, come out!” (John 11:43). To everyone’s shock, Lazarus walked out of the tomb alive!

Why God's Timing Was Perfect

• A Bigger Miracle: If Jesus had healed Lazarus immediately, it would have been a great miracle, but raising a man from the dead after four days was an undeniable, world-changing display of divine power.

• Strengthened Faith: This event wasn’t just for Lazarus. It strengthened the faith of Mary, Martha, the disciples, and the onlookers, proving Jesus’ authority over death.

• Foreshadowing Jesus’ Own Resurrection: Just days later, Jesus Himself would rise from the grave. Raising Lazarus was a preview of His ultimate victory over death.

• God’s Glory Revealed: Jesus told the disciples from the start that this event was for God’s glory (John 11:4). If He had simply healed Lazarus earlier, the impact would not have been as profound.

Like Mary and Martha, we often want immediate answers to our prayers and immediate solutions to problems. But sometimes, God delays because He is setting up something even greater than we could imagine. His timing isn't just about solving problems—it’s about revealing His power, strengthening our faith, and glorifying Himself in the best way possible.

As long as we keep this in mind, we can more easily move through some of the complex business and personal to-do lists with the peace that Jesus brings. I hope this was a reminder for some of you, like it was for me, to continue to walk with Him and have faith in His timing.

-Mark

Ashes: Lent Begins Today

Ashes: From Dust You Are, and To Dust You Will Return.

Today (Ash Wednesday) begins our journey through Lent.  I received ashes this morning, but as I've traveled around town, I've received some strange looks. This happens every year, so today I thought we'd take a quick historical trip into this season that leads us to Easter.  Ash Wednesday marks the start of this sacred season—a time of reflection, repentance, and renewal. Check it out! 

What is Lent?

Lent is a 40-day period of fasting, prayer, and repentance leading up to Easter Sunday. It mirrors the 40 days that Jesus spent fasting in the wilderness, as described in the Gospels:

"Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry." (Matthew 4:1-2)

This period of preparation and spiritual discipline is not unique to Jesus. The Bible frequently associates the number 40 with times of testing, renewal, and divine intervention:

• Moses fasted for 40 days on Mount Sinai while receiving the Ten Commandments (Exodus 34:28).

• Elijah journeyed 40 days and nights to Mount Horeb after receiving heavenly sustenance (1 Kings 19:8).

• The Great Flood lasted 40 days and nights (Genesis 7:12).

• The Israelites wandered in the desert for 40 years before reaching the Promised Land (Numbers 14:33-34).

Lent is a time for Christians to enter their own spiritual wilderness, seeking renewal through fasting, prayer, and acts of charity.

The History of Lent

The observance of Lent dates back to the early Church, though its duration and practices have varied. The Council of Nicea in 325 A.D. formalized Easter's date as the first Sunday following the full moon after the vernal equinox. However, it was not until 461 A.D. that Pope Leo established Lent as a 40-day period leading up to Easter.

In the sixth century, Pope Gregory introduced Ash Wednesday as the official beginning of Lent, making it 46 days in total. This accounts for the additional six Sundays, which are considered feast days and therefore not included in the fasting count.

The imposition of ashes, a practice drawn from ancient Jewish traditions of repentance and mourning, became a central part of Ash Wednesday. As the priest or minister applies the ashes in the shape of a cross, they remind us:

"Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return." (Genesis 3:19)

Lent is an invitation to reflect, repent, and prepare our hearts for the resurrection of Christ. Through prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, we detach from worldly distractions and draw closer to God. As we receive the ashes today, let us embrace this sacred season with humility and devotion, walking the path that leads to the joy of Easter morning.

-Mark

Put on Your Oxygen Mask

The Importance of Daily Renewal Before Influencing Others

An analogy was shared with me today by a good friend and pastor that I had not considered before. We were discussing the significance of daily renewal in Christ. Turning our attention and energy toward Him before stepping into the world. He asked if I had ever truly paid attention to the safety instructions before a plane takes off. I had to admit that, despite taking plenty of flights, I hadn’t actively listened to that spiel in years. However, I did remember the part he referenced:

"If there is a cabin pressure change and oxygen masks are required, flight attendants urge passengers to first put their own mask on before assisting those around them."

He then asked me why they suggest this. I responded, "I’m no good to anyone around me if I’m also suffocating." Exactly. Don’t you just love pastors? They often make a point so clearly that no further explanation is needed. We just laughed.

Many of us step into the world each day with great intentions. We want to honor God, love others, and make a meaningful impact. But often, we lack the stamina or mindset to sustain those efforts throughout the day. My favorite Bible verse—one that is actually on my license plate—is Romans 12:2:

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will."

The renewing of our minds transforms us into unique and energized instruments of God. By seeking Him daily, allowing Him to refresh us, and staying connected to His presence, we can assist others in the world without falling into the same patterns or processes they use. We essentially "put our oxygen mask on first" so that we can help others in their battles while being sustained by the very source that gives us life.

The life we receive in Christ is better than oxygen—His renewing love and peace equip us for our daily pursuits. If you find yourself in need of renewal, take a moment to examine your routines. Give God space each day to renew and transform your mind, so that you may more fully pursue His good, pleasing, and perfect will!

-Mark

Milestones: Important Dates Matter!

Milestones: Remembering and Commemorating Our Journey

Today marked a milestone for our team—two years since anyone in the world saw or heard about our Tithe brand. While the time itself isn’t what makes this moment significant, the people we’ve influenced along the way certainly do. The longer I’m in business, the more I realize that the true measure of success isn’t just revenue, profit, or statistical growth (though those things have their place). Instead, it’s the impact we have on others that truly matters.

During today’s team meeting, we took time to share stories, and not one of them was about numbers. Instead, they were about the fun we’ve had and the influence we’ve shared with those we serve. That’s the good stuff. I’d run through a wall to keep leading this team, not just because of what we do, but because we are running together for a bigger mission.

On my drive in, I reflected on how God emphasizes remembrance and milestones throughout Scripture. In the Old Testament, He set aside numerous times for His people to reflect, celebrate, and draw closer to Him:

1. The Sabbath (Exodus 20:8-11) – A weekly sacred time of rest and worship.

2. Passover & The Feast of Unleavened Bread – Remembering Israel’s deliverance from Egypt.

3. The Feast of Firstfruits (Leviticus 23:9-14) – Giving the first harvest to God in gratitude.

4. The Feast of Weeks (Pentecost/Shavuot) (Leviticus 23:15-22) – Marking the wheat harvest and the giving of the Law at Sinai.

5. The Feast of Trumpets (Rosh Hashanah) (Leviticus 23:23-25) – A time of reflection and preparation.

6. The Day of Atonement (Yom Kippur) (Leviticus 16; 23:26-32) – A sacred day of fasting and repentance.

7. The Feast of Tabernacles (Sukkot) (Leviticus 23:33-44) – A joyful festival celebrating God’s provision.

8. The Feast of Dedication (Hanukkah) – Though not part of the original Law, a celebration of rededication.

Even as Christians today, we continue to celebrate sacred milestones such as Christmas and Easter, which hold eternal significance. Each of these moments of remembrance was designed to commemorate something special—whether between people or between people and God.

When we take time to pause and recognize milestones, we gain clarity, peace, hope, and renewed energy for the journey ahead. I’m grateful we were able to do that in a small way as a team today.

What milestones do you have coming up? How can you take time to celebrate or reflect? Enjoy those moments with the people you’re running with!

-Mark

Finding Satisfaction: It's in the Simple Stuff

Finding Satisfaction: It's in the Simple Stuff

As this week comes to a close on this Friday afternoon, I find myself reflecting on the work that has been done. The meetings prepared for, the conversations had, the administrative tasks, and the daily in-the-weeds actions that I often enjoy but sometimes discount as small.  All of these little actions add up to the sum of the influence I've had on the world around me. Compared to the "bigness" of everything happening in the world, it may not seem like much. But what I’ve learned is that for those who have been touched by it, it may have meant everything.

I don't know if I love the book of Ecclesiastes or not. I agree with it, but the way it smacks you with reality makes me want it in small doses.  In it, Solomon reminds us over and over that many of our goals are nothing more than *“a chasing after the wind.”  This life is temporary. We often lose sight of that. Anything obtained or achieved under the sun will wither. What truly lasts are the things that carry into eternity.

Today, two verses from Ecclesiastes are on my mind:

Ecclesiastes 9:10:
“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going.”
This verse emphasizes the importance of wholeheartedly committing to the work in front of us while we have the chance, because life is fleeting.

Ecclesiastes 3:12-13:
“I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.”
This verse reminds us that working diligently and finding contentment in our labor is part of God’s design for a fulfilling life.

Our work matters. I’ve seen it in action throughout the week. The encouragement we offer matters. The insights we provide, shaped by our experiences, matter. The physical work we do to move the needle on projects that are important to others matters. Providing for our families matters, because it allows us to experience moments of wholeness in the presence of those we love.

So as you end the week, know this: the good you’ve done and the work you’ve completed were not in vain. Find satisfaction in your work. It is a gift from God! Enjoy your weekend and the people you share a meal or a drink with. These days will not last forever, but the people and your influence on their lives will.

-Mark 

The Juggling Act | Staying Rooted When Stretched Thin

This week, there seems to be a common theme among many of the folks I've met or spoken with. For some reason, life seems to be bringing opportunities, but with them comes conflict.  Each opportunity demanding our time and attention. This isn't an isolated problem. In our fast-paced world, where speed and efficiency are king, most of us (myself included) tend to get anxious when things feel out of order or when our output doesn’t match our expectations.

We say yes to commitments that sound great on their own, but when combined, they stretch us to our limits. These are symptoms of a "do more, get more, show more" society that moves on quickly once a goal is accomplished. There isn’t an easy cure for this mindset, and sometimes it isn’t even wrong. However, it can often rob us of our real purpose—or at the very least, exhausts us as we try to keep it alive.

Jesus warned us about this in Matthew 13 through the Parable of the Sower.

The Parable of the Sower

Jesus tells the story of a farmer who goes out to sow seeds. The seeds fall on four different types of soil, each representing a different kind of person and how they receive God’s Word:

1. The Path (Hardened Soil) – The seed falls on the path but is quickly eaten by birds. This represents people who hear the message but don’t understand it, and Satan snatches it away before it takes root.

2. The Rocky Soil – The seed grows quickly but has no deep roots, so it withers under the sun. This represents people who receive the message with joy but fall away when trouble or persecution comes.

3. The Thorny Soil – The seed grows, but thorns (weeds) choke it, preventing it from bearing fruit. Jesus explains that the thorns represent the worries of life, the deceitfulness of wealth, and the desire for other things (Mark 4:19).

   • Application: This is the person who is constantly juggling work, money, responsibilities, and personal ambitions. Their heart is divided, making it hard to grow spiritually or find peace.

4. The Good Soil – The seed falls on good soil, grows deep roots, and produces a great harvest. These are the people who hear the Word, understand it, and apply it to their lives.

How It Relates to Juggling Responsibilities & Finding Peace

The thorny soil is especially relevant here because it represents people who feel overwhelmed by life’s pressures.  Work, finances, relationships, and personal ambitions all have a way of complicating our decision making and use of time. These things can "choke" spiritual growth, leaving us restless, anxious, and spiritually unfulfilled.

Jesus' message is clear: If we let worries and distractions dominate our hearts, they will rob us of the peace and purpose God intends for us.

The solution is to cultivate good soil—a heart that prioritizes God’s Word over the endless to-do lists, ambitions, and pressures of life. This doesn’t mean ignoring responsibilities but rather keeping God first and trusting Him with the rest.

If you feel like you’re being pulled in too many directions, you probably are. We want to be rooted in good soil, so if you find yourself among too many thorns, it may be time to re-evaluate. Your faith, your well-being, and even those around you may thank you for it!

-Mark

We Are What We Repeatedly Do

We Are What We Repeatedly Do

This quote, most often attributed to Aristotle, is one of the truest phrases I've ever heard. We are not what we think about. We are not what we say. We are certainly not what we desire, want, or complain about. But—we are also not what we do once in a while, from time to time. We are what we repeatedly do, consistently.

When you think about your reputation and how you would like to be perceived, you usually consider what you'd like others to be able to count on you for. When I think about those I trust most and can count on, I reflect on what their disciplines and dedications say about them. I almost never catch myself saying, "Let's contact John Doe for this or that—I saw him do it once." Instead, I ask, "Who is the trusted resource for what I'm looking for? Who has done this well for others in similar situations? Who has a track record of success in this area?"

When I think about those who inspire me, it's almost always due to a commitment they've made to a craft. We are what we repeatedly do. The person I most admire and try to emulate is Jesus. I fall massively short, but it is because of what He did over and over again that He is the ultimate inspiration for humanity. Repeatedly, He served. In Luke 22:24-27, Jesus tells us in His own words that He came not to be served, but to serve. He freely gave of Himself throughout His entire life, all the way until He gave His life up for the ransom of many.

Another thing that Jesus did repeatedly was to see and know those who were marginalized or overlooked. In Mark 2:17, Jesus tells us that it is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. He came for sinners so that we may know the love of God and turn to Him. Jesus also worked hard to fulfill His mission. He understood His purpose and tirelessly pursued it. Hard work is admirable when focused in the right direction.

Jesus consistently was present with those in front of Him. Whether at His table, at His feet, or in a crowd, those around Him likely felt like they were the most important person to Him at that moment. These things were repeated, important, and became the reputation now consistent with His name.

As I think about my reputation, I wonder what others would say about me. What is it that I am known for repeating? When others have a problem that I believe I can help solve, do they believe in my ability to do so? Am I the first name on their list, ready to be called? These are great thoughts to ponder.

Reader—today, take a look at your calendar. Reflect on what shows up most often. What is it that you are repeating? Rather than focusing on the perception you're trying to create, focus on the actions you consistently take. We all have the opportunity to do great work and influence those around us. We are what we repeatedly do! Let’s do something great!

-Mark

Keep Fighting Mighty Warrior

Keep Fighting: Overcoming Weakness with Faith

Lately it seems like every day leaders in business are fighting for every inch of ground they take. The current economic cycle is more challenging than in recent years, and many leaders feel the weight of uncertainty. Some even question whether they have what it takes to overcome the obstacles before them. If you’ve ever felt weaker than the work in front of you, you’re not alone. But take heart—this feeling is nothing new, and it is often in these moments of doubt that we are drawn closer to God’s power and provision.

Gideon’s story in Judges 6-7 is a perfect example of this. When God called him to lead Israel against the oppressive Midianites, Gideon did not feel capable or strong. In fact, when we first meet him, he is hiding in a winepress, threshing wheat in secret out of fear. Yet, the Angel of the Lord appeared to him and declared, “The Lord is with you, Mighty Warrior.” Imagine hearing that while you’re in hiding! Gideon, like many of us, responded with doubt, questioning why Israel was suffering and why God would choose someone as insignificant as him.

How often do we do the same? In seasons of challenge, we may look at our abilities, resources, and circumstances and feel completely inadequate. We might wonder if we misheard our original calling or if we even have what it takes to push forward. But just as God reassured Gideon, He reassures us: “Go in the strength you have… Am I not sending you?” (Judges 6:14). The strength we have may feel insufficient, but God’s presence is what makes the difference.

Even after hearing God’s promise, Gideon struggled with doubt and asked for signs. God, in His patience, provided them, showing that He understands our human uncertainty. Yet, when it came time for battle, God did something unexpected—He reduced Gideon’s army from 32,000 men to just 300. Why? So that Israel would know that victory came not by their might but by God’s hand.

This is where our weakness becomes a blessing. When we cannot see a way out based on current conditions, we are forced to rely on God rather than our own strategies. For those in leadership, real estate, finance, or any industry facing difficulties, this is a powerful reminder: Your current limitations do not determine the outcome—God does.

Just as Gideon and his small army defeated the Midianites, we can overcome the challenges before us, not because we are strong, but because we trust in the One who called us. Circumstances will change, or we will be given the ability to meet the challenge when the time is right. The key is to stay faithful to the mission we began, knowing that if God led us here, He will lead us through.

So today, if you feel overwhelmed, remember this: God is with you, Mighty Warrior. Keep going in faith, and trust that He will make a way where there seems to be none.

-Mark

What's in My Control? Staying Focused on Opportunities

Focusing on What You Can Control Today

There is no shortage of distractions in our world. Today, the number one way many of us get off track isn’t social media, entertainment, or busyness—it’s discouragement. Specifically, discouragement over circumstances or obstacles we cannot control.

Too often, we spend large portions of our time either in fear or frozen in a cycle of inaction due to the odds of failure. We have ideas, aspirations, and goals we’d like to achieve, yet we talk ourselves out of starting. We cite market conditions, tough competition, or the inability to see how a small start could lead to something bigger. Even when we do see a path forward, we fear the effort required to get there. Worse yet, we hesitate because we don’t want to risk our ego or reputation if things don’t work out.

Now that we’ve covered why we don’t start—let’s discuss why we should!

As Christians, we must learn to trust the outcomes to God and focus on the responsibilities that are ours. We are not held accountable for what others do or think, but we are stewards of our most limited resource: time. We must take stock of how we are called to use the gifts we have freely received.

I run a mortgage company—not the easiest industry to lead in right now. As a team, we meet weekly to focus on what is in our control and how we can take action to increase our influence in a positive way for customers and partners. It’s a powerful reminder that progress comes from focusing on what can be done, not worrying about what cannot.

Let’s take a look at a biblical example of this mindset in action.

Daniel’s Challenges and Perspective

Taken into Babylonian Captivity (Daniel 1)

Daniel was taken from his home as a young man and forced into the service of a foreign king.

• He couldn’t change his captivity, but he chose to remain faithful by refusing to eat the king’s food, negotiating a compromise that honored his faith.

• Key lesson: He controlled his personal integrity and faith, not his circumstances.

Interpreting the King’s Dream (Daniel 2)

King Nebuchadnezzar ordered all wise men to be executed if they couldn’t interpret his dream.

• Instead of panicking, Daniel prayed, sought wisdom, and took action, asking the king for time and trusting God for revelation.

• Key lesson: He couldn’t control the king’s decree, but he could trust God and use his wisdom.

Thrown into the Lion’s Den (Daniel 6)

When a law was passed forbidding prayer to anyone but the king, Daniel continued his routine of praying to God, knowing the consequences.

• He didn’t try to fight the law politically—he simply remained faithful and trusted God.

• Key lesson: He controlled his obedience and faith, not the government’s decisions.

Applying Daniel’s Example Today

Let’s take inventory of how we can follow Daniel’s example. If you catch yourself making excuses for inaction, ask yourself: what can you do today to take a step forward? If you fear failure due to larger circumstances, redefine success. Success is not about achieving a perfect outcome—it’s about making progress with what’s in your control, today.

Stay faithful, take action, and trust God with the results!

-Mark

Turning Off Autopilot: The Habit of Judging Others

Today at our Friday men’s Bible study, I sat among a group of men I’ve come to know and love over the past couple of years. We represent a diverse mix of business owners, market leaders, non-profit directors, and pastors. What binds us together is our love for Christ, but what makes us different is the unique way He uses each of us in our day-to-day lives. Today, we found ourselves unified by a struggle we all share: the tendency to judge others.

It’s ironic that one of the men in our group is a former federal judge. He spent years rendering judgments as part of his profession. Even he wrestles with the reality that judgment extends far beyond the courtroom. As we read from Matthew 7, Jesus’ words struck a deep chord within us:

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”
(Matthew 7:1-5, NIV)

This passage makes it clear: our judgments of others are often blind to our own faults. One powerful question came up in our discussion: What if we were the one on trial? Would we want to be judged fairly? No, we would plead for mercy, grace, and understanding. If that is what we desire for ourselves, shouldn’t we extend the same to others?

The Autopilot of Judgment

I’ve realized that judging others isn’t something I actively set out to do—it happens almost instinctively, like an autopilot function in my mind. I catch myself forming opinions about people’s actions, decisions, and even their associations. I judge those who don’t work the way I believe they should, who make choices that don’t make sense to me, or who surround themselves with people I wouldn’t choose. Rather than offering grace or the benefit of the doubt, my mind makes snap judgments.

In the fast-paced world of business, this habit is especially common. We make quick decisions, assess risks, and categorize people rapidly to keep things moving. But Jesus calls us to a different standard—one that demands self-reflection before we pass judgment on others.

Embracing Awareness

Jesus’ words challenge us to shift from autopilot to awareness. Instead of letting judgment be our default, we should pause, reflect, and evaluate our own shortcomings. When we remove the plank from our own eye, we begin to see clearly. And when we see clearly, our approach to others changes.

It’s time to surrender our habit to judge and ask God to help us see others through His eyes. Let’s turn off autopilot and embrace the awareness that leads to grace.

-Mark

Unexpected Detours: How To See the Next Step

Seeing Through a New Lens: The Power of Serving Others

Today, I had the privilege of serving some of the neediest in our city alongside two close friends I’ve known for nearly 15 years. Freely giving time to make others feel seen and known is one of the best feelings that money can't buy.

One of these friends has been going through a difficult season in life—something we all experience at times. In this case, it’s business-related. When our businesses struggle or our personal pursuits take unexpected detours, it can feel as if the entire world is crashing down. Our minds become wrapped up in our thoughts, fears, and broken plans, making it easy to lose sight of the bigger picture.

We tend to view our situation in a "subjective absolute"—meaning we assume that things will always be the way they are now, that they will never change. That circumstances will continue to unfold against us. This false perception can trap us in a cycle of worry and despair.

The best way I’ve seen this mindset shift is by rolling up our sleeves and serving someone else. There is nothing more powerful than helping someone solve a problem, and when we can’t immediately solve our own, the momentum we create by assisting others can be transformative.

This reminds me of Jesus and the moment before He sent out the Twelve disciples in pairs. In Mark 6:7-13, Jesus gathered His disciples and sent them out with nothing but the essentials—no money, no extra food or clothing—so they would rely on God and the kindness of others. Their mission was not about themselves; it was about healing, teaching, and bringing hope to others.

But what came just before this? Jesus had just faced rejection in His hometown. Mark 6:1-6 tells us that when He returned to Nazareth to teach, the people doubted Him because they had known Him as a carpenter, the son of Mary. Their lack of faith prevented Him from performing many miracles, and He marveled at their unbelief before moving on.

Think about that—Jesus was rejected by those who knew Him best. Instead of dwelling on the hurt, He immediately turned His focus outward, sending His disciples to serve others. He didn’t allow rejection to derail His mission; He responded with action and purpose.

This is our example. If you find yourself in a difficult place, uncertain of your next move, take a step to help someone else. Reach out a hand. Serve. Encourage. Give. Clarity often follows when we shift our perspective, and nothing shifts our perspective more powerfully than stepping outside of ourselves and into the lives of others.

Jesus didn’t dwell on rejection—He got to work. And so should we.

-Mark

Quit Your Race: Run His (A True Story)

Quit Your Race: Run His (A true Story)

Today, I had breakfast with an incredible leader and mentor. Every conversation with him is worth its weight in gold because of the overflow of love, encouragement, challenge, and conviction I receive. But today, I heard a story I had never known about his background—one that left a lasting impact on me.

In his younger days, he was a track star—one of the top three in the state in the 200 meters. He continued running in college and even had an opportunity to leave school to train for the Olympics. However, he grew up in a strict religious family that honored the Sabbath from sundown Friday to sundown Saturday. If a meet fell on those days, he didn’t run.

His senior year, the state qualifiers were set for a Friday, just minutes before sundown. No problem—he would finish with time to spare. But then, the starter ran out of blanks and had to retrieve more for the starting gun. The race was delayed, and suddenly, the starting gun was set to fire after sundown. In that moment, he made the decision to run anyway.

As he rounded the corner into the straightaway, he was facing west—looking straight into an already set sun. His legs seemed to move in slow motion as the weight of breaking his commitment to the Lord sank in. Though he had been in first place heading into his strongest stretch, he finished fifth. At that moment, he knew: his commitment to the Lord superseded all else. That experience solidified his decision to enter full-time ministry.

We see moments like this in an instant in the gospel as well—just look at the story of Matthew. Matthew was a tax collector, a profession that made him wealthy but also despised among his fellow Jews. Tax collectors worked for the Roman government and often overcharged people for personal gain. Yet in Matthew 9:9, Jesus saw him sitting at his tax booth and simply said, “Follow me.” Things changed for Matthew in that exact moment. 

Matthew’s story reminds us of the power of obedience to a call.  He was running his own race, but in a moment decided to join Jesus on a whole new track. Unlike fishermen like Peter and Andrew, who could return to their trade if things didn’t work out, tax collecting was a government-appointed job—once Matthew left, there was no going back. Yet, without hesitation, he got up, left everything behind, and followed. While our decisions don't always need to be as dramatic, the illustration here is powerful.

Take a few minutes today—on your drive home, or before you fall asleep—to reflect. Is there a moment in your life that changed the direction of your conviction? A time when you chose to run your own race rather than follow what your faith called you to? I can recall the moment when things changed for me personally — what a beautiful moment that was.

Evaluate the race you're running. Are you staring into an already set sun, realizing you’ve been running for yourself? Or do you have the green light to take off down the straightaway, running the race He has set before you?

-Mark