Intentional Steps: Learning from the Mountain

My family and I are enjoying a quick Spring Break trip to Arizona. The blue skies are truly a blessing. In my opinion, one of God's greatest gifts is feeling His sun shining on your face and warming your body. In Ohio, we go without this blessing for a few months every year, so it's nice to have a day or two of reprieve in some sunshine.

Today, we hiked Camelback—our third year in a row. The reasons we love it are that it's close, familiar, and always presents a small challenge. It's not an easy trail or a paved walkway. It’s uphill, requiring you to climb over boulders and use both your hands and feet. The way up is great, but it's the way down that requires more careful focus and attention. One misstep and you could take a dangerous tumble.

God is so good that He embeds little life lessons into His creation—they're everywhere we turn. Today as we hiked, I was reminded of how I often feel in business: sometimes focused on the long-term future, but mostly concentrating on the day-to-day. On the mountain, we stopped to look "up" every now and then to see where we were going, but the majority of our attention was glued to our very next step. Isn't that how it is? Depending on the cycle of business we're in, we may have more time to dream and plan for the long-term vision, or we may be in a spot where a dangerous misstep could actually hurt.

Each day is important, and right now I think many of us are feeling that more than ever with the changing landscapes we've faced over the past few years. I'm reminded of a simple but profound quote from Jesus in Matthew 6:34:
"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

Every day, every step, every decision has an impact on the "right now." Our daily attention and commitment to our various missions are important, but it's the little things and the actions we take with others where the real mission comes to life. Like on the mountain, I cannot reach my goal just by staring at it—I have to walk, even when I'm tired or when it hurts.

Today, I learned from God's amazing creation and the words of His Son: keep taking intentional steps. It's okay to have an aim, but focus more on being excellent today. Tomorrow will worry about itself.

-Mark

Perception: We Do Not See Things the Way They Are

How We See: The Way We Are

I love the variety of conversations and viewpoints I get to hear each week. I’m consistently reminded of a quote that was drilled into my head for years while participating in Built To Lead training with Chet Scott:

“We do not see things the way they are, we see things the way we are.”

Ain’t that the truth.

Today, I heard a speaker present an issue that he believes permeates our world—a gap or divide between leaders who work within the church and leaders in the business world who attend them. Many of the viewpoints he shared were, in my opinion, correct about the common differences in the ways we operate. Certain formalities in business do not always translate to formal ministry roles. However, some points were delivered as absolute truths that create obstacles, but I did not find them to be universally true in my experience. This is the highlight of today’s reflection: Our experiences shape us and often create the lens through which we view life.

Perception is a tricky thing. It not only helps us decide on our actions, but it also influences how we reflect and form judgments regarding our outcomes. We must learn to perceive wisely, or we risk believing that our individual experience and sight are the only correct perspectives.

Let’s take an example from Jesus that shows us that what we see is not always the entire picture.

The Feeding of the Five Thousand 

The story of Jesus feeding the five thousand is one of the most powerful examples of how God’s perspective on provision differs from ours. It appears in all four Gospels, emphasizing its importance.

The Human Perspective: Scarcity and Limitations

Jesus and His disciples had been ministering to a massive crowd, and as the day wore on, the disciples became concerned. They saw:

• A huge crowd of over five thousand men, plus women and children—possibly 15,000-20,000 people total.

• Limited resources—only five loaves and two fish (John 6:9).

• A remote location where food couldn’t be easily obtained (Matthew 14:15).

• A logical solution—send the people away so they could buy their own food (Mark 6:36).

From a human standpoint, the problem was overwhelming. They saw lack rather than abundance, difficulty rather than opportunity.

Jesus’ Perspective: Abundance Through Faith

Instead of being overwhelmed, Jesus saw God’s provision rather than human limitation. His response teaches us several key lessons:

1. Bring What You Have to God (Even If It Seems Small)

   • The disciples focused on what they lacked, but Jesus asked them, “What do you have?” (Mark 6:38).

   • They brought five loaves and two fish—an insignificant meal for thousands.

   • Lesson: We often focus on our limitations, but God asks us to bring what we do have, no matter how small.

1. Trust in God's Provision, Not Human Reasoning

   • Jesus took the food, gave thanks, and broke it (John 6:11).

   • He didn’t focus on how little it was—He trusted the Father for multiplication.

   • Lesson: Instead of doubting, we should thank God in advance and trust that He will provide.

1. God Provides More Than Enough

   • As Jesus distributed the food, everyone ate and was satisfied (Matthew 14:20).

   • Not only was there enough—there were 12 baskets of leftovers!

   • Lesson: God’s provision is more than enough; He doesn’t just meet our needs, He exceeds them.

As leaders in either business or formal ministry, we need to remember that God's view is the lens through which we should aim to see. Our plans should align with His plans. Our vision should take us down the road He has prepared for us. The provision to carry out His plans will indeed come if we are consistently in step with His Spirit. Our unique gifts and strengths will be utilized when the time is right for our part to be played.

As we end the week and reflect, ask God to allow you to see things from His lens.

“We do not see things the way they are, we see things the way WE are.”

But God sees perfectly—let’s seek His vantage point as we continue to pursue the missions to which we’ve been called.

-Mark

Delays, Deadlines, and To Do's: God's Timing Always Wins

God's Divine Timing is Never Off

This week, I’ve found myself stacking and prioritizing activities with a lot of differing deadlines. Some of what I’m working on needs to be done now, some needs to happen in a certain sequence, and some is reliant on others to complete their work so that larger plans can come together.  Most of us when looking at our "to do" lists want things done immediately. We also want things to be predictable and run smoothly.  We're normal - but this isn't always how it goes.  

I’ve learned over the years to trust God’s timing in the delays or when working through something complex. Somehow, it always seems to be what is needed, although usually only seen when zooming out and reflecting on actual outcomes.

I’m reminded of the story of Lazarus in the book of John. It's one of the clearest examples of how God’s timing, though different from human expectations, is absolutely perfect.

The Situation

Lazarus, the brother of Mary and Martha, was very sick in Bethany. His sisters sent word to Jesus, saying, "Lord, the one you love is sick." (John 11:3). Given Jesus’ love for Lazarus and His reputation for healing, they expected Him to come immediately and prevent Lazarus from dying.

Jesus’ Response

Surprisingly, Jesus did not rush to Bethany. Instead, He stayed where He was for two more days (John 11:6). His reasoning? “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it.” (John 11:4).

From a human perspective, this delay seemed negligent. But Jesus was working on God’s divine schedule, not man’s.

The Outcome: A Greater Miracle

By the time Jesus arrived in Bethany, Lazarus had been dead for four days. This was significant because in Jewish tradition, it was believed that a person's spirit lingered near the body for three days. By day four, Lazarus was undeniably dead—his body had already begun to decay (John 11:39).

Martha and Mary were heartbroken. They both told Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” (John 11:21, 32). They believed in His power to heal, but their faith was limited.  They didn’t yet grasp that He had the power to reverse death itself.

Then, in front of a crowd of mourners, Jesus commanded the stone to be rolled away and called out, “Lazarus, come out!” (John 11:43). To everyone’s shock, Lazarus walked out of the tomb alive!

Why God's Timing Was Perfect

• A Bigger Miracle: If Jesus had healed Lazarus immediately, it would have been a great miracle, but raising a man from the dead after four days was an undeniable, world-changing display of divine power.

• Strengthened Faith: This event wasn’t just for Lazarus. It strengthened the faith of Mary, Martha, the disciples, and the onlookers, proving Jesus’ authority over death.

• Foreshadowing Jesus’ Own Resurrection: Just days later, Jesus Himself would rise from the grave. Raising Lazarus was a preview of His ultimate victory over death.

• God’s Glory Revealed: Jesus told the disciples from the start that this event was for God’s glory (John 11:4). If He had simply healed Lazarus earlier, the impact would not have been as profound.

Like Mary and Martha, we often want immediate answers to our prayers and immediate solutions to problems. But sometimes, God delays because He is setting up something even greater than we could imagine. His timing isn't just about solving problems—it’s about revealing His power, strengthening our faith, and glorifying Himself in the best way possible.

As long as we keep this in mind, we can more easily move through some of the complex business and personal to-do lists with the peace that Jesus brings. I hope this was a reminder for some of you, like it was for me, to continue to walk with Him and have faith in His timing.

-Mark

Ashes: Lent Begins Today

Ashes: From Dust You Are, and To Dust You Will Return.

Today (Ash Wednesday) begins our journey through Lent.  I received ashes this morning, but as I've traveled around town, I've received some strange looks. This happens every year, so today I thought we'd take a quick historical trip into this season that leads us to Easter.  Ash Wednesday marks the start of this sacred season—a time of reflection, repentance, and renewal. Check it out! 

What is Lent?

Lent is a 40-day period of fasting, prayer, and repentance leading up to Easter Sunday. It mirrors the 40 days that Jesus spent fasting in the wilderness, as described in the Gospels:

"Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry." (Matthew 4:1-2)

This period of preparation and spiritual discipline is not unique to Jesus. The Bible frequently associates the number 40 with times of testing, renewal, and divine intervention:

• Moses fasted for 40 days on Mount Sinai while receiving the Ten Commandments (Exodus 34:28).

• Elijah journeyed 40 days and nights to Mount Horeb after receiving heavenly sustenance (1 Kings 19:8).

• The Great Flood lasted 40 days and nights (Genesis 7:12).

• The Israelites wandered in the desert for 40 years before reaching the Promised Land (Numbers 14:33-34).

Lent is a time for Christians to enter their own spiritual wilderness, seeking renewal through fasting, prayer, and acts of charity.

The History of Lent

The observance of Lent dates back to the early Church, though its duration and practices have varied. The Council of Nicea in 325 A.D. formalized Easter's date as the first Sunday following the full moon after the vernal equinox. However, it was not until 461 A.D. that Pope Leo established Lent as a 40-day period leading up to Easter.

In the sixth century, Pope Gregory introduced Ash Wednesday as the official beginning of Lent, making it 46 days in total. This accounts for the additional six Sundays, which are considered feast days and therefore not included in the fasting count.

The imposition of ashes, a practice drawn from ancient Jewish traditions of repentance and mourning, became a central part of Ash Wednesday. As the priest or minister applies the ashes in the shape of a cross, they remind us:

"Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return." (Genesis 3:19)

Lent is an invitation to reflect, repent, and prepare our hearts for the resurrection of Christ. Through prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, we detach from worldly distractions and draw closer to God. As we receive the ashes today, let us embrace this sacred season with humility and devotion, walking the path that leads to the joy of Easter morning.

-Mark

Put on Your Oxygen Mask

The Importance of Daily Renewal Before Influencing Others

An analogy was shared with me today by a good friend and pastor that I had not considered before. We were discussing the significance of daily renewal in Christ. Turning our attention and energy toward Him before stepping into the world. He asked if I had ever truly paid attention to the safety instructions before a plane takes off. I had to admit that, despite taking plenty of flights, I hadn’t actively listened to that spiel in years. However, I did remember the part he referenced:

"If there is a cabin pressure change and oxygen masks are required, flight attendants urge passengers to first put their own mask on before assisting those around them."

He then asked me why they suggest this. I responded, "I’m no good to anyone around me if I’m also suffocating." Exactly. Don’t you just love pastors? They often make a point so clearly that no further explanation is needed. We just laughed.

Many of us step into the world each day with great intentions. We want to honor God, love others, and make a meaningful impact. But often, we lack the stamina or mindset to sustain those efforts throughout the day. My favorite Bible verse—one that is actually on my license plate—is Romans 12:2:

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will."

The renewing of our minds transforms us into unique and energized instruments of God. By seeking Him daily, allowing Him to refresh us, and staying connected to His presence, we can assist others in the world without falling into the same patterns or processes they use. We essentially "put our oxygen mask on first" so that we can help others in their battles while being sustained by the very source that gives us life.

The life we receive in Christ is better than oxygen—His renewing love and peace equip us for our daily pursuits. If you find yourself in need of renewal, take a moment to examine your routines. Give God space each day to renew and transform your mind, so that you may more fully pursue His good, pleasing, and perfect will!

-Mark

Milestones: Important Dates Matter!

Milestones: Remembering and Commemorating Our Journey

Today marked a milestone for our team—two years since anyone in the world saw or heard about our Tithe brand. While the time itself isn’t what makes this moment significant, the people we’ve influenced along the way certainly do. The longer I’m in business, the more I realize that the true measure of success isn’t just revenue, profit, or statistical growth (though those things have their place). Instead, it’s the impact we have on others that truly matters.

During today’s team meeting, we took time to share stories, and not one of them was about numbers. Instead, they were about the fun we’ve had and the influence we’ve shared with those we serve. That’s the good stuff. I’d run through a wall to keep leading this team, not just because of what we do, but because we are running together for a bigger mission.

On my drive in, I reflected on how God emphasizes remembrance and milestones throughout Scripture. In the Old Testament, He set aside numerous times for His people to reflect, celebrate, and draw closer to Him:

1. The Sabbath (Exodus 20:8-11) – A weekly sacred time of rest and worship.

2. Passover & The Feast of Unleavened Bread – Remembering Israel’s deliverance from Egypt.

3. The Feast of Firstfruits (Leviticus 23:9-14) – Giving the first harvest to God in gratitude.

4. The Feast of Weeks (Pentecost/Shavuot) (Leviticus 23:15-22) – Marking the wheat harvest and the giving of the Law at Sinai.

5. The Feast of Trumpets (Rosh Hashanah) (Leviticus 23:23-25) – A time of reflection and preparation.

6. The Day of Atonement (Yom Kippur) (Leviticus 16; 23:26-32) – A sacred day of fasting and repentance.

7. The Feast of Tabernacles (Sukkot) (Leviticus 23:33-44) – A joyful festival celebrating God’s provision.

8. The Feast of Dedication (Hanukkah) – Though not part of the original Law, a celebration of rededication.

Even as Christians today, we continue to celebrate sacred milestones such as Christmas and Easter, which hold eternal significance. Each of these moments of remembrance was designed to commemorate something special—whether between people or between people and God.

When we take time to pause and recognize milestones, we gain clarity, peace, hope, and renewed energy for the journey ahead. I’m grateful we were able to do that in a small way as a team today.

What milestones do you have coming up? How can you take time to celebrate or reflect? Enjoy those moments with the people you’re running with!

-Mark

Finding Satisfaction: It's in the Simple Stuff

Finding Satisfaction: It's in the Simple Stuff

As this week comes to a close on this Friday afternoon, I find myself reflecting on the work that has been done. The meetings prepared for, the conversations had, the administrative tasks, and the daily in-the-weeds actions that I often enjoy but sometimes discount as small.  All of these little actions add up to the sum of the influence I've had on the world around me. Compared to the "bigness" of everything happening in the world, it may not seem like much. But what I’ve learned is that for those who have been touched by it, it may have meant everything.

I don't know if I love the book of Ecclesiastes or not. I agree with it, but the way it smacks you with reality makes me want it in small doses.  In it, Solomon reminds us over and over that many of our goals are nothing more than *“a chasing after the wind.”  This life is temporary. We often lose sight of that. Anything obtained or achieved under the sun will wither. What truly lasts are the things that carry into eternity.

Today, two verses from Ecclesiastes are on my mind:

Ecclesiastes 9:10:
“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going.”
This verse emphasizes the importance of wholeheartedly committing to the work in front of us while we have the chance, because life is fleeting.

Ecclesiastes 3:12-13:
“I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.”
This verse reminds us that working diligently and finding contentment in our labor is part of God’s design for a fulfilling life.

Our work matters. I’ve seen it in action throughout the week. The encouragement we offer matters. The insights we provide, shaped by our experiences, matter. The physical work we do to move the needle on projects that are important to others matters. Providing for our families matters, because it allows us to experience moments of wholeness in the presence of those we love.

So as you end the week, know this: the good you’ve done and the work you’ve completed were not in vain. Find satisfaction in your work. It is a gift from God! Enjoy your weekend and the people you share a meal or a drink with. These days will not last forever, but the people and your influence on their lives will.

-Mark 

The Juggling Act | Staying Rooted When Stretched Thin

This week, there seems to be a common theme among many of the folks I've met or spoken with. For some reason, life seems to be bringing opportunities, but with them comes conflict.  Each opportunity demanding our time and attention. This isn't an isolated problem. In our fast-paced world, where speed and efficiency are king, most of us (myself included) tend to get anxious when things feel out of order or when our output doesn’t match our expectations.

We say yes to commitments that sound great on their own, but when combined, they stretch us to our limits. These are symptoms of a "do more, get more, show more" society that moves on quickly once a goal is accomplished. There isn’t an easy cure for this mindset, and sometimes it isn’t even wrong. However, it can often rob us of our real purpose—or at the very least, exhausts us as we try to keep it alive.

Jesus warned us about this in Matthew 13 through the Parable of the Sower.

The Parable of the Sower

Jesus tells the story of a farmer who goes out to sow seeds. The seeds fall on four different types of soil, each representing a different kind of person and how they receive God’s Word:

1. The Path (Hardened Soil) – The seed falls on the path but is quickly eaten by birds. This represents people who hear the message but don’t understand it, and Satan snatches it away before it takes root.

2. The Rocky Soil – The seed grows quickly but has no deep roots, so it withers under the sun. This represents people who receive the message with joy but fall away when trouble or persecution comes.

3. The Thorny Soil – The seed grows, but thorns (weeds) choke it, preventing it from bearing fruit. Jesus explains that the thorns represent the worries of life, the deceitfulness of wealth, and the desire for other things (Mark 4:19).

   • Application: This is the person who is constantly juggling work, money, responsibilities, and personal ambitions. Their heart is divided, making it hard to grow spiritually or find peace.

4. The Good Soil – The seed falls on good soil, grows deep roots, and produces a great harvest. These are the people who hear the Word, understand it, and apply it to their lives.

How It Relates to Juggling Responsibilities & Finding Peace

The thorny soil is especially relevant here because it represents people who feel overwhelmed by life’s pressures.  Work, finances, relationships, and personal ambitions all have a way of complicating our decision making and use of time. These things can "choke" spiritual growth, leaving us restless, anxious, and spiritually unfulfilled.

Jesus' message is clear: If we let worries and distractions dominate our hearts, they will rob us of the peace and purpose God intends for us.

The solution is to cultivate good soil—a heart that prioritizes God’s Word over the endless to-do lists, ambitions, and pressures of life. This doesn’t mean ignoring responsibilities but rather keeping God first and trusting Him with the rest.

If you feel like you’re being pulled in too many directions, you probably are. We want to be rooted in good soil, so if you find yourself among too many thorns, it may be time to re-evaluate. Your faith, your well-being, and even those around you may thank you for it!

-Mark

We Are What We Repeatedly Do

We Are What We Repeatedly Do

This quote, most often attributed to Aristotle, is one of the truest phrases I've ever heard. We are not what we think about. We are not what we say. We are certainly not what we desire, want, or complain about. But—we are also not what we do once in a while, from time to time. We are what we repeatedly do, consistently.

When you think about your reputation and how you would like to be perceived, you usually consider what you'd like others to be able to count on you for. When I think about those I trust most and can count on, I reflect on what their disciplines and dedications say about them. I almost never catch myself saying, "Let's contact John Doe for this or that—I saw him do it once." Instead, I ask, "Who is the trusted resource for what I'm looking for? Who has done this well for others in similar situations? Who has a track record of success in this area?"

When I think about those who inspire me, it's almost always due to a commitment they've made to a craft. We are what we repeatedly do. The person I most admire and try to emulate is Jesus. I fall massively short, but it is because of what He did over and over again that He is the ultimate inspiration for humanity. Repeatedly, He served. In Luke 22:24-27, Jesus tells us in His own words that He came not to be served, but to serve. He freely gave of Himself throughout His entire life, all the way until He gave His life up for the ransom of many.

Another thing that Jesus did repeatedly was to see and know those who were marginalized or overlooked. In Mark 2:17, Jesus tells us that it is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. He came for sinners so that we may know the love of God and turn to Him. Jesus also worked hard to fulfill His mission. He understood His purpose and tirelessly pursued it. Hard work is admirable when focused in the right direction.

Jesus consistently was present with those in front of Him. Whether at His table, at His feet, or in a crowd, those around Him likely felt like they were the most important person to Him at that moment. These things were repeated, important, and became the reputation now consistent with His name.

As I think about my reputation, I wonder what others would say about me. What is it that I am known for repeating? When others have a problem that I believe I can help solve, do they believe in my ability to do so? Am I the first name on their list, ready to be called? These are great thoughts to ponder.

Reader—today, take a look at your calendar. Reflect on what shows up most often. What is it that you are repeating? Rather than focusing on the perception you're trying to create, focus on the actions you consistently take. We all have the opportunity to do great work and influence those around us. We are what we repeatedly do! Let’s do something great!

-Mark

Keep Fighting Mighty Warrior

Keep Fighting: Overcoming Weakness with Faith

Lately it seems like every day leaders in business are fighting for every inch of ground they take. The current economic cycle is more challenging than in recent years, and many leaders feel the weight of uncertainty. Some even question whether they have what it takes to overcome the obstacles before them. If you’ve ever felt weaker than the work in front of you, you’re not alone. But take heart—this feeling is nothing new, and it is often in these moments of doubt that we are drawn closer to God’s power and provision.

Gideon’s story in Judges 6-7 is a perfect example of this. When God called him to lead Israel against the oppressive Midianites, Gideon did not feel capable or strong. In fact, when we first meet him, he is hiding in a winepress, threshing wheat in secret out of fear. Yet, the Angel of the Lord appeared to him and declared, “The Lord is with you, Mighty Warrior.” Imagine hearing that while you’re in hiding! Gideon, like many of us, responded with doubt, questioning why Israel was suffering and why God would choose someone as insignificant as him.

How often do we do the same? In seasons of challenge, we may look at our abilities, resources, and circumstances and feel completely inadequate. We might wonder if we misheard our original calling or if we even have what it takes to push forward. But just as God reassured Gideon, He reassures us: “Go in the strength you have… Am I not sending you?” (Judges 6:14). The strength we have may feel insufficient, but God’s presence is what makes the difference.

Even after hearing God’s promise, Gideon struggled with doubt and asked for signs. God, in His patience, provided them, showing that He understands our human uncertainty. Yet, when it came time for battle, God did something unexpected—He reduced Gideon’s army from 32,000 men to just 300. Why? So that Israel would know that victory came not by their might but by God’s hand.

This is where our weakness becomes a blessing. When we cannot see a way out based on current conditions, we are forced to rely on God rather than our own strategies. For those in leadership, real estate, finance, or any industry facing difficulties, this is a powerful reminder: Your current limitations do not determine the outcome—God does.

Just as Gideon and his small army defeated the Midianites, we can overcome the challenges before us, not because we are strong, but because we trust in the One who called us. Circumstances will change, or we will be given the ability to meet the challenge when the time is right. The key is to stay faithful to the mission we began, knowing that if God led us here, He will lead us through.

So today, if you feel overwhelmed, remember this: God is with you, Mighty Warrior. Keep going in faith, and trust that He will make a way where there seems to be none.

-Mark

What's in My Control? Staying Focused on Opportunities

Focusing on What You Can Control Today

There is no shortage of distractions in our world. Today, the number one way many of us get off track isn’t social media, entertainment, or busyness—it’s discouragement. Specifically, discouragement over circumstances or obstacles we cannot control.

Too often, we spend large portions of our time either in fear or frozen in a cycle of inaction due to the odds of failure. We have ideas, aspirations, and goals we’d like to achieve, yet we talk ourselves out of starting. We cite market conditions, tough competition, or the inability to see how a small start could lead to something bigger. Even when we do see a path forward, we fear the effort required to get there. Worse yet, we hesitate because we don’t want to risk our ego or reputation if things don’t work out.

Now that we’ve covered why we don’t start—let’s discuss why we should!

As Christians, we must learn to trust the outcomes to God and focus on the responsibilities that are ours. We are not held accountable for what others do or think, but we are stewards of our most limited resource: time. We must take stock of how we are called to use the gifts we have freely received.

I run a mortgage company—not the easiest industry to lead in right now. As a team, we meet weekly to focus on what is in our control and how we can take action to increase our influence in a positive way for customers and partners. It’s a powerful reminder that progress comes from focusing on what can be done, not worrying about what cannot.

Let’s take a look at a biblical example of this mindset in action.

Daniel’s Challenges and Perspective

Taken into Babylonian Captivity (Daniel 1)

Daniel was taken from his home as a young man and forced into the service of a foreign king.

• He couldn’t change his captivity, but he chose to remain faithful by refusing to eat the king’s food, negotiating a compromise that honored his faith.

• Key lesson: He controlled his personal integrity and faith, not his circumstances.

Interpreting the King’s Dream (Daniel 2)

King Nebuchadnezzar ordered all wise men to be executed if they couldn’t interpret his dream.

• Instead of panicking, Daniel prayed, sought wisdom, and took action, asking the king for time and trusting God for revelation.

• Key lesson: He couldn’t control the king’s decree, but he could trust God and use his wisdom.

Thrown into the Lion’s Den (Daniel 6)

When a law was passed forbidding prayer to anyone but the king, Daniel continued his routine of praying to God, knowing the consequences.

• He didn’t try to fight the law politically—he simply remained faithful and trusted God.

• Key lesson: He controlled his obedience and faith, not the government’s decisions.

Applying Daniel’s Example Today

Let’s take inventory of how we can follow Daniel’s example. If you catch yourself making excuses for inaction, ask yourself: what can you do today to take a step forward? If you fear failure due to larger circumstances, redefine success. Success is not about achieving a perfect outcome—it’s about making progress with what’s in your control, today.

Stay faithful, take action, and trust God with the results!

-Mark

Turning Off Autopilot: The Habit of Judging Others

Today at our Friday men’s Bible study, I sat among a group of men I’ve come to know and love over the past couple of years. We represent a diverse mix of business owners, market leaders, non-profit directors, and pastors. What binds us together is our love for Christ, but what makes us different is the unique way He uses each of us in our day-to-day lives. Today, we found ourselves unified by a struggle we all share: the tendency to judge others.

It’s ironic that one of the men in our group is a former federal judge. He spent years rendering judgments as part of his profession. Even he wrestles with the reality that judgment extends far beyond the courtroom. As we read from Matthew 7, Jesus’ words struck a deep chord within us:

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”
(Matthew 7:1-5, NIV)

This passage makes it clear: our judgments of others are often blind to our own faults. One powerful question came up in our discussion: What if we were the one on trial? Would we want to be judged fairly? No, we would plead for mercy, grace, and understanding. If that is what we desire for ourselves, shouldn’t we extend the same to others?

The Autopilot of Judgment

I’ve realized that judging others isn’t something I actively set out to do—it happens almost instinctively, like an autopilot function in my mind. I catch myself forming opinions about people’s actions, decisions, and even their associations. I judge those who don’t work the way I believe they should, who make choices that don’t make sense to me, or who surround themselves with people I wouldn’t choose. Rather than offering grace or the benefit of the doubt, my mind makes snap judgments.

In the fast-paced world of business, this habit is especially common. We make quick decisions, assess risks, and categorize people rapidly to keep things moving. But Jesus calls us to a different standard—one that demands self-reflection before we pass judgment on others.

Embracing Awareness

Jesus’ words challenge us to shift from autopilot to awareness. Instead of letting judgment be our default, we should pause, reflect, and evaluate our own shortcomings. When we remove the plank from our own eye, we begin to see clearly. And when we see clearly, our approach to others changes.

It’s time to surrender our habit to judge and ask God to help us see others through His eyes. Let’s turn off autopilot and embrace the awareness that leads to grace.

-Mark

Unexpected Detours: How To See the Next Step

Seeing Through a New Lens: The Power of Serving Others

Today, I had the privilege of serving some of the neediest in our city alongside two close friends I’ve known for nearly 15 years. Freely giving time to make others feel seen and known is one of the best feelings that money can't buy.

One of these friends has been going through a difficult season in life—something we all experience at times. In this case, it’s business-related. When our businesses struggle or our personal pursuits take unexpected detours, it can feel as if the entire world is crashing down. Our minds become wrapped up in our thoughts, fears, and broken plans, making it easy to lose sight of the bigger picture.

We tend to view our situation in a "subjective absolute"—meaning we assume that things will always be the way they are now, that they will never change. That circumstances will continue to unfold against us. This false perception can trap us in a cycle of worry and despair.

The best way I’ve seen this mindset shift is by rolling up our sleeves and serving someone else. There is nothing more powerful than helping someone solve a problem, and when we can’t immediately solve our own, the momentum we create by assisting others can be transformative.

This reminds me of Jesus and the moment before He sent out the Twelve disciples in pairs. In Mark 6:7-13, Jesus gathered His disciples and sent them out with nothing but the essentials—no money, no extra food or clothing—so they would rely on God and the kindness of others. Their mission was not about themselves; it was about healing, teaching, and bringing hope to others.

But what came just before this? Jesus had just faced rejection in His hometown. Mark 6:1-6 tells us that when He returned to Nazareth to teach, the people doubted Him because they had known Him as a carpenter, the son of Mary. Their lack of faith prevented Him from performing many miracles, and He marveled at their unbelief before moving on.

Think about that—Jesus was rejected by those who knew Him best. Instead of dwelling on the hurt, He immediately turned His focus outward, sending His disciples to serve others. He didn’t allow rejection to derail His mission; He responded with action and purpose.

This is our example. If you find yourself in a difficult place, uncertain of your next move, take a step to help someone else. Reach out a hand. Serve. Encourage. Give. Clarity often follows when we shift our perspective, and nothing shifts our perspective more powerfully than stepping outside of ourselves and into the lives of others.

Jesus didn’t dwell on rejection—He got to work. And so should we.

-Mark

Quit Your Race: Run His (A True Story)

Quit Your Race: Run His (A true Story)

Today, I had breakfast with an incredible leader and mentor. Every conversation with him is worth its weight in gold because of the overflow of love, encouragement, challenge, and conviction I receive. But today, I heard a story I had never known about his background—one that left a lasting impact on me.

In his younger days, he was a track star—one of the top three in the state in the 200 meters. He continued running in college and even had an opportunity to leave school to train for the Olympics. However, he grew up in a strict religious family that honored the Sabbath from sundown Friday to sundown Saturday. If a meet fell on those days, he didn’t run.

His senior year, the state qualifiers were set for a Friday, just minutes before sundown. No problem—he would finish with time to spare. But then, the starter ran out of blanks and had to retrieve more for the starting gun. The race was delayed, and suddenly, the starting gun was set to fire after sundown. In that moment, he made the decision to run anyway.

As he rounded the corner into the straightaway, he was facing west—looking straight into an already set sun. His legs seemed to move in slow motion as the weight of breaking his commitment to the Lord sank in. Though he had been in first place heading into his strongest stretch, he finished fifth. At that moment, he knew: his commitment to the Lord superseded all else. That experience solidified his decision to enter full-time ministry.

We see moments like this in an instant in the gospel as well—just look at the story of Matthew. Matthew was a tax collector, a profession that made him wealthy but also despised among his fellow Jews. Tax collectors worked for the Roman government and often overcharged people for personal gain. Yet in Matthew 9:9, Jesus saw him sitting at his tax booth and simply said, “Follow me.” Things changed for Matthew in that exact moment. 

Matthew’s story reminds us of the power of obedience to a call.  He was running his own race, but in a moment decided to join Jesus on a whole new track. Unlike fishermen like Peter and Andrew, who could return to their trade if things didn’t work out, tax collecting was a government-appointed job—once Matthew left, there was no going back. Yet, without hesitation, he got up, left everything behind, and followed. While our decisions don't always need to be as dramatic, the illustration here is powerful.

Take a few minutes today—on your drive home, or before you fall asleep—to reflect. Is there a moment in your life that changed the direction of your conviction? A time when you chose to run your own race rather than follow what your faith called you to? I can recall the moment when things changed for me personally — what a beautiful moment that was.

Evaluate the race you're running. Are you staring into an already set sun, realizing you’ve been running for yourself? Or do you have the green light to take off down the straightaway, running the race He has set before you?

-Mark

Don't Be a Jack of All Trades: What Networks Are For

"If you want to go fast, go alone.  If you want to go far, go together."

In our modern world of specialization, the importance of having a strong and diverse network cannot be overstated. The phrase "Jack of all Trades" is often followed by the phrase "Master of None," and mastery is the goal in most cases. We are most useful when we fully embrace and develop our strengths. However, our desire for specific mastery further highlights the necessity of a trusted network—one that fills the gaps where our mastery cannot.

This week alone, I have had two key conversations that resulted from trusted network introductions. Both individuals provided big insights that advanced my current missions. Without my network, I would have faced two major obstacles:

1. Time – The process of researching, vetting, scheduling, and determining the right person to talk to would have consumed a significant portion of my most valuable constraint: my hours.

2. Expertise – My network knew exactly what I needed and when I needed it. Without them, I would have bumbled through trial and error before ultimately recognizing the need to invest in specialized knowledge.

Knowledge, experience, resources, time, and the ability to vouch for others are invaluable assets. Let’s look at two biblical examples that illustrate how key connections can change lives:

1. Naaman and the Servant Girl (2 Kings 5)

Naaman, a powerful commander in the Aramean army, suffered from leprosy. A young Israelite servant girl introduced him to the prophet Elisha, leading to his healing after washing in the Jordan seven times. This small, seemingly insignificant connection had life-changing results.

2. Barnabas Introducing Paul (Acts 9:26-28)

After Paul’s dramatic conversion, his reputation as a former persecutor of Christians caused fear among the disciples. His past would have blocked him from joining the inner circle spreading the love of Jesus throughout the world. Barnabas took the risk of introducing Paul to the apostles, vouching for his transformation. This endorsement allowed Paul to step into his calling as a major leader in the early church.

If you already have a strong network, take this as a reminder to be a resource for others. Christ’s light can shine through you when you help illuminate a blind spot for a trusted friend. If you are not yet well-networked, take steps today to connect with groups and individuals who align with your mission and values. There are business, faith, and hobby groups in every city in our nation. Just get started and see who the Holy Spirit places in your path.

-Mark

Efficiency vs. Curiosity: The Power of Informal Conversations

The Power of Informal Conversations: Efficiency vs. Curiosity. 

As leaders and members of teams, we often find ourselves in formal structures. Before we talk about the power of informality, I want to recognize some benefits of why the formalities of business often exist. They are required for almost any org type for three important reasons:

1. Consistency & Accountability – Formal meetings provide a predictable schedule and ensure that necessary information is ready for review.

2. Prioritization – They allow leaders to focus on critical topics rather than being distracted by urgent but less important matters.

3. Operational Flow – Formality ensures smooth communication and execution, preventing inefficiencies and chaos.

So, now that we’ve cleared the air that this isn’t an anti-structure hit piece, let’s discuss why informal conversations are crucial for sharing truth, expressing real feelings, and building culture.

Whenever I get an employee, business partner, or friend in a one-on-one or small-group setting, the entire dynamic shifts. We ask each other how we’re really doing. We talk about our weekends, our kids, and sometimes our struggles. The goal of the meetup transitions from simply getting things done to being genuinely curious about how things are going. These two approaches—efficiency versus curiosity—are often worlds apart.

Being genuinely curious is not an efficient process, but it has the power to get to the root of issues in a way that formal structures cannot. Let’s look at two powerful examples from the Bible where Jesus, in informal settings, reached the heart of an issue and transformed lives.

Example #1: Jesus and Nicodemus (John 3:1-21)

Nicodemus, a religious leader, comes to Jesus at night—away from the public eye—because he likely wants an honest, unfiltered discussion without the pressure of a formal setting. It’s here that Jesus shares the famous words: "You must be born again." The depth of their conversation is so significant that after Jesus' death, Nicodemus takes the great risk of helping to secure His body for burial alongside Joseph of Arimathea. This informal, deep dialogue led to real transformation.

Example #2: Jesus and the Woman at the Well (John 4:1-26)

Jesus speaks with the Samaritan woman at a well, not in a synagogue or temple. Because they’re in a relaxed, one-on-one setting, she opens up about her life. Jesus asks great questions, and in this informal setting, she is disarmed. Their conversation leads to one of the most powerful personal revelations of Jesus as the Messiah, and she in turn spreads the news to her entire community.

Applying This to Leadership

As a leader, make sure to schedule some "informal" time on your calendar. This can be as simple as taking an employee to lunch or inviting a small group of leaders out for an activity. Talk to your people enough that these moments feel natural. These interactions go a long way in building trust, surfacing deeper issues, and fostering true connection.

Formal meetings drive efficiency, but informal conversations drive transformation. Jesus, the greatest leader of all time, modeled this perfectly. Let’s follow His example.

-Mark

The Sands Will Shift: Are You Built on the Rock?

The Moments That Test Us: Are You Built on the Rock?

Life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way. Recently, a dear friend of mine experienced this firsthand. Without warning, he received a call from his boss and was let go from a job he believed was secure. While the personal details of his situation remain private, this moment was a fast reminder of how quickly life can change.

These moments truly test us—whether we are believers in Christ or not. Unexpected difficulties have a way of exposing our weak spots unlike anything else. After the initial shock wears off, many of us find our greatest fear isn’t just the change itself, but what others will think of us because of it. Our reputations, our sense of identity, and our thoughts about the future are often based on false truths—things that can be stripped away in an instant.

This is why it is so crucial to build our identity on something firm, something that no person, scenario, market shift, or social structure can take away. Jesus speaks to this in Matthew 7:24-27:

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

The Wise Builder

This man builds his house on a solid rock foundation. When the rain falls, the floods rise, and the winds blow, the house stands firm because it is built on a strong, stable base.

The Foolish Builder

This man builds his house on sand. When the storms come, the house collapses because the foundation is weak and unstable.

The Lesson for Us

The rock represents those who hear Jesus’ words and put them into practice. Their faith is strong, allowing them to withstand life’s trials. The sand represents those who hear but do not obey. Their faith is weak, and when difficulties arise, they fall apart.

Jesus is teaching us that our lives must be built on Him—His words, His truth, and obedience to His teachings. When life’s storms hit—whether in the form of job loss, unexpected loss, or relational struggles—only those with a strong foundation in Christ will stand firm.  We must remember that who we are in Christ is bigger than what happens around us. This realization helps us navigate shifting circumstances because our rooted reality remains unchanged, no matter what we cannot control.

This weekend, take some time to reflect. If an unexpected hardship were to strike—whether a job loss, the loss of a loved one, or a broken relationship—would your house be built on the rock, or would the shifting sand cause you to crumble?

It’s not an easy question to answer, but preparation starts now. Build your identity on Christ today, so when the world shakes beneath you, your foundation remains unshaken.

-Mark

Spiritual Entrepreneurship: Moving Beyond the "Silent Saved"

Today, I had coffee with another Christian business owner. We had a fantastic conversation that spanned business life, our backgrounds, our love of cabins in the Hocking Hills area, and, of course, our faith. One of the commonalities we shared was our desire to use our work and the proceeds of our businesses to influence more than just earthly accumulation. We both understand that not all jobs will have a direct line drawn to something eternal, but the motives behind how we use our influence and revenues certainly can.

Business and work are vitally important in this world. God understands that more than anyone, because work was His invention. In fact, the act of creation itself was work, which is why He rested on the seventh day. But our work can have much more meaning. Any of us, whether we own businesses or not, can be spiritual entrepreneurs—striving each day to be a startup for Jesus in the lives of those we encounter.

A great biblical example of a spiritual entrepreneur is Lydia, a businesswoman whose story in the New Testament offers key lessons for us today. Her story, found in Acts 16:14-15, provides a powerful example of how business success can be used to further God’s kingdom.

1. Lydia’s Business and Wealth

• The Bible describes Lydia as a merchant of purple cloth, which was a highly valuable and luxurious fabric in the ancient world.

• Purple dye was rare and expensive, often associated with royalty and the wealthy, meaning Lydia likely catered to an elite clientele.

• Her ability to operate in this industry suggests she was a savvy entrepreneur, well-connected, and financially successful.

• She was also the head of her household, implying she was either unmarried, widowed, or independently wealthy.

2. Lydia’s Spiritual Life

• The Bible notes that Lydia was a “worshiper of God” (Acts 16:14), meaning she was a Gentile who revered the God of Israel, similar to a proselyte.

• When Paul and his companions arrived in Philippi and spoke to a group of women by the river, Lydia was among them.

• The Lord opened her heart to receive Paul’s message, and she immediately responded in faith by being baptized along with her household.

3. Lydia’s Generosity and Kingdom Impact

• One of Lydia’s first acts after her conversion was to open her home to Paul and his companions, inviting them to stay.

• Her home became a key gathering place for the early church in Philippi, making her one of the first Christian hosts of a house church.

• She used her resources, influence, and hospitality to support the growth of the early Christian movement.

4. What We Learn from Lydia

• Business and faith can work together – Lydia’s success in business did not hinder her spiritual life; instead, she used it to serve God and others.

• Generosity and hospitality matter – She willingly gave what she had for the sake of the gospel.

• God calls entrepreneurs – Lydia wasn’t a preacher or missionary, but her business gave her the means to fund, support, and advance the early church.

Lydia stands as a model for Christian entrepreneurs today—someone who combined faith, business, and generosity to make a lasting impact.

Reflect on your daily calendar and duties. Where can you use your influence to introduce someone near you to the love that God has for them? How can you use some of the proceeds of your labor to advance causes that impact the lives of others for Christ? We have limited time on earth, and much of it is spent at work. Let’s incorporate more spiritual entrepreneurship where we can!

-Mark

Step By Step: There Is No A to Z

We live in a world that craves immediate gratification. When we set a goal, we want to achieve it now. When we see our flaws, we want to overcome them instantly. Yet, God’s process of transformation rarely happens all at once. More often, He leads us step by step, using struggles, confusion, and even rebellion to shape us into men and women of real purpose.

Many times in my life, I have wanted to jump from step A to step Z. But God is more often on the A-to-B-to-C plan. Through this journey, we not only learn more about ourselves, but more about who we are in Him. A perfect example of this is the life of Moses.

Moses: A Step-by-Step Transformation

Moses' journey illustrates how God develops people gradually, preparing them for their purpose.

Step 1: Early Potential (Exodus 2:1-10)
Born a Hebrew but raised as an Egyptian prince, Moses had leadership skills and privilege. Yet, he was torn between two identities, foreshadowing the inner struggles that would define his journey.

Step 2: Wilderness & Humility (Exodus 2:11-25)
After killing an Egyptian in anger, Moses fled to Midian, spending 40 years as a shepherd. This season of isolation humbled him and prepared him for future leadership.

Step 3: God’s Call & Resistance (Exodus 3-4)
God appeared in the burning bush, calling Moses to free Israel. Moses hesitated, offering excuses (“I am not eloquent”), but God reassured him with signs and provided Aaron as support. Moses we reluctant to answer God's call. 

Step 4: Confronting Pharaoh (Exodus 5-11)
Moses faced Pharaoh and witnessed ten plagues, growing in boldness and trust as he saw God work powerfully through him.

Step 5: Red Sea & Leadership (Exodus 12-15)
With Pharaoh’s army in pursuit, Moses trusted God to part the Red Sea, leading Israel to freedom and solidifying his leadership.

Step 6: Guiding Israel (Exodus 16–40, Numbers, Deuteronomy)

• Challenges: Complaints from the people, receiving the Ten Commandments, and interceding for Israel after the golden calf incident. The Israelites were a hard group to lead.

• Struggles: Moments of frustration, including striking the rock instead of speaking to it, seeing his people question and want to return to Egypt, and finding others who could share the burden of leading were always present. (Numbers 20:10-12).

Moses became a great leader, but his journey was filled with confusion, doubt, frustration, and repetition. His greatness was ultimately fulfilled when he put his full faith and trust in God's plan.

Embracing the Process

So, leader, as you venture on your journey to find true purpose, understand that each step is shaping you. Some steps feel like setbacks. Others are steep climbs. Sometimes, we cruise along smoothly. But in all of it, God is revealing more and preparing us for what’s next. Trust the process, embrace the journey, and be ready for each step as it unfolds.

-Mark

Identity Crisis: Who am I?

The Foundation of Everything: Understanding Identity

Identity is the foundation of everything we do in this life. Knowing who we truly are is a pursuit that seems simple on the surface but is difficult to tackle in reality. When someone asks, "Tell me a little about yourself," the most common answers revolve around what we do for a living, where we grew up, what school we attended, and maybe a few hobbies. While these responses work in social settings, they often feel inadequate when we reflect deeply on our identity during quiet moments alone.

Am I just a sum of my Ohio State diploma, a mortgage industry career, and an after-hours gym routine following my kids' activities? I don’t think so. Through my involvement in various leadership groups, I’ve been challenged to look beyond surface-level identifiers and ask deeper questions about my true identity. One unique exercise has been crafting seven "I am" statements—writing out words or phrases that genuinely define who I am at my core.

For those struggling to identify their "I am" statements, practical tools like strengths finder assessments or spiritual gifts tests (links below article) can help. However, for the most profound insight, I have found it helpful to reflect on the seven "I am" statements Jesus made about Himself in the Gospel of John:

• I am the bread of life (John 6:35)

• I am the light of the world (John 8:12)

• I am the gate (John 10:7)

• I am the good shepherd (John 10:11, 14)

• I am the resurrection and the life (John 11:25)

• I am the way and the truth and the life (John 14:6)

• I am the true vine (John 15:1)

What stands out in these statements is that Jesus never defined Himself by His profession, hometown, or personal interests. He didn’t say, "I am a carpenter," "I am from Nazareth," or "I am friendly." His identity was rooted in something much greater.

Similarly, what we do, where we come from, and our affiliations are not the essence of who we are. We were made on purpose—unique, valuable, and equipped with strengths meant to serve others and glorify God. It’s important to take a moment, breathe, and contemplate the deeper question: Who am I?

-Mark

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