But First… Thanksgiving!

It’s Thanksgiving week, and the outpouring of gratitude online, at work, and around our dinner tables is at its annual peak. This time of year is always a joy. Our feeds fill with reflections on blessings, answered prayers, restored relationships, new opportunities, and unexpected moments of grace. What I love most is how genuine these Thanksgiving messages tend to be.

We see family mentioned more than anything else.
We see gratitude for valleys God has carried us through.
We see praise for mountaintop moments we worked hard for, or never saw coming.

As I’m writing this, I’m in the car on Highway 70 heading west to St. Louis with my family. Kids asleep in the back seat. My wife graciously driving so I can type and feel somewhat productive. And somewhere between exits, a thought hit me:

What would we look like as Christians if we were consistently—and publicly—grateful for the opportunities each new day brings?

Staring out the window, I thought about the letters of Paul. He actually did this. It’s remarkable how often he begins his letters not with instruction, correction, or encouragement—but with thanksgiving. Nearly every letter opens with gratitude before anything else.

Check this out:

• Romans 1:8 – “I thank my God…”

• 1 Corinthians 1:4 – “I thank my God…”

• Ephesians 1:16 – “…do not cease giving thanks…”

• Philippians 1:3 – “I thank my God…”

• Colossians 1:3 – “We always thank God…”

• 1 Thessalonians 1:2 – “We give thanks to God always…”

• 2 Thessalonians 1:3 – “We ought always to give thanks…”

• 2 Timothy 1:3 – “I thank God…”

• Philemon 4 – “I thank my God…”

This man was thankful. Not occasionally. Not when things went well. Not once a year in November. He began with thanks. Before teaching. Before correcting. Before encouraging. Before anything else.

Nearly all of these thanksgiving statements appear right in chapter one of the letters we now read in the New Testament.

When I think about my own posture of thanksgiving, I have to be honest… it doesn’t usually come first.
I tend to lean on obedience, sacrifice, or my feeble attempts at humility long before I arrive at gratitude.

But I’m realizing something:
I need to start living from a place of thanksgiving.

A deep gratitude for the day ahead.
A real appreciation for whatever the Holy Spirit places in my path.
A genuine smile for the air I breathe.
A desire to shine the light of Christ wherever I go.
A walk inspired by the reality that my days are numbered—and each one produces eternal value.

This Thanksgiving season, let’s pay attention.
Why are we thankful?
To whom are we thankful?
And do we really need a holiday to remind us?

What would it look like to begin each day the way Paul began his letters,
with gratitude first.

As our cups overflow with joy and thanksgiving, may we pour into others the living water and spiritual nourishment that only Jesus provides.

I hope you all enjoy these moments with family and friends this week.
Grateful.

-Mark

Going Viral Galilee Style

The other day I was reading through the Gospel of Matthew, and something kept jumping off the page at me—the word all. Not some, not many, not a handful. Over and over Matthew says Jesus healed “all” who were sick.

And if you pause long enough to picture the scenes Matthew is describing, you realize these weren’t tiny groups. They were massive crowds… entire towns… sometimes small cities. Which led me to a question:

How many people was Jesus actually healing?

And then the bigger question:

How did Jesus grow His ministry so quickly without the internet, social media, email lists, marketing funnels, or TV broadcasts?

How did tens of thousands of people come to hear about Him when it took days—sometimes weeks—to travel across the region?

Well… when you begin to look at the numbers, it suddenly makes sense.
Below are some staggering estimates that help reveal just how “viral” Jesus’ ministry truly was—Galilee style.

Occurrences in Matthew Where Jesus Heals “All”

Matthew repeatedly emphasizes crowds, villages, towns, and whole regions being healed. Here are the references:

• 4:23 — Healed every disease and sickness among the people

• 4:24 — They brought the sick, and He healed them all

• 8:16 — He healed all who were sick

• 8:17 — Summary of His healing ministry

• 9:6 — Heals the paralytic

• 9:12 — “The sick need a physician”

• 9:21–22 — Woman with the issue of blood

• 9:25 — Raises a dead girl

• 9:35 — Healed every disease and sickness

• 10:1 — Disciples given authority to heal

• 12:13 — Man with withered hand

• 12:15 — Large crowds; He healed all

• 12:22 — Blind, mute, demon-possessed man

• 14:14 — He healed their sick

• 14:35–36 — All who touched Him were healed

• 15:28 — Canaanite woman’s daughter

• 15:30–31 — Great crowds; He healed the lame, blind, crippled, mute

• 17:18 — Demon-possessed boy

• 19:2 — He healed them there

• 20:34 — Two blind men healed

Matthew doesn’t just record miracles—he records repeated waves of them.

Historical Estimates: Crowds, Populations & Numbers Healed

These are reasonable historical approximations based on:

• Typical population sizes in 1st-century Galilee

• Sickness rates (8–12%)

• Likely crowds and travel patterns

• Matthew’s language of “all,” “every,” “great multitudes,” etc.

Estimated Total Healed in the Book of Matthew

≈ 11,000 – 29,000 people

And that’s just one Gospel writer, and only the events he chose to record.

Think about that.

Thousands—possibly tens of thousands—of people healed.
In a world with:

• no phones

• no cars

• no news outlets

• no viral videos
   

Yet somehow, the entire region exploded with the news of Jesus.

This is what “going viral” looked like before the internet.

Eyes suddenly seeing.
Legs suddenly walking.
Mute voices suddenly shouting.
Demonic oppression suddenly broken.
Dead children suddenly alive again.

You don’t need Wi-Fi when the miracles walk home and knock on doors.

When Jesus heals a whole village, news doesn’t spread—it erupts.

Why This Matters Today

After looking at the numbers, it’s easy to understand how Jesus’ ministry spread with such unstoppable force.

But here’s the part we can’t miss:

Jesus is still healing today.

Miracle after miracle is happening around the world.
God’s hand is moving in ways that should leave us in awe—yet if we’re not careful, the miraculous becomes “normal.” We scroll past it. We shrug at it. We forget that God is still showing His love in ways that defy explanation.

Tonight, pause long enough to notice.
Let the wonder return.
Let gratitude rise.

Let Jesus take up residence in your heart again.

Be amazed at what He’s done…
Be amazed at what He’s doing…
And don’t keep it to yourself.

Just like the travelers who spread the news all across Galilee, someone around you needs to hear what God has done.

He’s still healing.
He’s still working.
And He’s still going viral—one life, one testimony at a time.

They’re Waiting for an Invite

I’m finding more and more as I age that the façade of being cool, having it all together, and knowing the next steps is just that…a façade.

When I was younger, admitting that I needed help was hard. Admitting that I was looking for answers felt like weakness, and because of that, I hid in a world full of others likely feeling the same way.

Now, with a few more notches of experience on my belt, I’m realizing something: the older versions of “us” still don’t have it all figured out. We’re still searching for purpose. We’re still wondering what’s next.

The difference is this — most of us now know we’re not all that cool. We understand that we’ll never fully have it all together, and we’re finally ready to admit that and move toward things that truly matter.

So, what’s stopping us?

In my personal experience — it’s an invitation.

I’m no longer surprised to see the joy in someone’s eyes when they’re invited to give, to serve, or to use something they’ve been blessed with to impact another life. It’s not a burden; it’s a gift. Connecting the dots to real purpose in the middle of ordinary life is one of the most freeing things I’ve ever seen.

I’ve watched tears form in grown men’s eyes as they were invited into community.
I’ve seen business leaders transform through generosity.
I’ve watched hardened men soften while serving on the front lines of local nonprofits.

All because they were invited.

A Biblical Precedent

If we want to learn from the best, there’s clear precedent.
Jesus used the simple invitation “Follow Me” more than a dozen times in the Gospels.

Here are just a few:

1. Simon Peter and Andrew – Fishermen
   “Come, follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
   — Matthew 4:19; Mark 1:17
   They immediately leave their nets — giving up their livelihood.

2. James and John – Sons of Zebedee
   Jesus calls them, and “immediately they left the boat and their father and followed Him.”
   — Matthew 4:21–22; Mark 1:19–20
   They give up family and business to follow. 

3. Matthew (Levi) – Tax Collector
   “Follow Me.”
   — Matthew 9:9; Mark 2:14; Luke 5:27–28
   He leaves a lucrative, corrupt profession — giving up wealth and status. 

4. The Rich Young Ruler
   “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor… then come, follow Me.”
   — Matthew 19:21; Mark 10:21; Luke 18:22
   Invitation rejected — he couldn’t give up his wealth.

5. Philip
   “Follow Me.”
   — John 1:43
   A simple but life-changing call — he leaves to bring others (Nathaniel).

It’s interesting, isn’t it? These were all grown men.
We don’t know if they were actively searching for meaning or contemplating a change.
Some had money. Some didn’t. Some had skills and influence; others didn’t.

But all of them had one thing in common — they were invited into something powerful and pure.
They were asked to give up something in order to gain everything.
They were invited into a life that transformed them from the inside out.

So, Two Things for You Today

#1 — An Invitation.
If you’re looking to connect your work to eternal Kingdom impact — shoot me a message. We’re doing that at Tithe Foundation, and I’m inviting you into the next step. We’ve made it incredibly simple. Invitation extended.

#2 — A Challenge.
Who in your life is ready to put down the façade?
Who’s quietly waiting for an invitation into something more?

It could be as simple as an invite to church on Sunday.
An invite to your small group this week.
An invite to coffee and a real question — “How are you, really?”

Start small. See where a simple invite might lead.

For the disciples, “Follow Me” changed everything.
Maybe for someone you know, your invitation could too.

-Mark

Activate Your Work | 3 Stories

Connecting Our Hearts and Hands

There’s momentum forming in the hearts of men and women in a way I haven’t seen before. That’s not to say it’s never happened—it just hasn’t been this obvious to me until now.

There’s a genuine struggle for purpose rising up in believers today. For those who call Jesus their Lord and Savior, a real sense of urgency is building—one that’s stirring a specific kind of desire. I’ve watched leaders of companies and owners of small businesses begin asking questions about service, obedience, and sacrifice.

And it’s not a passive curiosity. They want to activate their work. They’re looking for ways to make a real difference—not for their bottom line, but for people. For their communities. For those in need. For their employees.

They want to connect the desire of their heart to the work of their hands.
And that’s a beautiful thing.

Example #1: Healing Through the Hands of Caregivers

This week I spoke with the founder of a physical therapy and fitness company. They’re already going against the grain of traditional healthcare by going deeper with each patient—treating people, not just problems.

But they understand there’s more to each story than what’s happening in the body. They’ve started offering prayer with clients, finding new ways to serve in their community, and are now preparing to put their finances to work for the Lord—helping people beyond their own walls.

It’s incredible to watch a team “working on the body” in a way that is holy and pleasing to God.

Romans 12:1
“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy,
to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.”
 

Example #2: Building for the Glory of God

Another conversation was with the owner of a local construction company—a man who loves Jesus, loves his people, and wants his employees to understand how their work matters to God.

He asked me a question that made me think:

“Can digging a hole honor God or have an impact on heaven?”

My answer was simple: Yes, it can.

Colossians 3:23–24
“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”

Ecclesiastes 3:13
“That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.”

God sees our work—no matter what it is—and knows our hearts. Finding satisfaction in our service goes beyond the task itself. Holes need to be dug. Foundations need to be poured. Work was created for us to do.

But what transforms that work is who we do it for.

This business owner’s desire to align his company’s goals with giving is deeply inspiring. Committing his finances to the Lord through the tithe might just transform more than his business—it could transform lives.

That hole being dug serves its purpose. But the dollars earned from that hole?
Those could become a donation that changes someone’s eternity—a meal for a hungry child, counseling for a trafficked teen, or a warm bed for a single mother.

Those are impacts worth digging for.

Example #3: Sweetness with a Purpose

Lastly, I met the owner of a chocolate and sweets company. His entrepreneurial journey has taken many forms, but one constant has been his desire to serve the Lord through his work.

His current venture—crafting fine chocolate—might seem like an ordinary business. But his mission is extraordinary: to share God’s love with every box and every piece of candy. Each one includes inspiring verses and messages of hope. Now, they’re even creating a family space where the joy of chocolate meets the goodness of God.

A normal treat transformed into a tool for testimony.

1 Corinthians 10:31
“So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”

James 1:17
“Every good and perfect gift is from above…”
(Even chocolate!)

God Is Moving

These stories didn’t unfold over months or years—they all happened within the last 48 hours.

God is moving in the hearts of business owners across every field—physical therapy, construction, and even chocolate making. Different industries. Same Spirit. Each one capable of being used for eternal impact and God’s glory.

If you’re reading this and wondering how your work might make a difference for Christ, reach out. We’d love to connect, pray with you, and help you discover the ways your work can become worship.

A community is forming at Tithe Foundation. Momentum is growing. The Holy Spirit is stirring hearts and hands into motion.

Search your heart. Ask God to show you His path forward.
And then — get in the game.

-Mark

Kinsmen Debrief #3 - Learning from Dr. Steve Graves on Risk

Re-Defining Risk

It’s been almost 30 days since the Kinsmen Summit ended, and I’m still unpacking the lessons that came out of that weekend. Today, I want to share one of the biggest takeaways that has continued to challenge and shape me — a powerful reframing of ownership and risk.

The Lesson

Steve Graves — strategist, CEO advisor, and author — was one of our speakers at the Summit. Steve works with a wide range of leaders: from executives running global organizations to young entrepreneurs just getting started. He’s authored more than twenty books and helped thousands of leaders weave together themes of strategy, leadership, and faith, all with one goal — to help people flourish in both life and work.

Beyond consulting, he also owns or co-owns several businesses, spanning industries like grocery delivery, sports media, and outdoor adventure. I’ve read a couple of his books (and may write about one soon), but what Steve shared at Summit left a lasting mark.

His insight? It centered around ownership and risk, and how we often misunderstand who those truly belong to.

The Parable of the Talents

Steve walked us through the Parable of the Talents in Matthew 25 — a story I’ve always loved. It’s one of the biblical foundations for why I believe in working hard on behalf of the Lord: to produce a return with what I’ve been given.

But this time, something new hit me. I realized I’d been missing key truths about ownership and risk. Before we unpack those, let’s recall what Jesus said:

“For it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted to them his property…” (Matthew 25:14–30)
 

You've likely heard this well-known story from Jesus: the master gives one servant five talents, another two, and another one. The first two invest what they’re given and double it. The third hides his talent in the ground, afraid to lose it — and is rebuked as wicked and lazy.

Recognizing What We’ve Been Given

Before anything else, we must recognize what we’ve been given. We can’t steward well what we don’t first acknowledge. For many of us, God has entrusted a lot — specific gifts, resources, relationships, opportunities. They’re not random; they’re intentional.

But our goal is not simply to use them — it’s to produce a return for the Master.

Two Critical Misunderstandings

Steve pointed out two key misunderstandings in this passage that hit me deeply:

1. Ownership

When the master entrusts us with something, it does not become ours.
Ownership stays with the Master.

But responsibility transfers to us. It’s ours to steward, to multiply, or to waste. And one day, the true Owner will ask, “What did you do with what I gave you?”

2. Risk

The third servant misunderstood risk. He thought that by hiding his talent, he was avoiding loss. In reality, he was misunderstanding who carried the risk.

When the master handed over the talents, the risk remained his.
The servant’s role was not to protect — it was to produce.

That changes everything.
We often structure our lives to avoid failure — to stay safe, to protect what we have. But faith calls us to trust that the Master knows what He’s giving, and that He bears the risk of His own investment. Our responsibility is obedience and faithfulness, not fear.

A New Way to See It

These truths now seem obvious — but they weren’t to me before. I had made false assumptions about what was “mine,” and it created both false security and unnecessary insecurity.

We have a good and loving Master. He has endless resources and will allocate them where they produce a return. His heart is that all would come to know His love and turn to Him while there’s still time.

When we place our faith in Him — and faithfully put our time, talents, and treasure to work for His glory — He entrusts us with even more.

Thank you, Dr. Graves, for helping me connect these dots.
Ownership and risk belong to the Father.
Responsibility belongs to me.

Let’s shift our mindset in that direction the next time the Holy Spirit tugs at us — and we’re faced with a decision about what’s truly ours.

-Mark

Assume Nothing

Too many times we see things from the outside and immediately make assumptions. We do this most often with people.

Everyone has heard the phrase “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” But we do.

I just released a book, and my publisher spent time thinking through what he believed would make a great cover. Why? Because people pay attention to covers. We buy bottles of wine based on logos and bottle shapes. Some of us purchase cars we know are prone to breakdowns simply because they look cool. The makeup industry exists to enhance appearance.

We make a lot of assumptions based on first impressions—on what we see on the outside.

But lately I’ve been reminded that things are not always what they seem. We’re all very good at hiding what’s insecure. We’re great at faking what doesn’t come naturally. Sometimes we feel that needing others for their strengths only highlights our weaknesses.

These aren’t assumptions I’m making—they come from real conversations with real people.

The truth? We’re all weak. Strong in certain areas of life, sure, but weak overall. Fragile. Mortal. In constant need of strength—and ultimately, in need of a Savior before our time is up. That’s a fact.

As Christians, we don’t have to put on false covers for one another. Our weaknesses are okay. In fact, they’re how we truly learn to rely on Jesus. Check this out:

“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”
— 2 Corinthians 12:9–10

Here Paul reminds us that true strength doesn’t come from presenting ourselves as something we’re not, but from relying on the One who supplies it—the One who has conquered death and overcome what overtakes so many of us in this life.

We see this again in Philippians 4:11–13:

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

What can Paul do through Christ who gives him strength? He can be content.

His outer circumstances don’t sway him one way or the other. When in need—God is his aim and his strength. In times of plenty—he gives thanks to God. There’s no false sense of self and no need to mask what’s true. His contentment lies entirely in the free gift of grace.

So this message is to my fellow believers:

We don’t want to become walking puddles of weakness—that’s not what living a full life for Christ looks like. But we must guard ourselves from living as the world does: drawing from our own strength, only to mask what’s really there. Making an impression with our cover, while quietly knowing what lies beneath.

Find a peer, a mentor, a spiritual brother or sister who can see behind the cover—someone who doesn’t have to assume. Strengthen each other by turning to the Lord with your troubles, your questions, and your praises.

Let’s be great examples of true strength—not by what we present, but by Who we draw from. Let’s drink deeply from the well of living water, and eat from the bread of life.

Be a beacon of strength today—by embracing who you are, and who He is.

-Mark

Dang, James!

Last night I wrapped up a beautiful weekend—perfect weather, time with family and friends, and finally, some quiet moments in God’s Word. Specifically, I re-read the book of James.

A mentor once told me, “There is no good reading, only good re-reading.” I’ve found that James fits perfectly into that category. It’s a short book—just five chapters—but every line packs a serious punch. By the time I finished, I felt like I’d just gone twelve rounds. Every verse seemed to hit me right where I needed it.

I want to share a few of those hits—and hopefully encourage you to read this short book again for yourself this week.

Chapter 1’s Jab

James starts with a call for wisdom.

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault…” (James 1:5)

That verse feels like a warm invitation. But then, in verse 6, comes the challenge:

“…when you ask, you must believe and not doubt…”

Ouch. James reminds us that our faith wavers easily. He later adds in verse 22:

“Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.”

There it is. Read the truth. Know the truth. Do what it says.

For much of my life, I missed one or more of those steps. These days, my struggle is step three—application. Reading and agreeing with God’s Word is easy. Living it daily is not. My doubts and fears often cloud my prayers. That’s why when I ask God for wisdom, I also need to be ready to walk in it.

God is faithful. He gives truth and direction. When He does, our part is simple—but not easy: listen and do what He says.

Chapter 3’s Jab

Not skipping Chapter 2 out of disrespect (there’s plenty there), but for today, I want to jump to Chapter 3: Taming the Tongue.

“The tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark.” (James 3:5–6)

Dang, James. You nailed it.

When I look back on where I’ve gone wrong in life, most of it traces back to my words, not my actions. Younger people often make physical mistakes. Adults? It’s usually our mouths that get us in trouble far before anything we do with our bodies.

This hit me hard. What comes out of my mouth needs to honor God and spread the love of Jesus. That means listening more, talking less—something I’m still working on.

God, thank You for the reminder.

Chapter 4’s Left Hook

James doesn’t just stop at wisdom and speech. He follows up with a strong word on submission and motive.

“When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.” (James 4:3)

Convicting, right? How often are our prayers centered around our own comfort—security, success, safety, stability? We want to set up earthly protection, but that’s not the life Christ calls us to.

We’re called to boldness, not comfort. To live with urgency, knowing our time here is short. To seek Him, love Him, and make His love known to those who don’t yet know it.

That’s the treasure that matters. And in Chapter 5, James finishes the fight.

Chapter 5’s Knockout

“Your gold and silver are corroded. Their corrosion will testify against you… You have hoarded wealth in the last days.” (James 5:3)

That’s a gut punch. James warns against hoarding wealth and chasing luxury. How often do our prayers revolve around protecting our lifestyle, preserving our savings, or maintaining our comfort?

We pray about our businesses, our financial worries, our “nest eggs”—but how often do we pray for boldness, generosity, and faith?

James closes his book beautifully—with prayer.

“You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near.” (James 5:8)
“Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray.” (James 5:13)
“The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” (James 5:16)

Prayer connects us directly to God. It’s our lifeline. When we’re in trouble, when we’re sick, when we sin, when we celebrate—pray.

On my own, I’m not powerful or very effective. But Jesus is. It’s far better to walk into every situation with Him than to rely on my own strength.

So this week, I encourage you—read James. Slowly. Then read it again. Let it hit you. Let it shape you.

Read God’s Word. Seek its wisdom. And do what it says.

-Mark

A Need for Community

This concept has come up several times over the last few weeks: we need community. And more and more — we need it to be real.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a leader at the top of a large org chart, an employee who feels lost in the system, or a solopreneur working from home — we all need others we can lean on and who can lean on us. It’s part of how we’re made.

Here’s what I’ve heard that’s been missing:

1. People want to connect beyond their daily roles. It’s not enough to just get a job done together. We long for connection that’s deeper than shared tasks or outcomes.

2. Leaders feel isolated. Many can’t be fully themselves with their peers or their staff. They don’t have it all together, and they don’t know all the answers — but they fake it, a lot. Some even feel like imposters inside their own organizations.

3. Solopreneurs crave authenticity. They love their work and their freedom, but often feel like they spend most of their time selling themselves. They want to be seen for who they truly are, not just as someone promoting their services. It’s hard to peel off the “business owner” layer and let people see what’s underneath.

That’s the short list — but it could easily go on. People feel disconnected today for a hundred reasons. I won’t bore you with another take on social media, AI, or why surface-level tech interactions don’t cut it.

So — let’s talk about why this really matters.

First… It’s How We Were Made.

Genesis 2:18 

The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
Even before sin entered the world, God declared that isolation was “not good.” Humanity was designed for connection — both with God and with one another.

Genesis 1:26 

Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness…”
God Himself exists in eternal community — Father, Son, and Holy Spirit — and He created us in that same relational image.
 

Why We Need One Another

Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
...A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
Genuine strength, encouragement, and resilience come from shared life — not just shared tasks.

Proverbs 27:17 

As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
Growth happens through the friction and refinement of real relationships. We cannot grow through surface-level connection. There’s no sharpening there — only shallow validation. We need others who will tell us the truth in love.

Mutual Encouragement

Hebrews 10:24–25 

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds,
not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing,
but encouraging one another — and all the more as you see the Day approaching.
Gathering together isn’t optional; it’s vital for perseverance.
 

Galatians 6:2 (NIV)

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
True community means sharing both the weight and the work of life.

So What Do We Do About It?

We’re not going to escape our need for community — and we can’t fake it when it isn’t real. So, what can we actually do?

#1 – Find your local church and get involved.
If you’re a believer in Jesus, you already have common ground with His body. Join a volunteer team and get to know people who also care about serving. Find a Bible study or small group that fits your season of life. Don’t know where to start? Try Church Finder.

#2 – If you’re a leader, hire a coach.
A coach can help you process challenges, navigate strategy, and talk through the personal issues that often impact leadership. If you can’t fully open up to your team, a coach can be the perfect outlet for honest conversation and tough truth.

#3 – Lean into your primary relationships.
First — call on God. Pray more often. Read His Word. Let Him speak to you.
Next — if you’re married, lean into your spouse and deepen your bond.
Then — invest in your children or close family. Community doesn’t have to be big or complicated. It can begin with the people right in front of you.

Don’t let your current proximity or work environment keep you from close, personal relationships that make you stronger, more confident, and more loving.
You’ll be better all the way around — spiritually, emotionally, and relationally — when you take this need for community seriously.

-Mark

A Time to Return – Why I Wrote It

A Time to Return was released this week! While I’m thrilled that the book is finally out, my true hope and prayer is that its message will be used by God to help others more fully follow Him through a deeper understanding of the tithe.

For me, since learning about the word tithe, it has never been limited to 10% of my income flowing to the local church. It represents far more than that. It’s the word I wear on my jersey day in and day out—whether I’m representing Tithe Lending or Tithe Foundation. It’s something that has completely captured my heart. It has given my work true purpose and meaning, becoming a lifeline that has led me into blessings I never could have manufactured on my own:

• The peace that comes with trusting the Lord.

• The comfort of knowing He is my provider.

• The assurance of things unseen, rooted in faith.

• The groundedness of obedience.

• The joy that flows from gratitude.

Returning to the Lord through the tithe opens our eyes to His presence in every part of life. For those who practice faithful tithing, it becomes obvious that this is not really about money. From the outside, it looks like it’s about money—but if we listen to the words of Jesus, and we learn from the tests that are ever-present in this world, we begin to see why this simple and often misunderstood principle helps us live fully devoted lives to Christ.

In the book, I walk through several of the Biblical tests that tithing helps us pass. Let me share one entire chapter here as a teaser for what’s inside:

CHAPTER 3 | The Ten Plagues—A Test of Pride

In the book of Exodus, God sends ten devastating plagues upon Egypt—not because He needed ten tries to free the Israelites, but because He was testing Pharaoh’s heart. Each plague directly challenged the authority of Egypt’s false gods, exposing them as powerless in the face of the one true God. This wasn’t just about freeing slaves—it was about confronting pride, rebellion, and misplaced worship. And each time Pharaoh was given a chance to humble himself, he refused. He clung to control, hardened his heart, and ultimately paid the price.

The progression of the plagues tells a story of escalating confrontation between divine authority and human pride. The first plague turned the Nile—Egypt’s lifeline and a symbol of their god Hapi—into blood. The second brought frogs, mocking the goddess Heqet. The third brought gnats, challenging the priests’ ability to perform their rituals in a state of ceremonial cleanliness. With each plague, God was systematically dismantling the Egyptian pantheon, proving that their gods were nothing more than carved stone and human imagination.

But here’s what strikes me most about this account: after each plague, Pharaoh had moments of apparent repentance. He would call for Moses and Aaron, promise to let the people go, and even ask them to pray for him. But as soon as the pressure lifted, he would change his mind and harden his heart again. This wasn’t just stubbornness—it was a pattern of spiritual pride that couldn’t bear the thought of submitting to authority beyond itself.

Pharaoh’s pride manifested in a very specific way: he kept trying to negotiate with God. He offered compromises—let the men go, but keep the women and children. Let everyone go, but leave the livestock. Go, but don’t go too far. These weren’t genuine attempts at obedience; they were attempts to maintain control while appearing to comply. Pharaoh wanted to give God just enough to make the problems go away, but not enough to actually surrender his authority.

The lesson is clear: when God tests us, He isn’t trying to take something from us—He’s trying to free us. Pharaoh’s downfall was pride. He believed he could maintain power, resist God, and still hold on to everything he valued. But in the end, pride cost him everything.

I know that test all too well. While my modern life looked different from ancient Egypt, the spirit of Pharaoh still lurked in my heart. Pharaohs saw themselves as divine guardians of order, masters of their own fate. I wouldn’t have claimed to be a god, but I certainly took pride in my ability to control outcomes.

Throughout my career, I prided myself on navigating complexity, solving problems, making smart decisions, and leading others through chaos. That ability opened doors and earned respect, but it also became a spiritual trap.

The corporate world rewards this kind of thinking. We’re taught to trust our instincts, rely on our expertise, and take credit for our successes. Performance reviews don’t include categories for “dependence on God” or “recognition of divine provision.” Instead, they measure our ability to deliver results through our own capabilities. Over time, this environment shaped my identity. I began to see myself as the primary architect of my success, the one responsible for generating the outcomes that mattered.

This pride wasn’t overt or obviously sinful. It was subtle, professional, and socially acceptable. I wasn’t boasting or being arrogant in obvious ways. I was simply operating from the assumption that my intelligence, work ethic, and decision-making ability were the primary factors in my financial success. This assumption felt reasonable, even responsible. But it was actually a form of practical atheism—living as if God’s role in my life was minimal and my role was maximum.

When it came to my finances—especially giving—I wanted to stay in control. After all, it was my money. I had earned it, managed it, and multiplied it. Why should I hand over ten percent to God on principle? I figured I could give on my terms, in my time, to my causes. Surely my wisdom in giving would be just as effective as God’s command to tithe.

This reasoning felt sophisticated and strategic. I convinced myself that I could be more effective with my giving if I researched the causes, timed the donations for maximum tax benefit, and chose recipients based on my personal values and interests. The tithe seemed rigid and outdated compared to my thoughtful, customized approach to generosity.

But underneath this rational veneer was the same spirit that drove Pharaoh to negotiate with God. I was trying to maintain control over my resources while appearing to be generous. I wanted to give God enough to feel good about my spirituality, but not enough to actually surrender my financial autonomy. I was attempting to be both generous and sovereign—a contradiction that reveals the depth of pride in the human heart.

The irony is that my “strategic” approach to giving actually produced less generosity than simple obedience would have. When I controlled the timing, I delayed. When I controlled the amount, I gave less. When I controlled the recipients, I chose based on my comfort level rather than God’s direction. My pride, disguised as wisdom, was actually limiting my ability to be the generous person I claimed to want to be.

But I was wrong. That mindset, though logical on the surface, was rooted in the same pride that plagued Pharaoh. It took me years to realize that my desire to stay in control was actually keeping me in bondage. My refusal to submit to God’s instruction wasn’t just disobedience—it was self-deception. I thought I was preserving my power, but I was actually forfeiting peace.

The bondage of financial pride is particularly insidious because it masquerades as responsibility. We tell ourselves we’re being good stewards when we’re actually being controlling. We convince ourselves we’re being wise when we’re actually being fearful. We believe we’re being generous when we’re actually being selective. This self-deception can persist for years because it’s reinforced by a culture that celebrates financial independence and personal control.

But here’s what I discovered: the anxiety that comes with financial control is exhausting. When you believe you’re responsible for generating, protecting, and directing all your resources, the pressure is overwhelming. Every market fluctuation becomes a personal threat. Every unexpected expense becomes a crisis. Every financial decision carries the weight of your entire future. This isn’t freedom—it’s slavery disguised as autonomy.

I can now say from experience: there is freedom in surrender. Tithing isn’t about loss—it’s about trust. When I finally released my grip and honored God with the first ten percent of my income, I didn’t feel depleted. I felt liberated. The anxiety, the pressure, the illusion of self-sufficiency—all of it began to fade.

The freedom came not just from the act of giving, but from the acknowledgment that God was the true source of my provision. When I tithed, I was declaring that my income didn’t originate with my abilities but with His blessing. This shift in perspective transformed not just my giving, but my entire relationship with money. I began to see my resources as tools for worship rather than monuments to my success.

If you’re standing at that crossroads—where your pride meets God’s test—don’t wait. Don’t go the way of Pharaoh. Don’t cling to what you can’t keep and miss out on what only God can give. Pass the test. Choose freedom. Surrender to the One who’s not trying to take from you, but trying to lead you into something far better.”

That’s just one short chapter—but it illustrates why I believe the tithe is such a powerful spiritual test. It’s not about subtraction; it’s about surrender. And when we surrender, we discover freedom. To grab the book and read more about how the test of the tithe helps us in our daily walk with God click the button below.

-Mark 

Kinsmen Debrief #2 – Learning from Ruslan KD on Godly Ambition

Today we’re continuing our Kinsmen Series, debriefing and re-presenting the learning that took place last week at the 2025 Kinsmen Summit. Each one of these sessions packed a different kind of punch, and my hope is that those reading today will not only enjoy the insights but also put a piece of it into practice in their daily lives.

Ruslan KD is a Christian YouTuber with a massive following. His videos are viewed by millions, and nearly a million subscribers engage with his content for its pursuit of truth and his willingness to challenge us to be bold followers of Christ. His story is a powerful one. He is of Armenian descent and did not grow up as a follower of Christ. There were no churches where he came from, and it was only after coming to the U.S. that he found Jesus.

To learn more about Ruslan after reading this article, click here: https://www.youtube.com/@RuslanKD

His recent book, Godly Ambition, was the topic of his discussion at the Kinsmen Summit. My notes and takeaways are presented below.

Jesus Shows Us True Ambition and Purpose

Before we can explore what Jesus teaches, let’s pause and consider what most of us think of when we hear the word ambition. In modern U.S. culture, ambition often means climbing to the top in business, sports, media, or pursuing a legacy people will remember. Our perception has been shaped by what we’re advertised. What we see becomes what we desire, but the problem is that chasing what the world offers leads to an endless game of comparison—always leaving us empty, restless, and seeking something different. The world will always disappoint us this way.

So how did Jesus handle ambition?

Real ambition—real purpose—comes through serving. Serving others is the holiest form of ambition when it comes to how we spend our time and energy on earth. If you want to be great, serve. The greatest among you is the one who humbles himself and is willing to be the least. The last shall be first, and the first shall be last. This is truly the upside-down Kingdom.

“For whoever would gain their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it.” – Luke 9:24

When it comes to ambition, accumulation is often its close cousin. Jesus warned against gaining the whole world while losing our soul. Too often our ambitions revolve around acquiring more of what the world offers, rather than stewarding what God has entrusted to us.

Service, Generosity, and Legacy

Developing a heart for service naturally grows a heart of generosity. Generosity is the antidote to greed. Wealth is a tool, not a trophy. We can either love money and use people, or use money and love people. Ruslan encouraged us to reflect on this distinction and develop a strategy that keeps love for people and generosity at the center.

As he wound down his talk, Ruslan shared some real-life examples and left us with a simple but profound reminder:

“If you want to build a legacy that outlives you, the changes and impact must first happen at your own dinner table.” -RKD

The table. What a powerful image. The table was a common place where Jesus connected with those He loved most. He taught at tables. He ate with sinners, with the wealthy, the noble, the poor, and even shared bread by a fire. His words and His willingness to serve connected deeply with those around Him.

We should take note. Each of us has influence over the atmosphere of our own homes. Around the dinner table, we can prioritize service, connection, and love with those closest to us.

True Godly Ambition

True godly ambition is stewardship. Our lives are not our own—they are on loan to us from God. Our purpose is to glorify Him with what we’ve been given and to attract those who do not yet know Him to His Son. To honor and love the Lord, and to make His love known, is the holiest ambition.

I’m grateful to Ruslan for such a powerful message, and I hope we all leave with a renewed vision of what ambition truly looks like in the Kingdom of God.

-Mark

Kinsmen Summit - Debrief #1 | Sonship + Fully Integrated

Kinsmen Debrief #1 – Learning from Sam Deford on Sonship and Being Fully Integrated

Today I’m starting a series of articles inspired by the 2025 Kinsmen Summit. The speakers and topics were rich, and each one poured into the men who were present in the room. My hope is to distill some of the wisdom that was shared so we can all benefit from the work and preparation of these leaders.

In this first Kinsmen Debrief, we’re featuring learning from Sam Deford—Pastor, Counselor, and Songwriter—on the topic of Sonship and being fully integrated. For more on this topic directly from Sam, you can read his article featured in the Kinsmen Journal:  Sonship — KINSMEN | We curate deep conversations for men. 

Opening Question: What does God think of us?

What does God think of me?

This is a fantastic question and one that has crossed my mind often. In my earlier years, I thought of God’s thoughts in much the same way I imagined the thoughts of men. I believed I had to prove my worth, achieve results, or live up to some ever-moving standard of potential.

Sam posed a second question that struck me deeply, and I’ll rephrase it here:

Will some accomplishment look me in the eye and tell me who I am?

We already know the answer. Of course not.

But culture will promise us that it will. Culture constantly gives us a script to follow and a story to pour our intention and energy into writing. The problem is that culture always overpromises and underdelivers. The good news? God just may want to re-story our lives.

Four Archetypes We Buy Into

Sam highlighted four archetypes—stories that many of us adopt in search of identity, but which ultimately leave us empty. As I listened, I realized which one I tend to live out. See if you recognize yourself in one (or more) of these:

1. The Builder
   We work hard. We build. That’s what we do. Our identity is tied to growth and achievement. We’re always comparing, pushing, and moving the needle just a little farther. But along the way, we often sacrifice people on the altar of productivity. The lie we tell ourselves? We're just hard workers. Hard work is our idol.
    

2. The Manager
   We plan. We budget. We optimize. We’re the rock for our organizations and families, ensuring everything gets done, on time. We handle multiple responsibilities and pride ourselves on being steady. The lie we tell ourselves? We’re in control.
    

3. The Visionary
   We dream. We chase impact. New ideas energize us, and bringing them to life makes us feel alive. Yet the applause fades quickly, and the impact is soon forgotten. The lie we tell ourselves? Fulfillment will come with the next big idea.
    

4. The Adventurer
   We crave escape. We love new experiences and the thrill of the hunt more than tangible results. We believe that adventure keeps us free, but we’re actually chasing an ever-escaping high. The lie we tell ourselves? The next adventure will finally satisfy.

Freedom Through God’s Label

At the Summit, I was shaken when I saw how much of myself—and those close to me—fit into one or more of these categories.

But the good news is this: there is freedom when we turn to the Lord and see how He labels us, not how culture does.

God names me His son. He names you His son or daughter.

God’s greatest desire? To renovate our hearts.

As 1 Samuel 16:7 reminds us: “The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

Fully Integrated Sons and Daughters

So how does this revelation help us in the never-ending swirl of work, family, to-do lists, and ministry? The answer is simple, but not easy: surrendering our hearts to the Lord.

Thriving men and women are people of integrity—those who are fully integrated. Whose inner life and outer life are at peace. Whose heart, mind, ego, ambition, and body are brought under the authority of God, resting in their identity as His children.

Jesus once said to the Pharisees in Matthew 23:25–26:
“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you clean the outside of the cup and of the dish, but inside they are full of robbery and self-indulgence. You blind Pharisee, first clean the inside of the cup and of the dish, so that the outside of it may become clean also.”

We must first surrender our hearts, becoming truly comfortable in our title as God’s child. As children, we don’t present a false self to the world. We are free to use our gifts as He calls, and our output, organization, ideas, and risks are surrendered to the One who calls us son and daughter.

Closing Prayer

So today, let those of us who are seeking pray for a holy disruption—that God would put our whole selves together, our lives in proper order, and our hearts fully at rest in Him.

-Mark

Numbering Our Days

Over the past few days, I’ve seen this particular Bible verse come up a lot. I don’t mind it—it’s one of my favorites. In fact, it hangs on the wall of my office:

“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” – Psalm 90:12

I love this verse, but I want to pause and break down two key pieces of it.

First: Numbering Our Days

When was the last time you actually numbered your days? I don’t mean figuratively, but literally. Let me give you an example.

I turned 41 years old in May. Today, I’m 41 years and 4 months old. Said another way, I’m 496 months old—or even further, 2,148 weeks old. Every single one of those weeks is behind me, already owned by death.

Of course, the time I have left is uncertain. None of us knows what tomorrow brings. But we can at least get an idea of what’s probable.

Based on 2023 data, the average life expectancy in the U.S. is 78.3 years. That’s about 4,071 weeks. So let’s do the math:

• Total weeks: 4,071

• Weeks lived: 2,148

• Weeks remaining: about 1,923

Nineteen hundred weeks. Under two thousand.

Now, you might see that as depressing—or you might see it as motivating. I lean toward the latter. The weeks really do fly by. Knowing that our days are limited can either bring despair or light a fire. The truth is, we don’t have forever here on earth. This life is temporary, but it’s also purposeful. How we live now echoes into eternity.

Second: A Heart of Wisdom

The verse doesn’t say “so we may gain wisdom” as in more knowledge or clever insights. It says a heart of wisdom. That’s different.

How does my heart get wise? How does numbering my days affect my heart?

Here’s my opinion. A real, honest look at our time connects our hearts to our Heavenly Father. Our days are a gift. Each one unique. Each one filled with opportunity, struggle, joy, pain, celebration, blessing, and consequence. All of it allowed by God.

And yet, we often spend our time worrying, planning endlessly, or trying to control what we can’t. But life keeps slipping through our fingers. As Jesus said in Luke 12:25–26:

“Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?”

God is after our hearts. He wants us to see our lives for what they are: a gift, fleeting but full of beauty, meant to glorify Him. While we’re here, we have the choice—will we fully live for Him or not? If we do, we experience His fullness now and forever.

Today's Challenge - Number ‘em

So here’s my encouragement: pull out a calculator and number your days. Do the simple math. Let that number sink deep into your heart.

Then ask God what He wants you to do with the days you have left. Specifically this day. Let His Word guide you. Test your thoughts within Scripture to be sure it honors God. And see how He begins to shape your heart with wisdom for how to use your next opportunity.

Because our days are numbered—but in His hands, they are never wasted.

-Mark

A Grief Observed

It’s hard to put into words the collective grief of a nation. It’s a strange, almost surreal feeling when someone full of life, hope, and love is taken suddenly in an unjust act. Something deep inside us tugs and reminds us: this isn’t right. Death happens in these ways everyday around the world—but there are moments when it happens to someone in particular, someone we all see, and we share a collective grief that’s hard to explain.

This morning I’m leaning on C.S. Lewis to process some of this grief, and I hope his words help you work through what we’re all feeling. In A Grief Observed, Lewis wrote:

“No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear. I am not afraid, but the sensation is like being afraid. The same fluttering in the stomach, the same restlessness, the yawning. I keep on swallowing. At other times it feels like being mildly drunk, or concussed. There is a sort of invisible blanket between the world and me. I find it hard to take in what anyone says. Or perhaps, hard to want to take it in. It is so uninteresting.”

This is where many of us may be today. Grief feels like fear, disillusionment, or a loss of interest in the things that captivated us just yesterday. My encouragement is simple: don’t be afraid for long. Work through it. Read on...

Lewis also describes another stage of grief, one I believe many of us will move toward as we process the mission and memory of Charlie Kirk. For this reflection, I’ll use his name where Lewis mentioned “H”:

“But the bath of self-pity, the wallow, the loathsome sticky-sweet pleasure of indulging it – that disgusts me. And even while I’m doing it I know it leads me to misrepresent Charlie. Thank God the memory of him is still too strong to let me get away with it.”

That feels true. While the weight of loss is heavy, when someone who lived with such conviction, passion, and drive is gone, their memory does not allow us to wallow for long. Their fire and their faith push us forward. The enemy we face has already lost the war. The forces of darkness cannot extinguish the light. In fact, every attempt to snuff it out only makes it burn brighter. Charlie’s light will not dim—it will blaze on, and he now enjoys the fruits of his labor in the presence of his Creator.

As Paul wrote in Philippians 1:21: “For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.” That is the truth for all of us who pursue the mission Jesus has called us to.

Still, many of us are asking the hard, unanswerable questions today. Lewis wrestled with them too:

“Where is God?”

He wrote about the silence, the aching sense that God was absent—or worse, indifferent. He even questioned whether such a God was worth believing in at all. But later, Lewis came to this reflection:

“When I lay these questions before God I get no answer. But a rather special sort of “No answer.” It is not a locked door. It is more like a silent, certainly not uncompassionate, gaze. As though He shook His head not in refusal but waiving the question. Like “Peace, child; you don’t understand.” Can a mortal ask questions which God finds unanswerable? Quite easily, I should think. All nonsense questions are unanswerable. How many hours are there in a mile? Is yellow square or round? Probably half the questions we ask – half our great theological and metaphysical problems are like that.” 

Today I rest in that. My mind is too small to wrap itself around eternity, or to understand why God allows such moments in time. It’s like asking why yellow is square or round—a question that makes no sense to begin with.

But here is what I know: life is temporary. Death reminds us of that with a sharp sting. Yet grief is not the end. Out of grief comes renewal. Out of loss can come strength. And out of tragedy, if we let Him, God can lead us into the very life Jesus promised when He said in John 10:10:

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”

-Mark

Handling Crazy Financial Times.

How to Handle It

I felt the need to write something about the current market and the very uncertain future that has become the norm over these past few years. The truth is, the future has always been uncertain. But ever since the pandemic, it feels like more and more of us are living on edge financially. The steadiness many once knew has been shaken when viewed strictly from the world’s point of view.

A few examples come quickly to mind:

1. From the top, our government deficits have become outlandishly large, and the unsustainability of these numbers stares us in the face each week through media and headlines.

2. Rapidly changing technology in AI and crypto has created anxiety about how our businesses and livelihoods may look in the years ahead.

3. Inflation is difficult to calculate but impossible to deny when we’re at the grocery store or buying a house. 

4. And of course—insert your own here. Each of us has felt the pressure of uncertainty in some personal way.

With that said, today I’d like to remind us of what Jesus said when He walked this earth in the flesh. He was human too, and the people of His day faced very real uncertainties. But instead of adding to the fear and noise, Jesus spoke a very different word. Let’s take a look.

1. Do Not Worry About Provision

“Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear… But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
— Matthew 6:25–33

Jesus reminded us that God provides for the birds of the air and the flowers of the field—and He values us far more than them. In times of uncertainty, Jesus points us away from fear and toward trust in our Father.

2. Store Treasure in Heaven, Not on Earth

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven… For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
— Matthew 6:19–21

Earthly wealth can vanish, especially in shaky economies. Jesus calls us to invest in what lasts forever: generosity, faith, and obedience. Seasons of lack and seasons of plenty will come and go, but our hearts should remain steady. With open hands toward our neighbors and faithful trust in God, we will endure whatever comes.

3. God Cares for His People

“Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? And not one of them is forgotten before God. Why, even the hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not; you are of more value than many sparrows.”
— Luke 12:6–7

Even in financially fragile times, Jesus reassures us that God notices and values us. He knows us better than we know ourselves. He sees the uncertainty, and He tells us not to fear—because He will provide.

How to go out this week.

Remember what we read in 1 John: “The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.” Our aim as Christians is not to satisfy every earthly concern or secure a fleeting sense of safety. Yes, we should be wise, make sound decisions, and act justly in the areas we control. But we should not spend our lives consumed by worry and fear about what might come next.

So today, as headlines shout for our attention, let’s keep opening our Bibles. Let God’s Word speak louder than the markets. And once our minds and spirits are renewed, let’s step out to bring perspective, hope, and the love of Christ to those around us.

-Mark

Be Pruned

Sometimes when I read my Bible, I come across a passage that strikes me in a new way. Lately, I’ve seen people stepping farther out in faith than they ever have before. They feel a pull they can’t fully explain, yet they know they’re being called to declare Jesus—not just on Sundays, but every day.

It isn’t about profession, age, or location. I’ve seen people from all walks of life—different careers, backgrounds, and circumstances—but with one thing in common: they love God and want to glorify Him through their work.

But here’s the reality: this revelation often comes with a cost.

Let’s read John 15:1–2:

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit He prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.”

That explains so much of what I see happening, and what I’ve experienced myself. When we are connected to Christ and desire to bear fruit for His Kingdom, things begin to change. Our hearts, minds, desires, and actions shift.

But without pruning, all that energy can get misdirected—toward frustration, rejection, or even being used against us. Jesus knows that in order for us to bear more fruit, we need refining. Cleansing. Re-shaping. And that process isn’t always comfortable.

Those who have walked through seasons of pruning often look back with gratitude, but when you’re in the middle of it, it can feel confusing, painful, and uncertain.

If that’s you this week, take heart. Jesus makes a promise:

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” – John 15:5

Remain in Jesus. You will bear much fruit. Even when it’s hard. Even when it feels like everything is being stripped away. Remain in His love, and pursue Him daily.

And remember this:

“You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. This is my command: Love each other.” – John 15:16–17

Jesus chose you. He gave you a specific mission, a unique place and time, a sphere of influence, and gifts that only you can carry. And He provides everything you need: His love, His provision, His grace, and His truth.

So let Him refine you. Let Him prune what doesn’t belong. It may not feel good when the Gardener takes the shears in hand, but it’s a sign you’re ready to grow again.

-Mark

Am I Working or Playing?

This week, my schedule was all over the place. I had meetings for my businesses, projects for Tithe Foundation, commitments with other nonprofits, things at my boy’s school, and prep for future podcasts and book releases. It felt like a mess on paper—but the truth is, I loved every bit of it.

It reminded me of something a business mentor once told me. He said he hoped that, from the outside looking in, people would never be able to tell if he was working or playing. Was he doing something that brought in revenue, or was he giving freely of his time and energy? The goal wasn’t to separate the two—it was to live in such a way that they blended together.

That stuck with me, because the real magic of fulfillment comes when we use our strengths, gifts, time, and resources for things that truly matter to us. That’s when we’re most aligned with our Creator—using what He’s given us to glorify Him. And more often than not, the clearest way we do that is by loving others.

Jesus talks about this very thing in Matthew 5:14–16:

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

When we put our gifts to work—whether in business, ministry, or everyday life—God’s light shines through us. It can’t be hidden. Others see it in action, often more clearly than through a sermon or a book. Our actions bear witness to His love, and that glorifies the Father.

What’s interesting is that when I’m using my gifts, I’m not consciously thinking, “Let your light shine.” I’m usually just doing the work in front of me, and it feels natural. But when I see someone else living fully in their calling, it’s unmistakable. Their light shines bright, and it’s clear that God is being glorified. Funny how it’s often easier to spot in others than in ourselves.

So this weekend, wherever you are, remember this: God has uniquely gifted you. He’s uniquely gifted everyone you know. Use your light—and when you notice someone else shining theirs, tell them. Thank them. Because sometimes it’s hard to tell if someone is working or playing. And honestly? That’s the best part.

-Mark

Teachable vs. Coachable

There are many areas of life where being coachable is critical. You hear it in sports, in business, and even in leadership circles. But I don’t hear much anymore about being teachable. For most of us, that idea seemed to stop once school was over.

Instead of being taught something new, it feels like everything today is about being coached while in the act of performing. Coaching is valuable—but lately I’ve been reminded that sometimes I need more than coaching. Sometimes, I need to be taught. Or even re-taught. From scratch.

There are moments when I have to unwind my old way of thinking, start over, and approach a subject from a brand-new perspective. Coaching in motion isn’t always enough. I need the kind of instruction that allows me to stop, listen, and learn.

Coach vs. Teacher

Let’s look at the definitions:

• Coach: A person coaching in sport, involved in the direction and training of a team or athlete.

• Teacher: A person who teaches or instructs, especially as a profession; instructor.

On the surface, these look similar—but they’re not the same.

A coach is a guide, someone who encourages, corrects, and helps refine your performance. But a teacher goes further—they instruct. They give you the building blocks, the framework, the step-by-step path forward when you don’t yet know what to do.

Instructions are for people who don’t yet know the way—whether it’s in a board game, an IKEA project, or a recipe. In life, too, we need teaching.

Jesus: Our Teacher

This made me ask: When I think about Jesus, is He my coach, or my teacher?

I looked it up:

• Number of times Jesus is called “Teacher” in the Bible: 60.

• Number of times He is called “Coach”: 0.

Jesus taught His disciples. Of course, He corrected them when needed, but more than anything, He gave them instruction for life and truth.

Here are just a few examples:

• “Jesus was going throughout all Galilee, teaching in their synagogues and proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every kind of disease and every kind of sickness among the people.” — Matthew 4:23

• “For He was teaching them as one having authority, and not as their scribes.” — Matthew 7:29

• “Rabbi, we know that You have come from God as a teacher; for no one can do these signs that You do unless God is with him.” — John 3:2

• “Early in the morning He came again into the temple, and all the people were coming to Him; and He sat down and began to teach them.” — John 8:2
   

I won’t list all 60, but the point is clear: Jesus is our Teacher. He taught then, and He is still teaching today through His Word and Spirit.

Slow Down and Learn

Lately, I’ve been challenged to slow down, open Scripture, and let Jesus teach me. When I give Him the space, I see new things. I learn. I re-learn. I begin to see with fresh eyes.

And this doesn’t just apply to faith. Whether in business, family, or friendships, there are always new things to learn if we remain teachable.

So my best advice? Turn toward the Great Teacher and give Him room to show you the way forward.

-Mark

Fully Awake

This week has been fantastic. A rich mix of meetings — work, partnerships, nonprofit activity, and plenty of family time as we plan for the upcoming school year. Each conversation was different and unique, but all were full of opportunities to be fully awake and fully alive.

Today in my Bible reading, I came across the verse that inspired this title:

“Peter and his companions were very sleepy, but when they became fully awake, they saw his glory…” — Luke 9:32

The context here is the transfiguration of Jesus. His face changed, and His clothes became as bright as a flash of lightning. That’s what it took for Peter, James, and John to truly wake up. Honestly, I think that’s probably about what it would take for me too.

To be fully awake and fully alive in Jesus Christ would be the ultimate way to live. But so far, I haven’t met anyone who’s completely living that way — and based on Luke 9, it seems the twelve disciples didn’t have it mastered either. Still, we see throughout the New Testament that they did have moments — moments when they were on fire, alert, and laser-focused on spreading the Gospel.

This week, I’ve seen glimpses of this kind of living all around me:

• Businessmen, parents, teachers, and friends taking bold steps to use their God-given gifts for the Lord.

• Prayer in the workplace, Bible studies starting in offices, and generosity flowing from business profits.

• Teachers and parents committed to raising children with a biblical worldview as the school year begins.

• Mortgage professionals and realtors partnering to help a family achieve homeownership, then donating from that closing to help neighbors in need.

Fully awake. Even for just a moment.

Jesus is present in every moment with us. Always by our side. Sometimes our eyes are heavy and our hearts distracted. Other times, we are aware — really aware — of His presence. In those moments, our steps look different, our hearts are open to His call, and our actions reflect His heart.

My prayer as we end this Friday is that our eyes and hearts would awaken to what God has for us this weekend — that we would walk in step with Jesus along the way.

-Mark

You are Not Just Chasing the Wind

My Work IS Ministry

These past two weeks I’ve had conversation after conversation with people who are using their work, their expertise, and their relationships to advance meaningful conversations about Christ with those who don’t yet know Him. It’s humbling to hear these stories.

I’m not shy about my faith, but I’m still learning how to fully recognize and appreciate the daily opportunities in front of me—not just to make a difference in someone’s day, but to potentially impact their eternity.

Here’s what’s humbling: more often than not, it’s not some big thing that “I” need to do. God opens hearts when they’re ready. My part is often found in the small, ordinary things I’m already doing—the simple gateways that invite conversation and give a real-life example of Christ’s love. Not in sermons. Not in complicated theological debates. But in real life.

Last week, I re-read the book of Ecclesiastes. It’s a challenging read if you’re already questioning whether your daily work matters. Some verses will make you feel that point even deeper unless you’re ready to wrestle with them.

Solomon writes:

“For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge, the more grief.” – Ecclesiastes 1:18

I’ve felt that. There have been times when I’ve achieved big goals, only to be met with a sort of emptiness. Everyone moves on. Life resumes. And that moment you thought would pause the world… just passes.

Solomon puts it bluntly:

“Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun.” – Ecclesiastes 2:11

But that phrase “under the sun” matters. Because there are gains in this life—and in the next—that aren’t always visible in earthly terms. Later, Solomon lands on a simple truth:

“I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.” – Ecclesiastes 3:12–13

We’re here for a short time. We must eat and drink, yes—but we’re also called to find satisfaction in the work God’s given us. That means your job, your gifts, your location—it’s not random. It’s a God-placed opportunity.

And if you approach it with that perspective, you may not just change someone’s earthly future—you could change their eternal one.

So today, if you feel like you’re chasing the wind… if knowledge feels like it’s only adding to your grief… take heart. Your work matters. Every day is full of redeemable moments with the people around you.

Open your heart. Ask great questions. Take interest in others. And you may find that God will use you right where you are in ways more meaningful than anything on your résumé—impacting lives not just under the sun, but for all eternity.

-Mark

Partner Wisely

Truthful, loving partnerships are hard to come by. I don’t care if we're talking about business, marriage, or ministry—two people who want the best for each other, love each other’s strengths, and are willing to tell the truth have the recipe for doing something extraordinary together.

Now... two of those things are relatively easy. Wanting the best for someone and appreciating their strengths? That’s doable. Even admirable. But telling the truth? That’s where it gets hard.

I consider myself incredibly blessed. I have that kind of truth-filled, loving partnership with my wife. I experience it with my business partners. And I’ve found it in nonprofit work, too. These relationships are among the most valuable things in my life. I can count on them—even when the work is difficult. We celebrate wins. We wrestle through challenges. And most importantly, we urge each other forward in life because our hearts are aligned around the same mission.

Let’s look at a biblical example of this kind of partnership—one that experienced ups, downs, and everything in between.

Paul & Barnabas

Key Passages: Acts 9, 11, 13–15

1. Love and Loyalty

Barnabas was one of the first believers to trust Paul after his dramatic conversion. While others still feared Paul for his past as a persecutor, Barnabas stepped in as an advocate.

“But Barnabas took him and brought him to the apostles...”
— Acts 9:27

This act of trust was pivotal—it gave Paul a place among the apostles and helped launch his ministry.

2. Shared Mission

Paul and Barnabas traveled together on Paul’s first missionary journey (Acts 13–14), preaching the gospel, planting churches, and enduring serious hardship. Their partnership was built on a shared love for Jesus and a willingness to suffer for the sake of the Kingdom.

3. Truth in Tension

But even the best partnerships experience friction. In Acts 15:36–41, we read about a moment of deep disagreement:

“They had such a sharp disagreement that they parted company.”
— Acts 15:39

The issue? John Mark. Barnabas wanted to give him a second chance after he had previously abandoned them. Paul wasn’t convinced. Their convictions pulled them in different directions. This wasn’t about ego—it was about a genuine difference in how they believed the mission should move forward.

4. Reconciliation Over Time

Later in life, Paul’s heart softened:

“Get Mark and bring him with you, because he is helpful to me in my ministry.”
— 2 Timothy 4:11

This tells us something powerful—Paul came to respect Barnabas’s perspective and saw the value of John Mark’s restoration. It’s a beautiful reminder that even after tension, truth and love can pave the way to reconciliation and renewed respect.

The mission of expanding the gospel was central to both Paul and Barnabas. Life didn’t get easier. Their opinions didn’t always align. But their hearts stayed rooted in what mattered most—faithfulness to God and the call to make disciples.

If you’re blessed with God-loving, life-giving partnerships, don’t take them for granted. Water them. Celebrate them. Invest in them.

If you don’t yet have that, but you’re seeking it—pray often and link arms with people who share your core values. Small disagreements and differing opinions are inevitable. We’re human. But shared conviction on what matters most will keep you united and moving forward.

We can’t do life, business, or ministry alone. We need each other.

Partner wisely.

-Mark