3 Points: The Triangle of Control
Just this morning I covered it with a small team in one of our Foundation businesses. All of us could use a quick refresh on what God has placed in our hands, and examine how we’re utilizing the opportunity.
The 3 components shown in the diagram, in my opinion, encompass the majority of what we have control over in life. Unfortunately, it’s very little. While examining these three points, I’ve leaned into the fact that God is fully in charge, fully in control, and that it’s best that way. I’ve taught on this piece to hundreds of leaders in the past. Just this morning I covered it with a small team in one of our Foundation businesses. All of us could use a quick refresh on what God has placed in our hands, and examine how we’re utilizing the opportunity.
LET’S EXAMINE TRIANGLE OF CONTROL TOGETHER.
POINT #1 - TIME
If asked, many would say that time is a resource. Clearly, in this example, it is not. It’s displayed in a totally separate point on the triangle. Remember – this triangle is about what we consider to be in our “control”. Time itself is not in our control, but the allotted time that we are given is. In the equation of control, time is a constraint. It is a limiting factor, not something we can use. All things being equal, for every human on planet earth that makes it through each day, we are given the same identical constraint of 24 hours. 1,440 minutes. No more, no less. For every human being who makes it to age 80 – we are given the same number of weeks in life. Just 4,160. No more, no less.
This is not a resource that we can pay for, extract more of, or count on. It’s a limiting factor that we all experience throughout our lives, with an undetermined expiration date. Some of our greatest human fears exist because the limiting factor of time is so deeply sown within our hearts. We fear death because we have a clock ticking on our life. We fear the future because we don’t know how long it will last, or what it will bring. We crave meaning because we know that we don’t have forever to figure our life. Time is always on our minds, and always expiring, whether we like it or not.
POINT #2 - RESOURCES
We all have various degrees of resources at our disposal. Everyone from the richest man on earth to the poorest and most isolated have unique resources available. Let’s break down some practical examples that mostof us in America wake up with every single day.
1. Food. We can all typically get something to eat. Allows us to think longer term, rather than just finding our next meal for survival.
2. Shelter. Most of us can get into a shelter or already have permanent housing.
3. Cell phones. An overwhelming percentage of us now have simple means of instant communication via call and text.
4. The Internet. More so than ever we have information and purchasing power at our fingertips.
5. Education. Whether publicly available schools or the library, we have access to information and instruction like never before.
6. Electricity. We have the ability to see well into the night, which allows us to get far more done than previous generations before us.
7. Transportation. Cars, buses, trains, planes, boats, scooters, uber – we now have so many ways to get around even if we don’t own a vehicle. Many options are getting cheaper and more accessible even to less affluent populations.
8. Work. In today’s modern economy there are more ways to make income than ever before. Traditional jobs are still the norm, but a growing number of ways are emerging to be your own boss. Income diversity and income optionality has grown, providing resources and access to money in ways never seen in world history.
The resources at our disposal may be different, but they are plentiful and available in modern society in ways sometimes not known to historical Kings and Queens. Egyptian Pharaohs never knew the luxury of air-conditioning or turning on a light bulb. Even the richest of ancient rulers had to endure weeks of hard travel to see parts of their kingdom. Today, we can literally fly to the other side of the world in less than 24 hours. Time may be our constraint, but our resources are abundant. We are living through a time where the imagination is sometimes our greatest limitation.
POINT #3 - CHOICES
Well, here we are. With a time constraint and today’s available resources. What often separates the good from the great, or those we admire from those we forget, are the choices that we make with what we have available. Our choices mean everything. Now, this piece of the triangle is the most complex. Our choices are a reflection of our perceptions on how we judge incoming information, the belief structure that we rinse those perceptions through, and our ability to sift through potential rewards and consequences of our actions pertaining to those beliefs. Some choices are habits that are well formed and given little thought, and some choices are made based on current information. Our choices are what actually defines us. No one has ever been remembered for what they received – only for what they gave or did with what they had available. This prong of the triangle is the difference maker for all of us, whether a company or individual.
Today our reminder is that time is limited. Our resources are God given. Our freewill dictates how we’ll use what we’ve got with the time that we’ve got left. Up to us, but God is calling. He has plans and wants more for you than you could ever imagine. Today I’m doing some praying over which piece of the puzzle he’d like me to examine more closely, so I can get closer to him. Praying for you that you’ll all think on this and do the same!
-Mark
The Tithe - A Guard for Our Heart?
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23
This verse isn’t casual. It’s not a suggestion to “check in” with your heart once in a while. It’s a clear, urgent instruction: “Above all else.” That means this is priority number one.
Protection for My Heart
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23
This verse isn’t casual. It’s not a suggestion to “check in” with your heart once in a while. It’s a clear, urgent instruction: “Above all else.” That means this is priority number one.
Why? Because everything in your life—every word, every decision, every action—flows from the condition of your heart. And that’s why God cares so much about it. It’s the command center of our soul. Jesus knew this, which is why He tied our hearts so directly to our treasure.
Let’s start by looking at how God designed the physical heart. Here’s a summary from Harvard Medical School:
“The heart beats about 2.5 billion times in a lifetime, pushing millions of gallons of blood to every part of the body. This flow carries oxygen, fuel, hormones, and essential cells, while also removing waste. When the heart stops, vital functions fail—some almost immediately.”
Let’s break that down. Here’s what we learn from the physical heart:
It delivers life-giving nutrients to every part of the body.
If it fails, the body shuts down—instantly in many cases.
Poor habits (diet, inactivity, smoking) can damage it.
Buildup of harmful “gunk” (plaque) can clog the flow.
Healthy habits practiced early help prevent future issues.
Even if we’ve gone down the wrong path, course correction is possible.
Now let’s consider this: If the condition of our physical heart is that critical, what about our spiritual heart? The principles are the same. And if left unguarded, both can be damaged—by poor inputs, by neglect, by compromise.
The Spiritual Heart Mirror
Jesus' teaching on treasure and Solomon’s instruction in Proverbs both emphasize that your spiritual heart is the source of life. If it’s clogged—by greed, distraction, bitterness, or misplaced trust—the flow of your spiritual life is disrupted.
And here’s the good news: just like with your physical heart, there are healthy habits that protect and restore your spiritual heart. I believe tithing is one of the most powerful of those habits.
How the Tithe Mirrors Healthy Heart Habits
1. It’s Spiritual Exercise
Think of the tithe like a workout plan. You don’t get in shape by exercising once a year. It’s consistent, intentional, and builds over time. When you tithe regularly—whether from a salary, wages, or business—you are practicing discipline that strengthens your heart toward God.
As your income grows, your giving grows. And just like building muscle, the impact compounds. It aligns your priorities, shapes your habits, and trains your heart to put God first.
2. It Brings You Close to the Body
Where your treasure is, your heart will be also—and so will your presence. When we tithe into our local church, we become more connected to that community. We begin to care more. We show up more. We serve more.
Over time, it becomes a natural rhythm: giving, worshipping, growing, living life with others who are also aligning their hearts with God’s. Your heart grows toward the Kingdom when your treasure flows toward it.
3. It Turns the Physical Into the Eternal
In John 6, Jesus tells us His flesh is real food and His blood real drink. This wasn’t about physical nourishment—it was about eternal sustenance.
Likewise, when we tithe, we take something physical—a paycheck—and turn it into something spiritual. It’s not just charity. It’s worship. It’s declaration. It’s acknowledgment that God is our provider. And when we give, He uses it to impact eternity.
4. It’s a Prescription for Spiritual Flow
When the physical heart has blockages, doctors prescribe medications, new diets, or even surgeries to restore flow. Spiritually, when we’re clogged—by worry, pride, self-reliance—the tithe acts like a prescription to restore our connection to the Source.
By returning a portion to God first, we re-establish a proper flow in our spiritual lives. The result? Clarity. Peace. Purpose. Alignment. We stop hoarding and start trusting. We stop striving and start resting in God’s provision.
Final Thoughts
God doesn’t need your money. He wants your heart. And He knows how tied those two things are.
If everything in life flows from the heart, then we should be eager to guard it. And few practices protect the heart better than the consistent, faithful, joyful act of tithing. It cleanses, realigns, restores, and refocuses us on the One who gives us life in the first place.
So, guard your heart. Not just with words, but with your worship. Let your giving be part of your spiritual fitness routine—a habit that keeps your heart pumping strong for the Kingdom of God.
-Mark
Clear.
Clarity is one of the things I’ve sought more than almost anything else in life. And I know I’m not alone. I know dozens of leaders right now who are searching for clarity—some navigating complex business circumstances, others running teams that seem to be pulling in different directions, and still others re-evaluating what they’re even trying to achieve in the first place.
Clarity is one of the things I’ve sought more than almost anything else in life. And I know I’m not alone. I know dozens of leaders right now who are searching for clarity—some navigating complex business circumstances, others running teams that seem to be pulling in different directions, and still others re-evaluating what they’re even trying to achieve in the first place.
That’s normal, by the way.
Many ventures begin with a sense of competency in a particular field or a passion for a specific cause. Once things are in motion, the learning begins—and often, so does the questioning. Re-evaluating what you're trying to impact is not a sign of failure; it's a sign of growth. It’s healthy.
I’ve gotten this wrong in the past. But because of those mistakes, a few of the things I’m involved in today have become much clearer. Tithe Foundation is one of them.
What I love about the mission we’re on through Tithe Foundation is that it’s simple and clear:
"Honor God with our work, love our neighbor with proceeds, and help others do the same."
Missions that last typically revolve around just a few meaningful components. When those components are aligned, clarity becomes the foundation. Here are five key questions I’ve found essential to creating and sustaining clarity in any mission:
WHO?
Who should be on the mission? Just as importantly, who is the mission for?
WHY?
Why is the mission important enough to pursue? This answer can’t be manufactured—it has to come from something real.
WHERE?
Where is the impact focused? Are we going broad, or are we aiming to influence a specific place or group?
WHAT?
What actions will we take to fulfill the mission? Ideas must translate into action over time.
HOW?
What systems, rhythms, and accountability structures will we use to ensure we’re progressing and staying on course?
These questions may seem simple, but they’re not easy. If the answers are too vague or shallow, the cracks will show over time.
Let me walk you through how we’ve addressed each of these within Tithe Foundation:
OUR WHO
The mission is for Christ—to advance His Kingdom through our work.
Christian business leaders are on this mission with us, and more are welcome to join. There is room for all.
We carry this out by fueling local nonprofits so they have what they need to make an impact in their cause areas.
OUR WHY
Jesus says in Matthew 22:
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.
This is the first and greatest commandment.
And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.
Our mission is a direct response to this call.
We exist to honor God with all that we do and love those in need around us.
We believe this glorifies the gifts God has given us and the time He’s blessed us with on earth.
OUR WHERE
We work in our local markets.
We chose to stay local because we want to be the hands and feet of Jesus and witness the direct impact of our mission.
Our business partners know that our aim is to serve and uplift the very communities where we live and work.
OUR WHAT
We tithe.
Each business in our network has dedicated their work to God and committed to return the first 10% (or more) of company profits to Kingdom causes.
Many also give their time, encouraging employees to serve within select nonprofit uorganizations.
Money and time—poured out to meet real needs. Tracked, compiled, and distributed at agreed upon intervals.
OUR HOW
We give throughout the year and gather quarterly to vote on grant distributions.
Here’s how it works:
Nonprofit partners apply for grants.
Our internal team vets applications and nonprofit needs.
The most impactful opportunities are presented to our business partners on a quarterly basis and in a specific and repeatable format.
After fully understanding the needs, partners vote on grant awards.
Distributions go out the very next day.
Impact is tracked and stories—both successes and struggles—are shared at each meeting.
Annually, we produce a full impact report for all partners to review and celebrate the year’s progress, while preparing for what’s ahead.
We don’t claim to be perfect.
But we aim to be clear.
If you’re a leader wrestling with uncertainty, I hope this framework helps.
If any of the five questions above haven’t been answered for your mission, start there!
One thing's for sure - your team needs clarity.
It may not be easy to define, but they crave it—and when you can help them understand the WHO, WHY, WHERE, WHAT, and HOW of your work, the momentum will follow.
-Mark
2 Stories, 2 Opportunities
This past weekend I was hit with some perspective—a powerful reminder of why we must stay alert for Kingdom opportunities wherever we are. I want to share two stories: one personal, the other through the eyes of my team. Together, they paint a picture of how God continues to move through the everyday lives of His people.
Kingdom Opportunities
This past weekend I was hit with some perspective—a powerful reminder of why we must stay alert for Kingdom opportunities wherever we are. I want to share two stories: one personal, the other through the eyes of my team. Together, they paint a picture of how God continues to move through the everyday lives of His people.
As we pursue business, family, and personal obligations, it’s easy to forget that Jesus is actively at work all around us. But we—His church—are called to be His hands and feet. While He can move wherever and however He wants, He most often chooses to move through us. He works through the willing.
Friday Night in Indianapolis
I was in Indianapolis for a golf event, staying in an Airbnb downtown. While my family, friends, and I were enjoying a fun evening inside, someone outside was experiencing one of the worst moments of their life.
My brother and I heard a car horn repeatedly honking in an unusual way. We looked out the window and saw a lone vehicle with the lights on in a nearby lot. We decided to step outside and check it out. What we found was heartbreaking.
A young woman named Lilly was in the car, going through a severe mental and emotional crisis. We called for emergency help, but while waiting, we began speaking with her through the window. Little by little, she opened up. We assured her that she was not alone, that God saw her, and that He loved her deeply, even in this darkest of moments. We were able to pray with her, comfort her, and help her to see that God had sent us there for her. It was no mistake.
She made it through the night. But the memory has stayed with me because it was such a clear example of a Kingdom opportunity. One we could have missed had we ignored the moment.
Saturday: Beds for Kids
On Saturday, some of our team members delivered beds to children in need around our city. Just 15 minutes from where most of us live, they encountered families living in some rough conditions. Children were sleeping on floors or in very inadequate arrangements. It was sobering to see, which wasn't new for this team.
But it was also motivating.
Our team’s love for the people they served was evident. I heard the stories when they returned, and while my heart often breaks for the realities others face, it also leaps with hope when I witness the compassion and generosity of those I get to work with. God is clearly on the move—through people who are willing to serve in whatever ways they can.
The Scriptures I Can’t Shake
There are two verses I haven’t been able to shake this week:
“Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.”
— Matthew 25:40
“Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”
Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”
— Luke 10:36–37
I can’t shake these verses for two reasons:
First, Jesus has already done everything for us. His invitation in Matthew 25, that when we care for others, it’s counted as if we’ve done it for Him is stunning. He knows each of us so well and loves us so deeply that when we show love to others, He receives it as love for Himself. That’s a beautiful truth.
Second, Jesus gives us a command in the parable of the Good Samaritan: “Go and do likewise.” That means when we see need, when we're wronged, when someone around us needs mercy, we must react. Being a neighbor, being a follower of Christ, means loving the people Jesus loves. And who does He love? Everyone.
The Opportunity Ahead
Sometimes Kingdom opportunities won’t be convenient. Sometimes they’ll disrupt your schedule or stretch your comfort zone. But the Holy Spirit is undefeated in introducing the right moment for His people to act.
Let’s keep our eyes open this week. Let’s live with purpose and compassion, remembering that God is on the move—and He wants to move through us!
-Mark
The Clock Is Winding Down
I had breakfast this morning with a friend who always leaves me feeling both challenged and encouraged. I know he left feeling the same. We do that for each other. There’s something powerful about friendships like that, ones that sharpen and stir you toward something greater.
I had breakfast this morning with a friend who always leaves me feeling both challenged and encouraged. I know he left feeling the same. We do that for each other. There’s something powerful about friendships like that, ones that sharpen and stir you toward something greater.
One part of our conversation struck us both in a deep and uncomfortable way. We talked about the tension between our desire to do meaningful work for the eternal Kingdom of God and the reality of living in a world full of distractions, distortions, and detours. Sometimes those distractions don't just slow us down, they stop us altogether. They keep us from starting the very things God may be calling us to do.
We let ideas and callings lie dormant, waiting for a “someday” that may never come.
That thought stuck with me all day.
Earlier this week, another friend passed along a sermon from Pastor Philip Anthony Mitchell of 2819 Church. It was about the signs of the times and being ready. Like really ready. Whether Christ returns in our lifetime or we meet Him when ours is over, the call is the same: Be found faithful.
One specific part of Jesus’ words in Matthew 24 hit me like a freight train:
Matthew 24:6–8
“You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places.
All these are the beginning of birth pains.”
Birth pains. That phrase—Matthew 24:8—landed differently this time.
I’ve read that verse before, and I always assumed “birth pains” meant we still had a long way to go. But that’s not how birth pains actually work. Birth pains don’t start at conception. They don't come in the 1st, 2nd, or even most of the 3rd trimester. They come very near to the end, and as the moment of delivery draws closer, they intensify. They become more frequent and more severe.
That realization opened my eyes.
We are living in the time of contractions. The pressure is mounting. The urgency is growing. The clock is winding down.
Whether Christ returns soon or we meet Him at the end of our personal race, the time to act is now. This is not the season for passive faith. It’s not time to coast, check out, or hope someone else takes responsibility for making Jesus known.
We are the Church.
We are His hands and feet.
And we’ve been given our time, talents, treasure—and even our reputations—to steward for His glory.
That was the conversation at breakfast this morning. It wasn’t just casual encouragement; it was a call to wake up, press in, and step out. Use your gifts. Pick up the cross assigned to you. The Holy Spirit is present and ready to move through anyone who walks in step with Him.
It won’t be easy. But it will be worth it.
So here’s my challenge to you, as it was to me:
Don’t wait.
Not another week, not another year, not for a perfect moment that may never come.
The clock is winding down. Time to take the shots.
-Mark
The Main Thing
It sounds kind of obvious, but having a focus on the main thing is essential. There are so many distractions available to us throughout our time here on earth. I’d be willing to bet that most people, if given a few quiet minutes, could write down the top 3–5 things that matter most to them in life.
It sounds kind of obvious, but having a focus on the main thing is essential. There are so many distractions available to us throughout our time here on earth. I’d be willing to bet that most people, if given a few quiet minutes, could write down the top 3–5 things that matter most to them in life.
Now here’s the challenge: if we tracked and recorded our daily activity for 24 hours, I’d also bet that many of us would hesitate to present that day’s footage as proof that those priorities were actually lived out. I say that from personal experience. I used to be great at writing down what was most important to me, and then spending my time on something else entirely. The urgent, the loud, or the convenient would pull me away from what I truly cared about.
So—what is the main thing?
For followers of Jesus Christ, we don’t have to guess. Let’s look at Mark 12:28–31:
28 One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”
29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.
30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’
31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
Love the Lord your God—with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. The Main Thing.
Wow. That’s a tall order. And it begs the question: how much of my day is spent intentionally directing my heart, soul, mind, and strength toward loving God?
The truth is, God is always loving me. I exist by his pleasure, created in his image, and for the purpose of glorifying him. But—he allows me to choose how often I become aware of his presence. How often I seek his Kingdom. How often I speak with him. How often I act on his behalf, to do his will.
These are my choices. They matter. To God, and to those around me.
We would all do well to make our main thing obvious by how we spend our time. We may not be recorded 24/7 (at least, not yet), so it’s easy to live distracted. But one day, we will give an account.
And on that day, it will be clear: our hearts, minds, souls, and strength were never better spent than when they were focused on Jesus.
Just a gentle reminder—to myself, and to all of us:
Let’s stay focused on the main thing.
-Mark
An Army Is Rising!
Week after week, I feel this happening. I see it with my own eyes. If I didn’t see it, I might not believe it. But I’m here to tell you that it’s the truth.
Week after week, I feel this happening. I see it with my own eyes. If I didn’t see it, I might not believe it. But I’m here to tell you that it’s the truth.
An army is rising—like one I’ve never seen before. It’s the leaders and the doers in business. Their yearning for more is beginning to take shape. Rather than work simply for the here and now, they want something more significant. They want real influence that lasts. And they’re finding it. Honoring God with their work and making a lasting impact beyond the dollars and cents of their product or service is their aim.
Today, I met with four business guys—all back to back. Their expertise ranges from financial planning to real estate development, all the way to SaaS sales. The common thread? A love for Jesus, and a desire to use their influence and network to grow God’s Kingdom and make Him even more known.
God isn’t new at assembling armies. At times, He does it through humanity. Other times, He does the heavy lifting on His own. I’m reminded of an army that was assembled from the least expected of places in Ezekiel—from the dead and dry bones laid before him. Let’s read from Ezekiel Chapter 37:
3 He asked me, “Son of man, can these bones live?”
I said, “Sovereign Lord, you alone know.”
4 Then he said to me, “Prophesy to these bones and say to them, ‘Dry bones, hear the word of the Lord!’
‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: Come, breath, from the four winds and breathe into these slain, that they may live.’”
10 So I prophesied as he commanded me, and breath entered them; they came to life and stood up on their feet—a vast army.
The army of business and marketplace believers is being assembled. Our work matters quite a bit to God. He’s not as much worried about our success for earthly gain, but He does want us to be wildly successful—all with a motive to honor Him with our gifts, and to use what we obtain to make some noise and shake things up for His Kingdom. To let the light of Christ shine through us. At work, at home, in leisure, and in rest.
The silent army may have been considered dead. The marketplace may have been thought of as taken over by the secular. But a breath of life has been spoken over a multitude, and I believe it’s just getting started. Our work will indeed become sacred again.
For those already living this way—we’re about to be joined! We’ll need you to help mentor the next generation hungry for more.
The army is assembling—time to have some fun!
For any interested in talking more or learning how to process what's next - message me directly!
-Mark
Break Pedals
Every now and then, taking your foot off the gas can be a very good thing.
I’m not talking about quitting your mission or giving something half-effort. I’m talking about hitting the brake pedal, intentionally, for the purpose of rest and recharge.
Every now and then, taking your foot off the gas can be a very good thing.
I’m not talking about quitting your mission or giving something half-effort. I’m talking about hitting the brake pedal, intentionally, for the purpose of rest and recharge.
Last week, I had the opportunity to do just that with my family on a much-needed vacation. And let me tell you: nothing reveals where you really stand in your work, relationships, and personal well-being quite like slowing down.
Jesus did this, and I believe for very good reason.
Jesus Took Breaks on Purpose
Scripture shows us again and again that Jesus withdrew to isolated places (Luke 5:15–16). In Mark 6:30–32, after His disciples returned from ministry, He told them:
“Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” (Mark 6:31)
They got in a boat and went away, even though crowds were still pursuing them. Needs were great—but so was the need for sustainable rhythms.
Jesus didn’t model endless output. He modeled restful obedience and wisdom.
Even the Savior of the world paused.
What I Learned on the Brakes
This past week, I learned a few things in the slowdown:
I realized how many things pull at my attention that really aren’t that important.
I remembered what I love most about my daily pursuits in work, family, and ministry.
I thought of people I hadn’t connected with in a while who matter deeply.
Most of all, I invested fully in the ones who will one day sit in the front row at my funeral—my wife and my sons.
Break time and the brake pedal are powerful tools in the life of someone who wants to live and lead with intention.
Back in Action
I’m thankful to be back—and recharged.
Purposeful rest leads to purposeful next steps.
As the summer rolls on, I hope you get a day or two to tap the brakes. Not to drift off-course, but to regain your bearings and come back with clarity, joy, and energy.
Let’s not just run hard—let’s also rest well.
-Mark
Expertise vs. Experience
Today, more than 120 men gathered to glean wisdom from over a century of combined fatherly and grandfatherly experience. Kingdom Dads hosted a powerful event for fathers and sons, centered around one simple but profound goal: learn from those who’ve walked the road ahead of us.
Old Guys Know.
Today, more than 120 men gathered to glean wisdom from over a century of combined fatherly and grandfatherly experience. Kingdom Dads hosted a powerful event for fathers and sons, centered around one simple but profound goal: learn from those who’ve walked the road ahead of us.
Three “sages”—seasoned leaders of businesses, ministries, churches, and, most importantly, families, shared from the well of their lives. What stood out most wasn’t their expertise, but their experience.
So often, when we attend panels or conferences, the draw is someone's niche expertise. And that’s valuable. Tactical insights matter. But when it comes to fatherhood, there isn’t a formula. No manual can tell you how to handle the curveballs that come with raising a family. There's no perfect calendar to balance work and family, no app to pre-program intentional moments of love, correction, or legacy.
Because God didn’t make robots. He made people. And each one of us is different. Different kids. Different parents. Different stories.
That’s why experience matters so deeply.
Being a dad is about leadership. And leadership is best learned not just from theory, but from those who have lived it well.
Here were the three biggest takeaways from today’s panel:
1. “You will never have more energy than you have today.” – Sam Koon
The point? Invest now. Take the time now. Have the conversations that matter, while you still can. Be playful, be present, be all-in.
As life progresses, our children’s energy drifts toward their own pursuits—and ours naturally fades. Sam reminded us: don’t wait to engage. Today is the most powerful day you have.
2. “Family Together Nights.” – Doug Franck
Doug shared a brilliant tradition—nights set aside with one goal: be together.
No distractions. Just games, cooking, dinner, and conversation. One idea especially stood out: he’d sneak hand-written questions under each kid’s dinner plate. During dinner, they’d reveal and answer them as a family.
Simple. Intentional. Unforgettable.
The goal isn’t perfection. It’s connection.
3. “You cannot lead farther than you’ve gone.” – Tyler Flynn
Tyler, a pastor of nearly 30 years, has preached thousands of sermons. But what mattered most wasn’t his ministry—it was that his family never took second place.
He shared a recent story of walking through a health crisis with his wife. A brush with death that tested everything. Through it, their children and grandchildren witnessed living faith. Unshakable trust.
Tyler’s challenge was simple but strong: keep pursuing Jesus daily. Your spiritual growth isn’t just for you—it becomes a path others can follow.
Experience vs. Expertise
Both matter. Sometimes we need laser-focused advice to solve a specific problem. Other times, we need a wide-lens perspective to navigate something as sacred and nuanced as raising a child.
Today, we were blessed by experience.
And I believe every man in that room left changed. Sharpened. Strengthened. Inspired.
Not just to become better fathers—but to become better Kingdom Dads.
-Mark
Decide.
Such a hard word to figure out, isn’t it?
To decide on something feels so permanent. Final. Like crossing a line you can’t come back from. And yet, in reality, we change our minds all the time. That’s part of being human. Still, we often make the mistake of evaluating our decisions through the lens of absolutes...using words like always and never.
Such a hard word to figure out, isn’t it?
To decide on something feels so permanent. Final. Like crossing a line you can’t come back from. And yet, in reality, we change our minds all the time. That’s part of being human. Still, we often make the mistake of evaluating our decisions through the lens of absolutes...using words like always and never.
We look at the future as if one choice locks in our path forever. Or when something changes, we assume what once was will never return. That’s where the phrase “burn the ships” comes in.
The phrase originates from the story of Hernán Cortés, the Spanish conquistador who landed in Mexico in 1519. Faced with unrest among his crew and fear of retreat, Cortés ordered the ships to be scuttled and burned. There would be no turning back. His men had one choice: move forward.
Most of us aren’t landing in a foreign land preparing for conquest, but we are faced with decisions every day that shape our direction. So the question becomes:
Which decisions should I commit to long term?
Which decisions should I hold with flexibility and revise as I go?
And how can I stop thinking in absolutes and start living in a daily posture of trust in God?
1. What should I commit to long term?
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment.
And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
— Matthew 22:37–40
This is the one decision you can stake your life on: Love God and love others. There’s no expiration date on that. No scenario where it goes sour. Jesus said everything else hangs on this. If you’re looking for a rock-solid commitment to build around, this is it.
2. Which decisions should I be willing to revise daily?
“A man had two sons. He went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work in the vineyard today.’
‘I will not,’ he answered, but later he changed his mind and went.
Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, ‘I will, sir,’ but he did not go.
Which of the two did what his father wanted?” The First.
— Matthew 21:28–31
We’ve all made impulsive choices. We've said things we didn’t follow through on. Sometimes we commit too quickly, other times not quickly enough. The good news? God gives grace and space to change your mind.
It’s not weakness. It’s maturity. The son who reversed course did the Father’s will. So should we—whenever our hearts tell us it’s time to make things right.
3. How can I think less in absolutes and more in a posture of daily trust in God?
“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
— Matthew 6:34
Here’s a truth we all know deep down: Change is one of the only guarantees in life. We resist it, we fear it—but it keeps showing up. Jesus reminds us to stop living in tomorrow and start showing up for today.
So take a breath. Slow down. Walk with God today. Give this 24 hours your full attention and effort. Leave space for God to work in tomorrow’s unknown. Easier said than done, yes, but often all we need is a little reminder.
So—Decide.
Your decisions matter. They shape your life, your relationships, and your walk with God. Some decisions deserve bold, lifelong commitment. Others need to be held with humility and surrendered to the Spirit’s correction.
If you’re facing a crossroads today, don’t move forward alone. Ask Jesus to guide you through His words in Matthew. He still speaks, and He still leads for those who ask.
-Mark
Real Urgency.
Today, I had lunch with a man I believe to be a living legend, Dr. Duke Heller. He’s likely the oldest living pioneer in the field of dental implants, a global award-winner, a published author, a generous influencer who’s shaped university dental programs, a mentor to high-profile college coaches, and a friend to some of the biggest voices in personal development.
Today, I had lunch with a man I believe to be a living legend, Dr. Duke Heller. He’s likely the oldest living pioneer in the field of dental implants, a global award-winner, a published author, a generous influencer who’s shaped university dental programs, a mentor to high-profile college coaches, and a friend to some of the biggest voices in personal development.
But here’s the most powerful thing: Duke has used every bit of that influence not for his own glory, but to spread the love and truth of the gospel. He’s led thousands to Christ. Not just from the pulpits or conference stages he's spoken through, but through one-on-one conversations, right across the table from someone like me. At 87 he isn't slowing down. He's just released another book, speaking at more conferences than ever, and volunteering consistently with multiple outreach groups. I learned a lot today, but here are the top 3.
Wisdom from Duke:
1. Time is Short—And Eternity is Real.
I said that Dr. Heller is 87. He’s seen friends, family, and colleagues pass on. Some expectedly, others suddenly. The reality? Life is fragile. The days we’re given are uncertain and few. We must live with the urgency of eternity. Sharing Jesus isn’t something we can keep putting off. It’s the most important thing we can do.
2. One Bold Question Can Open the Door.
Duke looked me in the eye today and said, “Can I ask you a personal question?”
I said yes.
“Can you tell me the exact time you accepted Christ as your Lord and Savior?”
That question hit me. Not because I didn’t know the answer, but because of the power it carried. It can spark deep reflection on that moment or open a conversation that changes someone’s life forever. Sometimes, it only takes one Spirit-led question to shift someone’s entire eternity.
3. There’s No Time Left for Fear.
I spent years afraid to talk to friends and family about Jesus. I didn’t want to be “that guy” or seem weird. I was fine playing it safe. But now? I can’t imagine keeping quiet. I still struggle sometimes, especially with people close to me, but God is working on that in me.
And here’s the truth: we have the answer to eternal life. How can we justify keeping it to ourselves?
Duke gave me some of his personal resources today I plan to read. But more than that, he gave me a living example of selfless giving—of what it looks like to finish life well.
So why write this?
To honor a man who isn’t coasting into the sunset but sprinting across the finish line with purpose and passion. And to remind you (and myself) that we are called to live with real urgency. Our purpose isn’t just about this life. It’s about preparing ourselves and others for the life to come.
If you're like me—sometimes afraid, sometimes unsure—ask the Holy Spirit for courage and wisdom. He’ll give it. And when in doubt… be like Duke!
-Mark
More than a Meal.
Last Saturday night, I had the joy of sitting down to a traditional five-course Italian meal prepared by a great friend and his wife. There were six of us around the table. Let me tell ya, they went all out. Every dish was cooked to perfection and brought out in a perfectly timed sequence. You could taste the love in every bite. I wish I could cook like that!
Have a Meal!
Last Saturday night, I had the joy of sitting down to a traditional five-course Italian meal prepared by a great friend and his wife. There were six of us around the table. Let me tell ya, they went all out. Every dish was cooked to perfection and brought out in a perfectly timed sequence. You could taste the love in every bite. I wish I could cook like that!
But as amazing as the food was, the best part of the evening wasn’t on the plate. It was around it. It was in the conversation. In the laughter. In the stories. There’s something powerful about sharing a meal with people you care about. When you break bread together, you also break barriers. Issues are explored, opportunities are vetted, and life is lived out in real time bite by bite.
It’s no wonder Jesus so often chose meals as moments for ministry. Of all the things the gospel writers could have shared, many of the most memorable scenes take place around a table. Here are just a few:
The Calling of Levi (Matthew’s Banquet)
Matthew 9:10–13; Mark 2:15–17; Luke 5:29–32
Jesus eats with tax collectors and sinners at Levi’s house, angering the religious elite, but offering grace to the hungry and broken.Meal After the Disciples’ Mission Trip
Mark 6:30–31
After sending the disciples out to preach and heal, Jesus brings them back together to rest and to eat.Dinner at Martha and Mary’s House
Luke 10:38–42
Jesus dines at the home of His friends. While Mary sits at His feet and Martha serves, the table becomes a place of teaching and tension and grace.The Last Supper
Matthew 26:17–30; Mark 14:12–26; Luke 22:7–39; John 13–17
This wasn’t just a meal. It was a moment that changed history. Jesus used bread and wine to illustrate the coming sacrifice of His body and blood. These were His final words before the cross.
Jesus did more than just eat at these meals. He taught, challenged, comforted, and loved. And He still does.
Meals have a way of slowing us down. They quiet our scattered thoughts and center us in the moment. The table gives us space to pray, talk, listen, and really see the people around us. In a world where we’re always on the move, these opportunities are rare, but they’re worth making time for.
So this week, make the effort. Carve out time. Invite a friend. Have a real meal. Let Jesus pull up a chair at your table. You might be surprised by what He reveals in the breaking of bread.
And to my incredible friends who made that night so special—thank you. You know who you are.
-Mark
In Common
Have you ever sat down with someone you just met and, after an hour, felt like you’d known them for years?
That happened to me this morning. A connection through a mutual friend turned into one of those conversations that just flows. We had plenty in common. A similar background in our industry, a shared faith in Christ, both raising kids, both trying to lead well at home and at work. There was a lot of overlap.
Have you ever sat down with someone you just met and, after an hour, felt like you’d known them for years?
That happened to me this morning. A connection through a mutual friend turned into one of those conversations that just flows. We had plenty in common. A similar background in our industry, a shared faith in Christ, both raising kids, both trying to lead well at home and at work. There was a lot of overlap.
But one thing stood out: we both shared the common struggle of doing hard things that require faithful steps into the unknown. That journey — walking into fog with trust instead of clarity — is something not everyone understands.
Because here’s what all humans have in common: a deep desire for clarity and some sense of control. We want to know what’s next. We want to feel secure. We want certainty.
But here’s what not everyone has in common: a faith that trusts God even when the path is uncertain. A faith that holds fast when the answers aren’t clear. A belief that God is in control even when we are not — that He provides, has a plan, and is working for our good even when nothing makes sense.
That’s uncommon faith. And when you meet someone who shares it, when what is rare in the world becomes shared at the table, something powerful happens. There’s a supernatural confidence. A spiritual alignment. Jesus said, “Where two or three are gathered in My name, there I am in the midst of them.” How true that is.
So today, if you’re walking a road that demands uncommon faith, here are a few verses to remind you that you’re not walking alone — and that what you have in Christ, though uncommon in the world, is shared by others who are following Him faithfully too:
Mark 5:34
This verse shows a woman who had exhausted every other option. Nothing else had worked — but she still believed Jesus could heal her.
“He said to her, ‘Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.’”
Romans 4:20–21
Abraham’s faith in God’s promise didn’t waver — even when obedience seemed to contradict that promise.
“Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God… being fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised.”
Daniel 3:17–18
The faith of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego went beyond this world. They trusted God would deliver — but even if He didn’t, they would not bow.
“Our God whom we serve is able to deliver us… But if not, be it known to you, O king, that we will not serve your gods.”
Hebrews 11:7
Noah had never seen rain. No one believed him. But for 120 years, he kept building. Faith isn’t always flashy — sometimes it’s just long obedience in the same direction.
“By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family.”
Remember this: what we share in Christ is sometimes foreign to the world. Our faith might look foolish. Our obedience might look risky. But we know there’s more to this life than what’s visible, and that makes sense to us.
So from time to time, sit with someone on the same path. Talk. Pray. Listen. Be reminded that you're not alone in the uncommon. What we have in common as believers is special, and it gives us energy and confidence to keep going.
-Mark
Just Persevere.
Many times in leadership or in roles where creation or business is the focus, difficult seasons have a way of lingering longer than we’d like. So, we innovate. We make the necessary changes. We do our best to stay positive.
But we’re human. And eventually, the extra effort starts to wear us down.
Many times in leadership or in roles where creation or business is the focus, difficult seasons have a way of lingering longer than we’d like. So, we innovate. We make the necessary changes. We do our best to stay positive.
But we’re human. And eventually, the extra effort starts to wear us down.
Lately, I’m hearing this story from many business owners and leaders. It’s been a tough stretch across many industries over the past several years. Some leaders have risen to the occasion. Others have walked away in search of a simpler path forward.
Both of those responses are normal. They’ve repeated themselves throughout history. As the wise Solomon once said, "There is nothing new under the sun."
But if you’re reading this and you're feeling the strain, yet deep down you know you’re called to this path, my best advice is this:
Just persevere.
Let’s define that for a moment:
per·se·vere: to persist in a state, enterprise, or undertaking in spite of counterinfluences, opposition, or discouragement. To continue in a course of action even in the face of difficulty.
For those of us who started something, chose to be part of something, or felt called to a particular field, difficulty was part of the deal. It was never a reason to quit.
Most of us began this journey knowing it wouldn’t be easy… but we believed it would be worth it. Any mission worth pursuing will require risk. It will demand hard work. That’s why we keep showing up, even when it feels like no one sees, no one cares, or when we ourselves wonder if it will make a difference.
Still—we press on.
The Bible has something to say about moments like these:
James 1:12
“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.”
Leaders often face trials. James connects perseverance with eternal reward—encouraging us to stay faithful under pressure.
Galatians 6:9
“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”
A powerful call to persistent leadership—especially when fruit isn’t immediately visible.
Romans 5:3–4
“We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”
These seasons are not wasted. They shape your character and deepen your hope—critical for leaders becoming more like Christ.
So if this is you today, count the pressure you’re under as formation. Your character is being refined. And yes, you do have hope.
If the mission you’re on was a chosen one, remember what you love about it. When your heart first decided on it, something stirred in you. Don’t forget that. Revisit your calling. Reclaim your joy, even in the difficulty.
Stand the test of time.
When the season of reaping comes, you’ll look back on these trials with gratitude. They’ll become the stories you tell, and some of your proudest memories. So examine your mission again. And if it still passes the test of your heart…
Just persevere.
-Mark
Secret Service.
This morning, my wife and I had the joy of serving with The Bridge Ministries in downtown Columbus. It was a full house—between 80 and 90 guests came through the doors for a hot meal. It was a blessing to be part of it.
This morning, my wife and I had the joy of serving with The Bridge Ministries in downtown Columbus. It was a full house—between 80 and 90 guests came through the doors for a hot meal. It was a blessing to be part of it.
There’s really nothing like serving others freely. The effort is never wasted. The conversations are always interesting. The bond that forms between those we serve, those serving alongside us, and even between ourselves and God is something sacred.
And here’s the secret: every time we open our calendars and our hearts to serve, we are the ones who are served.
The Holy Spirit has a way of showing up when we decide to pour ourselves out for others. This morning, I had the chance to sit and talk with a 36-year-old man named Ed. I heard his story. Where he came from, how he ended up in Columbus, and what he hopes for in the future. From the outside, Ed and I may seem like we’re worlds apart. But in that moment, we really connected. We prayed together. We saw and heard one another, not as strangers, but as brothers in Christ.
The Bible encourages us to cherish these moments:
“Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring… you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.”
— James 4:13–14
“Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
— Matthew 6:34
“Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.”
— Romans 12:16
“When you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed…”
— Luke 14:12–14
Today, I was given the gift of being fully in the present, not concerned about what came next, but focused on the moment right before me. There was so much freedom in that. Sitting, listening, and praying with someone who lives a very different life, but meeting him in that moment, on level ground, was a blessing for us both.
This is the secret service that happens inside the heart when we give freely. God ministers to us in those hidden spaces. He does something quiet but powerful. Something eternal.
Let’s not take these moments for granted. Let’s model the heart of God—not only in what we do publicly, but in how we open our hearts privately.
As we head into the final stretch of the week, let’s find ways to serve. You never know how God might meet you there.
-Mark
The Punch List.
Many times throughout the week, I find moments to sit back and plan. Other times… not so much.
There’s rarely a perfect balance between knocking out the real, immediate things right in front of us and following a perfectly orchestrated game plan. It just doesn’t work that way.
Getting It Done
Many times throughout the week, I find moments to sit back and plan. Other times… not so much.
There’s rarely a perfect balance between knocking out the real, immediate things right in front of us and following a perfectly orchestrated game plan. It just doesn’t work that way.
Mike Tyson is famous for saying, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.” He’s right. And unfortunately for us, life seems to enjoy throwing punches...daily.
While we aim to stay focused on what matters most, the little “punch list” items don’t take care of themselves. They pile up. They distract. They steal focus. And yet, they still need to get done.
Today, I started my morning by tackling some of those lingering tasks. The ones that aren’t glamorous but make a big difference in clearing mental clutter. As I moved through them, I began to reflect on what Scripture has to say about work, effort, and the value of getting things done.
Here are a few verses that stood out:
Proverbs 14:23
“In all toil there is profit, but mere talk tends only to poverty.”
This gives me peace. Each task, whether big or small, holds value when done with the Lord by our side. Too much talk and not enough action? That’s the enemy robbing us of purpose.
Ecclesiastes 9:10
“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going.”
This encourages me to approach even tactical, everyday tasks with intentional effort. Nothing is too small in God’s eyes.
1 Corinthians 10:31
“So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
Even in the most basic daily tasks like eating or drinking can glorify God. He designed our needs. He created nourishment. And He wants to share in those ordinary moments with us.
John 4:34
“Jesus said to them, ‘My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to accomplish his work.’”
Even Jesus, with His ultimate mission, had normal work to do. I imagine He still had to take out the trash from time to time. That grounds me. I don’t want to take those moments for granted.
So today, if you find yourself lost in the mundane or stuck in the monotonous—know this:
God is with you.
He’s walking through the routine right alongside you. He designed it. He understands it. And He’s glorified in it.
There is purpose in the process, and there is glory in even the smallest acts of obedience.
So whatever you’re working on today, turn your attention to Him, and see how He responds!
-Mark
We Remember
Memorial Day is a powerful reminder. A sacred pause to remember those who have sacrificed everything on behalf of others. Deep within us, there is something instinctive, something honorable, that stirs when we think about those who have made the decision to serve, knowing full well that the possibility of death lies before them. And yet, they choose to serve anyway.
Memorial Day is a powerful reminder. A sacred pause to remember those who have sacrificed everything on behalf of others. Deep within us, there is something instinctive, something honorable, that stirs when we think about those who have made the decision to serve, knowing full well that the possibility of death lies before them. And yet, they choose to serve anyway.
They are drawn to something greater. Drawn to the servant-hearted call of protecting a cause larger than themselves. For them, the possibility of ultimate sacrifice is not something to be avoided. It’s a price they consider worth paying.
I am supremely grateful to the men and women who have made that decision. Today, I’m praying for them, and for the families and friends left behind. Because their sacrifice echoes far beyond the battlefield. It lingers in the lives of loved ones, in empty seats at the dinner table, in quiet tears and proud memories. To all who carry that weight: thank you.
On this Memorial Day, I cannot help but reflect on how the brave lives we honor also mirror the ultimate sacrifice that Jesus made for us on the cross.
While the men and women we remember today gave their lives to protect us physically, Jesus gave His life to protect and redeem us spiritually for all eternity. He came not as a conquering king, but as a humble servant. He took on our nature. He bore our sin. He paid the ultimate price so that we might be forgiven and brought back into relationship with the Father.
Let’s read these powerful words from Philippians 2:5–11 together:
In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!
Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
— Philippians 2:5–11
Jesus humbled Himself.
He served.
He sacrificed.
And because of that, He is exalted forever.
Today, we honor those who have sacrificed for us in a lesser but still sacred way.
They too humbled themselves.
They served.
They sacrificed.
And they deserve to be held in a place of honor and deep esteem.
Their actions reflect some of the very same qualities our Lord Jesus Christ displayed. Today we remember the fallen, and we lift up the families who carry their legacy.
And above all, we stay focused on the hope and glory of Jesus Christ. Because of His sacrifice, we can be confident in where the men and women we honor today have had the opportunity to go: Home. With our Lord. In perfect peace and love.
Let us pray today not only for those who grieve, but for the living—that many would come to know this hope, this Savior, this love. So that one day, when our names are remembered here on earth, our souls might be rejoicing together in Heaven.
-Mark
Staying Hungry
I just left a meeting deeply inspired by three guys who are changing the game. They’re giving a generation of college and professional athletes a platform to magnify Christ and boldly share their faith with millions across the country.
I just left a meeting deeply inspired by three guys who are changing the game. They’re giving a generation of college and professional athletes a platform to magnify Christ and boldly share their faith with millions across the country.
The crazy thing? They don’t even realize how special it is, because they’re in the thick of it. Head down. Focused. Faithful. They’re using their gifts, talents, networks, and time to lift up others. They’re thinking of themselves last. While each of them has real personal needs, it’s the mission that carries them forward. That mission is the fuel that keeps them grinding. I'm talking producing content, traveling, editing, and working at a pace most of us would buckle under.
These guys are hungry.
But not for food.
Not for money.
Not for recognition.
They’re hungry in the way Jesus described:
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”
– Matthew 5:6
They’re seeking the Kingdom. Hungry to be useful to Jesus and His call to spread the gospel and make disciples. They’re doing it at a cost.
One walked away from career opportunities that most young men would jump at.
Another has a massive personal platform in the sports and media world, but spends countless hours editing, traveling, and shooting content for the ministry.
The third is using his business skills and data analytics to help the team stay focused, measuring impact, and ensuring the mission doesn’t drift.
Their lives remind me of another promise from Jesus:
“So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’
For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
But seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
– Matthew 6:31–33
I believe Jesus. And these men should take heart in His words.
They hunger and thirst for righteousness.
Jesus promises—they will be filled.
They are seeking first His Kingdom, and so, their needs will be met. Because their priorities are rightly ordered.
What I saw today was a deep level of trust in action. These guys are hungry to grow. They’re asking the right questions. They’re sharpening their skills. They’re not losing sight of the mission—they’re doubling down on it. The aim of their ministry is pure, and the effort they’re pouring into it is beautiful to witness.
It’s also a ton of fun to watch.
My businesses will be supporting their work in various ways. If you’re someone interested in partnering with or donating to a ministry that’s actively inspiring the next generation, I’ve listed their website and social media links below. Check them out. Support them. Share their story.
And most importantly—let their example inspire you.
Seek the Kingdom today, right where you are, in whatever you’re doing.
Because if we believe the words of Jesus, then we know this:
When we stay hungry for the right things—
We will be filled.
We will be a blessing.
And we will be blessed.
God bless you!
-Mark
"Who's the Wise Guy?"
Over the past two days, I’ve had eight face-to-face meetings with business partners within our Foundation. Each conversation was meaningful, each person unique. These are men and women undeniably called by God into distinct businesses and ministries, yet united by a common mission: to impact the world around them for Christ.
Wise Guys...
Over the past two days, I’ve had eight face-to-face meetings with business partners within our Foundation. Each conversation was meaningful, each person unique. These are men and women undeniably called by God into distinct businesses and ministries, yet united by a common mission: to impact the world around them for Christ.
But my final meeting today stood out. It was a quiet personal meetup, and it was powerful.
This particular man has been a mentor and coach to me for the past two years. We haven’t spent tons of time together, but the time we have spent has been of the highest quality. He knows me. I mean to the core of me. My strengths and gifts. My goals and desires. My stories, both the inspiring ones and the messy ones.
Our conversation today touched on a lot of topics. But I paused to tell him something important.
Yes, he’s considerably older than me. Yes, he’s wise.
Yes, he’s trained to ask great questions and offer strong feedback.
But none of those are what make him unforgettable.
What he isn’t trained to do, what doesn’t show up on his résumé, is something you can see in his eyes the moment he sits across from you.
He cares.
He really, truly cares.
It’s in the way he looks at you. The way his eyes respond to the words you speak. The way he notices how you’re sitting, how your shoulders carry the day. The way he hears even what you didn’t say about the issues or opportunities you're discussing.
He gives away what God has given him, not just on the outside—but from within. His presence is a gift. A donation of the heart. And that kind of offering can’t be measured. It’s priceless.
I saw two verses from Hebrews come to life in him today:
Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters. — Hebrews 13:1
Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. — Hebrews 13:7
May we each take something from this and apply it to our next conversation.
Let our goal not simply be to provide wisdom or insight.
Let our goal be to love. To care deeply for the person across from us.
Let us watch those who live out their faith well and let their lives be a beacon of hope to follow.
Thank you for the dedicated time today, and for being an example.
You know who you are.
I appreciate you, wise guy.
-Mark
Seek More Trust…
This week, I’ve found myself in several conversations where one theme kept surfacing: clarity. People were either seeking it, asking for prayer that it would be revealed, or even struggling with what to do once they had it. Sound familiar? It does to me. I seek clarity all the time. If I’m being honest, I rarely ever find it.
This week, I’ve found myself in several conversations where one theme kept surfacing: clarity. People were either seeking it, asking for prayer that it would be revealed, or even struggling with what to do once they had it. Sound familiar? It does to me. I seek clarity all the time. If I’m being honest, I rarely ever find it.
It’s a very human thing to fear the future. So...we seek clarity. We wonder about what’s next, and we do our best to plan ahead in hopes of making things more secure. Clarity isn't a bad goal, but when it becomes our main pursuit, it can easily lead us to frustration and even paralysis.
A good friend of mine shared a story at lunch this week that brought some real perspective to this search for clarity. It involved a well-known figure of faith: Mother Teresa.
While on a mission trip, a group of people sat down to pray with her before heading out to serve. She asked what she could pray for, and the group asked her to pray that God would give them clarity about their long-term mission.
Her response?
No.
She refused to pray for clarity. But she didn’t refuse to pray.
Instead, she told them that she would pray for trust. That their trust in the Lord would grow, and that they would pursue a daily walk with Him into the work He had called them to. Why? Because long-term clarity and full knowledge of what’s ahead requires no faith. But trust, especially trust in the absence of full understanding, builds faith.
Faith grows not when we have all the answers, but when we take the next step anyway.
It reminded me of one of the most well-known and well-loved Proverbs:
Proverbs 3:5–6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
So, as we close the week, here’s my prayer for every set of eyes that makes it this far into this edition of the Daily Tithe:
That God would reveal just enough for our next steps to be firm, but hold back just enough to stretch our faith.
That we would have enough understanding to move, but need enough dependence to draw closer to Him.
And that in all things, Jesus would be glorified.
-Mark